>>40124845

qott: would you date a big beautiful woman?

no

>>40127364 (OP)
Yeah Pichus hot as fuck

miserable today same. but noone cares. my appearance effects how people treat me. i’m not physically attractive so i don’t deserve friends or love.
going to emotionally shutdown for a while and focus on my physical appearance. if i can’t fix that i might as well die.
being a husk of a person in attractive skin clearly works better to an trying to “b urself” and “cultivate inner beauty”
you can be rotten inside and if you are hot people will still want to be around you. if you are ugly and kind they will only want you around for as long as it takes to exhaust your kindness.

How do I get rid of “autism eyes”?

>>40127364 (OP)
having to work with a gigahon is slowly killing my attraction to tranners
>>40127375
>beard shadow
>hot as fuck

>>40127375
Is that pichu in the OP? She's cute and breedable.

>>40127404
are you a boy?

>>40127364 (OP)
Does she wear diapers

>>40127404
it depends on how bad it is and if you're a guy or a girl

>>40127411
He looks like a generic balding autist in a wig

>>40127415
I’m a tranny

>>40127411
lmfaooo no pichu is way prettier

yes

>>40127420
it depends on how long you've had them and how bad it is. if you're younger than 23 you can train yourself to stop giving the autist stare.

>>40127420
i wear big glasses and i think it helps me. if you were a boy i was gonna say let me kiss you. maybe a boy can kiss you to fix it

>>40127411
yes that's her

>>40127364 (OP)
Name? I need her gock in my ass

SAME AS IT EVER WAS

>>40127417
I’m a woman, people said I’m pretty and have a nice body and look put together but have an off putting intense autism stare
>>40127430
I’m too old to train it
>>40127433
I don’t like wearing glasses but would like to kiss a boy. I think they’re afraid of my autism eyes though

>>40127461
if you're older than 23 you can't train the autist stare away because your brain has finished developing. you're just going to have to live with it.

… SAME AS IT EVER WAS

>>40127468
So… sunglasses inside from now on?

>>40127461
other autistic people don’t seem to mind as much

do you retards think you can’t learn new things after 25? is that what you think that brain developed nonsense means?
your reaction time is just getting marginally slower you are still capable of internalizing new information and changing behavior


you just give up after 25?

hello hi people im back on here i took a break for a couple of days

how r u doing did u miss me

>>40127472
always

>>40127459
>>40127469
LETTING THE DAYS GO BY

>>40127477
I don’t think I’m autistic can I still date autistic men? Where are the ones that like trans women?

>>40127448
pichu

>>40127482
hi there

>>40127493
they post here unironically

>>40127500
hello!!!!
how r u doing?

>>40127501
none of the ones here are interested in me that way

>>40127493
where are the autistic people who like trans women? well, turn to your right. turn to your left.

>>40127511
are you ugly? the men here only care about looks

>>40127518
This goes both ways actually, let's not forget

>>40127518
they are autistic after all you didn't expect them to like you based on all your social cues did you?

>>40127506
i just woke up and im going to finish a movie i started watching hru

>>40127528
i didnt sleep a lot but i got some food and im gonna watch something as well, maybe chat more around here

>>40127522
that selfish of autists

>>40127520
no, i’m nice and perfect
>>40127522
i like nice people

>>40127540
I'm soooooo nice, I'm the nicest

they should call them selfists

one cup of attention pls guys where tf are u

>>40127518
I get compliments on my appearance a lot but no one makes moves on me or even wants to spend time 1 on 1

>>40127544
okay! that’s good then

>>40127546
SEX SEX SEX
GET PREGNANT GET PREGNANT

>>40127546
i'll stop posting i'm mucking the waters not enough guys left posting here anymore these days if i split the attention we'll both starve
everyone reply to this anon its their turn for attention today

>>40127552
i dont mean that but hi mr chaser

>>40127558
thank you for ur sacrifice sister i love u deeply

>>40127550
sometimes you might be missing the signals (and other times you over correct and there were no signals and you feel like a big idiot loser) hope that helps

>>40127551
Yay! How do you stay nice? What do you do in your nice day to day life?

