>>40105590 (OP)What youโre describing long and short term power dynamics.
Masculinity is about short term dominance. Itโs aggressive and fast, and incredibly dangerous. Men are often impatient and powerful, like a gorilla. They can destroy a room like a bull in a china shop and fuck a victim like a hellhound.
Femininity on the other hand is long-term dominance. It is slow-burning, creating incremental control through data, months, and years of calculated discipline. Femininity is like a spider weaving an intricate series of webs, or an anglerfish forming a brilliant pearl of light. Once the boa wraps its prey, there is no wriggling free.
Women outlive men. Men will hurt you or kill you. Women will destroy your life.
Women cultivate control of dominant, aggressive protective partner through years of attention to diet, beauty, and social finesse. Men/tops may be dominant in the short term but women/bottoms are the real winners so long as they can poison his good looks and fitness through fattening him up and making him comfortable.