>>40104670calling dating as a cis woman "easy mode" is an incel talking point yes
and i admit i was being a little facetious when i was telling him to "start acting like a man", but fact is that women like confidence more than height, short guys expend so much energy to try to act tall when they could just own their body and have much more success. i personally know lots of short (5'2-5'6) guys who made this shift and almost immediately found success
you jumping immediately to curse my dating prospects without taking a step to consider what i was even saying makes me think you're someone who gave up because they had no success from approaching the dating environment with incorrect assumptions, and is now resentful of anyone they see as "having had a better chance than them"
i hope you grow to be better in the future and let go of all this bitterness in your heart
>>40104712the reality of dating as a (cis) woman is that most men seek to use you for sex instead of wanting a genuine relationship, i understand that this is the case for lots of women on dating apps too
the balance might be skewed but the amount of people actually willing to date among either population is pretty much even. we just have to wade through more dirt to get to the people who actually want to date
if you treat fetishists who want to treat you as an object for their paraphilia as legitimate partners then you need to readjust your way of thinking, sex is maybe 10% of what goes into a healthy relationship