>>40127563
>i dont mean that
But I'm not interested in anything else

>>40127364 (OP)
I'm so sick of being myself. I wish I could find a genie. I'd wish to be thin, hairless, and pretty

>>40127571
thats fine thats okay u can continue then

>>40127565
do I have to be the one making the moves or what

things are usually different from how you think they will be but sometimes things are exactly how you think

>>40127579
Nah now I don wanna you ruined the mood

>>40127550
Are you the boston anon?

>>40127566
idk just don’t be mean to people and smile at people i think
>>40127581
idk making moves has lead to me embarrassing myself and waiting for guys to like me has led to more waiting :(

>>40127586
russian tranny is very sorry to the western man for ruining the mood

it's not that im not loveable it's just that there's no loving me you know what I mean

>>40127606
I'm not sure if that makes any sense

>>40127596
>embarrassing myself
Like how

its an autistic trait to think kindness is a real thing other people practice. autistic people want to be seen as nice so they internalize it and genuinely become nice.
thats a mistake.
the normal does not do this. the normal understands that the social game is competitive not cooperative. the objective is not to "be nice" its to be as ruthlessly self-serving as possible behind backs without letting people on that you aren't "nice."
those affirmations about love and kindness that normals love are decoys not actual things you are meant to feel.

>>40127615
i think you might be retarded

ok im going to "go to sleep" enjoy your 30 minutes of peace abd quiet

>>40127615
um no thats just you being autistic

>>40127622
your insults can't hurt me anymore

>>40127639
Have a good night

>>40127596
Wanna be nice together?

>>40127612
idk getting rejected or told I misunderstood normal kindness as flirting
>>40127615
i think you are wrong

>>40127660
we probably have to be nice separately since i doubt we live close by each other :(

>>40127677
Oh, where do you live

>>40127587
I’m anon

if you think i'm wrong prove me wrong the literally-one person-be-nice-to-me-without-saying-and-doing-shit-to-hurt-me-behind-my-back challenge.
the one-person-actually-be-my-friend-and-don't-break-my-trust challenge.
in this case i'm willing to say that an exception disproves my rule.
let me see it happen to me one time. i feel love and sadness both so deeply...

Wish I had a gf

>>40127704
You forgot to change flags bro

wish i had a bf (bestfriend)

i wish i had a friend like me

>>40127683
texas :(

i wish i had a friend...

BOUTTA GO FUCKING CRAZY BOUTTA GO FUCKING CRAZY BOUTTA GO FUCKING CRAZY BOUTTA GO FUCKING CRAZY BOUTTA GO FUCKING CRAZY BOUTTA GO FUCKING CRAZY BOUTTA GO FUCKING CRAZY BOUTTA GO FUCKING CRAZY BOUTTA GO FUCKING CRAZY BOUTTA GO FUCKING CRAZY BOUTTA GO FUCKING CRAZY BOUTTA GO FUCKING CRAZY BOUTTA GO FUCKING CRAZY BOUTTA GO FUCKING CRAZY BOUTTA GO FUCKING CRAZY BOUTTA GO FUCKING CRAZY

>>40127715
AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

>>40127729
NIGHTMARE NIGHTMARE NIGHTMARE NIGHTMARE NIGHTMARE NIGHTMARE NIGHTMARE NIGHTMARE NIGHTMARE NIGHTMARE NIGHTMARE NIGHTMARE

>>40127732
i’m gonna kms

>>40127742
Nooooo I'm sorry I just like to mess with you sorry

>>40127729
Yeah ive been on that type of shit lately too
Thought this was growing pains of getting better but now I think it's just getting worse

>>40127747
right. things were on the up i don't know what happened suddenly everytihing is FUCKING ACID. i haven'tf elt like this since pretransition i'm suffocating in my body i am covered in bugs i'm goinG CRAZY. it feels like december 2024 was last week this whole year has been not writing to memory i'm freaking out

i need to quit the drugs i'm doing and start doing different drugs

>>40127745
what did i do to you for you to bully me like this

>>40127803
You didn't have to do anything kitten, I'm just fundamentally a bad person

everyone is evil and a liar

would you sit with me at lunch during school even though im a boymoder tranny faggot, would you chaser-kun

everyone is good i love everyone

i just came back from a malebrained activity with my male friends because im actually just a moid with long hair and a bit of boobs. there was just one girl there im so moidcore

also while im at the bathroom taking pics of myself because for some unknown reason my hair looks better when dirty and with sweat than when it's clean and frizzy i took 50 pics and i look good in 0 of them

