>>40114306 (OP)>>40114364>>40114379>>40114525>broke>stupid>scared>ugly>uselessI think the real issue is that literally nobody would ever want to be with someone like you regardless of any other effort you take to meet them. You're pretty much shoving moldy bread in someone's face and asking why they don't eat it.
Genuinely, make severe efforts to work on yourself, your health, and your wealth. Do not doom scroll and listen to wound lickers. Find a solution to an issue and implement it. If it fails find out a reason why that isn't related to you, just what you do.