reminder that anyone can be gay.
>but i'm too manly
perfect, gay guys like you that way.
>but guys are too manly
you'll end up loving them that way.
>but i can't do anal
anyone can do 10-15 minutes of stretching daily to healthily increase the size of cock you can take. and no, as long as you don't forcibly stretch your hole, you won't have any toilet problems when you get older.
>but i have hemorrhoids
creams exist to treat those easily, ask your pharmacist. 4-5 times a day apply a very small amount to your hole, hemorrhoids go away within weeks
>but i'm afraid of std's
always have tested with confirmation whoever you want to have sex with, or have them wear a condom if you're a giga slut.
>but people will think i look ugly/cringe/embarrassing
there's always a way for literally anyone to look good (yes, even those with facial deformities). experiment with different styles, find out what fits your facial/body structure.
>but i live in a homophobic country
work your way to immigrate to an actual country like everyone with standards, if anything you have the luxury of a life purpose.
>but i don't like anal
then don't do it, suck dick instead.
>but i don't like sucking dick
then don't do it, have your ass fucked instead.
>but i don't like anal or sucking dick
then don't do it, do frotting instead.
>but no one will ever love me
learned helplessness and low self-confidence are behaviors that are not set in stone. change comes from small but frequent and consistent actions. start by experimenting with clothes, nothing too slutty, just enough to see what makes you feel good to wear.
>but i'm a bear that wants to be a twink / a twink that wants to be a bear
big bottoms and small tops exist and are highly appealing to many. but if you really want to look the part you want, then you have the luxury of a life purpose.
>but my ass is too small
glutes exercises are the easiest of all workouts to do, and transition well to fuller workout plans.
>but-
love yourself. gay or not.

>>40118276 (OP)
you don’t have to do anal to be gay.

>>40118318
>then don't do it, suck dick instead

>>40118318
exactly. anal is still something important to address though, since it's a big factor that keeps some guys closeted, fear of the unknown and all that. i used to think it was something i couldn't do despite wanting to, but demystifying it helped me alot come out of the closet

>>40118276 (OP)
In my heart I have always felt deeply deformed In the way i look even if most people can say I look completely normal, I find myself repulsive, and I don't think even gay men would want to pound me

>>40118498
it's just a matter of perspective. do you tend to see the ugly details in other people's faces and bodies? probably not, so why do that towards your own face and body? because you learned a bad habit, and nearly any habit can be changed with small but consistent efforts. make it a trend in your life to look in the mirror and notice one good detail about your face or body, even if it's just once a day, it'll amount to something much bigger later.

>>40118318
I tried saying that a few times on here but it would only result in me getting dogpiled and told i suffer from internalized homophobia (as if that makes any sense)