>>40127881
real

>>40127904
>>40127881
some of these pics are naked pics of myself i hope the CIA agent responsible for watching my cellphone likes to see a folder of nudes from a brickhon shoulderhon asshon hairhon philtrumhon (i just noticed its bigger than i thought) i hope this is a fetish of him otherwise he will resign out of disgust

Wish I had a guy that looked at me and said nice boobs and wanted to see my boobs and bury his face in them

Tranner gf whos only friend is me so she obsesses over me when im not there

>>40127982
me

schizoid tranner gf + schizoid chaser bf

>>40128000
what about chudette gf x chud bf........

aggressively horny trans woman X shy autistic chaser man

>>40127982
you don’t really want this

Chaser bf x cis girl gf

>>40128063
STOP TELLING ME WHAT I WANT

>>40128072
stop lying

>>40128057
Yeah, nice

>>40128076
It would be fun for a bit

only friend that i’m totally done and over with texted me what do i do?

>>40128071
Thiiisssss

>>40128103
it wouldn’t

>>40128071
I need this so fucking bad

>>40128118
it would bc im so fun

>>40128121
no one asked you

>>40128124
as a transgender freak i will insert myself into every convo i want to
thanks

>>40128085
Are you a shy autistic chaser? How could a woman win you over?

>>40127924
I’m right here babe.

Being a chaser fucking blows. All of you bitches are insane

please help about friend issue

>>40128156
do you want to see my ugly moid body naked? >>40127918

>>40127364 (OP)
I look like this except muscular since 30s and not on hrt

>>40128162
idk what happened between you two, your friendship history together, but if its that serious for u to say you're totally done with, she texted you something specific or just a "hi"

>>40128164
could you kill me instead?

>>40128164
I want to

>>40128152
Go on… I’m listening…

>>40127364 (OP)
mogs me fr fr

>>40128156
no you have it mistaken, i'm actually sane

>>40128162
last time i did u told me to kms so shoo shoo, me no wanna

>>40128206
i’m sorry i forgive u or whatever
>>40128184
she said she is thinking about me

My soc trannies aren’t replying rn this shit sucks bros

>>40127364 (OP)
yes.
horses do not have the capacity to be evil.
i cant fucking wait, i get to go see my tall girl warm blood in a couple hours.
she rubs her lips all over my face.
i'll shovel shit for free all day for the lippy.


HORSES

cant save whores!
i can only save HORSE!

https://youtu.be/VK7qmIXuwHs?si=XW2h6E2rJA7Jjjgb

>>40128229
Is soc a good place to meet men?

>>40128244
lol no

>>40127364 (OP)
>qott: would you date a big beautiful woman?
there's no excuse for a woman to be fat, they don't even have to work out and eat protein, they just have to fast until they're not fat anymore

>>40128216
>she said she is thinking about me
well as i said idk what happened but if you haven't blocked her yet, maybe its something you two can talk out? like ok some people can act different buuuut if someone did something that i really cant pardon and i have no wishes in seeing this person again i would block that person to break all contact. again, idk what happened

>>40127729
>>40127765
>>40127792
Jennie back on meth?

>>40128244
it can be.
but you'll have to weed through a fuckton of people.
i've had mixed results. great and terrible.
its one of the slowest boards. but its a steady stream of new local contacts.

>>40128246
Why not?
>>40128272
Oh so post in the local area thread?

I have the saddest life here

>>40128277
if you want to actually meet people, yes.
if you want online friends any will do.

>>40128281
Are you dying from a terminal illness at a young age?

>>40128277
are u kidding me

>>40128281
why?

>>40128281
I bet I could contend
Trying to turn it around lately and kinda getting my shit fucked over it

>>40128291
I was just curious

>>40128281
nigga I am 25 and never had my dick touched

>>40128297
I can't even turn it around

>>40128281
Bitches say this but all they have to deal with is going to community college twice a week and working a retail job part time

>>40128281
i dont want to compete about that so i will just say i have the second saddest life here

>>40128299
i get about 20+ people in my local area per month that hmu or send me adds off soc its pretty nice.
i posted over a month ago and i still get adds and invites, i found someone i like alot off of soc before.
and have had a handful of dates with anons.

>>40128307
Lol no I'm old

I got to thinking about why cg has been fucked up recently and I think it's because there's 100 places for trannies to flirt and hook up where chasers are not allowed and 1 place where chasers are allowed and they decided to swamp it and take it over.

So unironically if you're a tranny who can't find a man it's your (collective) fault. You can say men are too pussy or whatever all you want - the asymmetry in which shared public spaces you're allowed in limits interaction.

Need gock

>>40128251
we don’t really talk about stuff like that

>>40128317
Ok I’ll try it
>>40128321
You’re always allowed in the space between my thighs, crankypants

>>40128340
I need you.

chasers are cowards, using trans beans as an excuse

>>40128353
Oh my fav trans bean

>>40128299
it's mainly pervs and trolls

>>40128362
oh yeah? Who's your favorite husstusser???

>>40128353
>chasers are cowards, using trans beans as an excuse
Like I said, trans beans are allowed to go into pretty much every server, even servers unrelated to dating/mixing and flirt with them, including in predatory/grooming type ways. They can't control themselves though and go into t4c circles too.

Very rapey behavior, not endearing

>>40128386
Bostanon

>>40128392
trans beans flirt with me all the time and I never pay attention to them, so what the issue?
>>40128397
and she's still single....
you're a failure

>>40128424
I'm too young for her but all the young ones are horrible

why did you use my photo for the op pic

>>40128447
Hi

>>40128435
no wonder you think the stinky trans beans are your competition, you're just a little young pup with no claws....

>>40128447
XD you're so funny rofl

why did i never notice how big my philtrum is. ive read that wide philtrum are a sign of autism. am i austitic

>>40128456
thank you thank you ill be here all decade

>>40128462
that's confident

>>40128455
I don't think they are

>>40128454
oops hit post too soon
hi, please enjoy this animals

>>40128424
>trans beans flirt with me all the time and I never pay attention to them, so what the issue?
People that go to a t4c space specifically to avoid them can't have that space because they're allowed in and take up a bunch of space because they're neets on discord all day. There's a bunch of social dynamics at work, chasers get chased out of the chaser spaces for very mild things, whereas transbean rapehon can't be kicked or there will be a huge drama.

>>40128478
Honestly this is true

tell me a story anon what happened to all the old trips

>>40128477
cute rhino. i want a rhinoplasty. also this is me. drinking water

I need a bitch that looks like Juno from Overwatch 2

>>40128493
You're so talented.

hi thread. dumb wall of bullshit incoming. you don't know me you can ignore this post. i've been doing some introspection and needed to process some thoughts into words.
i'm a good person. i think. but i get scared and lash out i am afraid of being known i am afraid of closeness and how it can hurt me. afraid people will see me how i see myself and hate me as much as i do. its a self fulfilling prophecy i cant escape from. i never let anyone get to know me well enough to recognize when i'm not myself. some1 who doesn't hold it against me and only wants me to get better again. not cut me out or worse antagonize me. engage with me in bad faith and try to build me up to be someone who's best represented when at her lowest. have known me long enough to judge me on how far i've come not where i am.
perhaps it is true what they say about loving yourself first. i try to be kind but i carry a lot of self hatred in my soul, it manifests in my actions in ways i'm still not aware of. it corrupts how people view me. i don't think i'm like that. i think i'm very empathetic and tolerant of people's neurosis. it endears a person to me and i only ever want to be a positive impact to their life. but i've learned that isn't something that actually is reasonable to expect from others, that's an unusual trait of mine and not how everyone else thinks like i assumed.
it's a real catch-22. a fly in the ointment as it were. i don't think i'm capable of friendship until i have become a happier, better person but i also don't think i'm going to become that all alone.
thanks for reading my blog. sorry. typing out all this didn't ultimately make it clear what i should do next. but i am realizing i tried to put myself out there too early still.
i am half baked and still too soft.
too easy to squish.
now that i've said all that i will leave for a while and put my words to action.
attempt to get better on my own.
maybe try again to find community in a couple years after some growing.

>>40128478
what quality of girl do you think a predatory neet on discord all day will steal from you? Are you sincerely looking for love inside of a discord server? Maybe you aren't as high quality as you think you are, buddy
go for the shy anon girls that don't join any spaces, you idiot, and stop complaining about your lack of brain and initiative

>>40128503
Tell us more first. This is interesting, relatable, and I think a misstep.

Need gocky wocky

>>40128506
Go for the shy girl who is completely unavailable because she's not in any shared spaces.

Great idea. You're just justifying bad behavior.

If you were "chasing" in a discord server you were doing it wrong anyway you retard and if you feel threatened by severely autistic limp dick transbians you were never gonna make it in the first place

>>40128493
aw so cute
you and are in this photo, we are hedgehog cupcakes

>>40128520
bad behavior? Since when is not participating in a gooner circlejerk considered bad behavior? Lol, no wonder you're alone

>>40128528
>>40128493
>>40128477

>>40128506
>>40128522
Keep defending the transbians.

>>40128478
>chasers get chased out of the chaser spaces for very mild things, whereas transbean rapehon can't be kicked or there will be a huge drama.
this happens to every tranny or chaser space
waste of time to even go to them

>>40128536
It's not a gooner circlejerk, maybe your transbian servers are

They don't make hedgehogs like they used to

>>40128522
We should do it everywhere except the app where all the trannies are and where transbians chase them

>>40128539
not defending them, just saying they aren't the real problem
pussy ass niggas like you are
>>40128544
I have no idea honestly, I've never set foot inside any lgbt discords, and I never will. If normal gaming discords turn into gooner coomer bullshit, I can only imagine what happens inside of a legbutt one

Imagine getting your cuck server invaded by a 3.5 feet tall finnish garden gnome and her lesbian harem and letting them outperform you while you cry here

>>40128528
omg so many of them i mean of us and thats our momma on the glass jar shes so pretty??
>>40128551
i love your argentinian flag anon i always stand up for la bandera when i see your posts

anyone wants to see my philtrum?? its bigger than the average and wikipedia says its a sign of autism (scary)

>>40128578
It's an Iliadic flag and it has nothing to do with the bastion of whiteness that is argentina

This thread is full of transbian apologists.

>>40128511
stuck my foot in it again with the most recent group of people i had been trying to weasel my way into as a friend.
it only takes one bad mental health episode to reveal people didn't really think about you the way you thought or had hoped they did. that the vibes you give off aren't what you were intending and that the people who you thought would have nothing bad to say about you were actually waiting for the opportunity.
finding out there's already been conversations about me before what i would have even considered the start of my slip.

i don't have an aura that leads people to assume good intentions i guess i don't really know. people don't ever really explain it to me. i'm not sure how to fix it but it's clearly tied to my low mood and negative self perception.
someone would have to like... be actually infatuated with me and i give noone any good reason to be. they would have to want to wake up every day and talk to me and see how i'm doing and think about me when i'm not there, get offended on my behalf and defend me. maybe not that extreme but you know what i mean. i think other people have that, i'm not really sure. i've only felt tolerated by people.

>>40128578
let's all love mama

>>40128567
>pussy ass niggas like you are
If you cold dm someone there's like a 80% failure rate

If you talk first and build chemistry it's better. If there's no shared space to build chemistry in, the success rate for chasers is extremely low

Do you see the problem?

>>40128583
I do

>>40128605
The failure rate will obviously depend entirely on you as a person. There's no fixed numbers because there ain't no peer-reviewed studies on tranny chasing

>>40128605
what makes you say 80%

>>40128605
that's how it works in any online space, unless you're willing to show some good stuff about yourself first that the other party likes
stop being a pussy

>>40128601
Nasty

Anon is completely wrong, the failure rate is 100%

if a guy i've never talked with cold dms me i assume he's a weirdo or a creep. would you just thumb through the phonebook and call random women's names? were you like reading my messages in a server while you lurk? not good.
has to be a shared space where we can notice eachother within. if someone i've been talking with already dms me that's the start of something. you got to know me a little and could tell i liked talking you and now we're going a little further.

i still smell cum in my nose

I just need to convince anonette to let her guard down and be vulnerable, then I will sink my claws into her

>>40128601
Cool beetle

>>40128628
But enough about you anon

>>40128616
That's not true, many will never open or accept any dm's or follow up. Immediate ghost regardless of what you say or look like.

>>40128625
Its a numbers game from the guy's perspective. Even all these girls pining in the thread for boyfriends or complaining about how no chaser DM's them - a lot of them are lying about not getting DM's. I have seen girls who ghosted me immediately come onto this thread and say stuff like "where are all the chasers, why doesn't anyone talk to me I'm so lonely" and post a pic of their ass. A lot of girls that come here just do it for attention farming.

>>40128626
The high failure rate would be offset if there was a shared public space for t4c mingling that didn't devolve into unrelated nonsense and transbian grooming. The low sever population and limited spaces chasers are allowed in makes the numbers game even worse. Which is why most guys say the failure rate isn't 80%, it's 100%.

This is not coming from a bitter ugly incel perspective btw, I have been called hot on here repeatedly and gotten laid from discord.

>>40128647
Forgot your transbian flag

>>40128669
>I have seen girls who ghosted me immediately come onto this thread and say stuff like "where are all the chasers, why doesn't anyone talk to me I'm so lonely" and post a pic of their ass
Mariemoder coded

we get it steve you’re mad abt transbians

sometimes i don't think you all understand how diagnosed with autism the women who post here truly are
you're expecting a high level of neurotypical behavior

so it seems some crowns understand traffic lanes.
I observed one sitting on the street and it moved to the other side of the street when I approached. then after I passed it went back over to that side.

>>40128575
lol being sexually intimidated by eui is really funny

the 19 year old autistic tranny i'm talking too is completely emotionally immature and basically never considers how her actions can make me feel...

>>40128691
I'm an autistic tranner and I can confirm.
I don't want sex I want someone to cuddle with me and watch cartoons

>>40128683
huh? I have a thing going r n

>>40128703
please be ironic

>>40128599
is there something you think you might be doing or is it just the people? are you trans or?

>>40128704
the new Rick and Morty this sunday

>>40128609
look at the size of my philtrum my jaw and my shoulders. why am i built like that (i mean wrong, male, wide and autistic?)
also am i getting bald? that pic was from after i did some exercises so my hair is worse than the usual but im balding im pretty sure im will become bald with tits. im literally just a boy with tits.

>>40128715
I haven't seen Rick and Morty in a while but I'm down to watch it

I am angry. angry about transbians.

>>40128704
this and there's a lot of "she ghosted me" talk like it's 99% of the time not just "she got distracted and/or nervous or can't think of a reply"
saying ghosted like i'm some cisgender woman who's been living with you for two years that suddenly packed her things and disappeared. no you just said "whats up" to me on discord and i couldn't think of an answer quick enough.

>>40128720
handsome lad

>>40128720
You're not balding

>>40128701
it's happened irl before too idgi im a very nothing type of person

>>40128727
ghosting isn't in a relationship context it just means they stopped replying

>>40128720
you're a bit bdd aren't you
>>40128727
this lol
"ghosting" becoming a common term has been terrible for us all. it had a meaning, the one you said, and now people are misusing it daily
like other misused words it makes me sad to see it

I saw this YouTube short of this girl freaking out getting a GameCube and a copy of eternal darkness.

The comments were like "she's not paying for a game, she's paying for a memory of when life was good for her"

I was thinking I should try the same thing but than I realized there's no game/memory I wanna go back too

>>40128751
I wanna go back to when I was a kid so that I could have tried to transition sooner

it is too hot

ghosting means you stop replying to somebody without any warning

>>40128740
you literally have this backwards. ghosting used to be when you break up with somebody by just cutting them from your life without texting.
if i don't reply to you we just didn't click or i'm busy. it's not the same. it's an unreturned phone call.

>>40128763
if i could warn you i was going to stop replying i would have just replied

>>40128757
It's 92 degrees Fahrenheit (about 33 degrees Celsius) where I am. Thank god for air conditioning

>>40128757
how hot? its 95 degrees here

>>40128763
but it only applies to situations where there was clearly something there and it was building up
random guy lurking in a server messaging you out of the blue with "hi im _____ how are you" and being awkward for 5 messages before you stop replying is not ghosting
dating someone for two weeks and it's going well and then she vanished out of your life abruptly is ghosting
we need to go back to this distinction, it's very important

>>40128772
in a dating context

>sorry we don't click, i'm not interested

is not ghosting but

>disappears without a word and never replies again

is ghosting

>*guy who has cold dm'd 89 women with no reply*
>"yeah, i've been ghosted by so many women."
oh wow really you player you.

>>40128780
>messaging you out of the blue with "hi im _____ how are you" and being awkward for 5 messages before you stop replying is not ghosting
it's justified ghosting but still ghosting

>>40128765
I think it's more commonly used on the in-between of those vibes
Not like a full on relationship but like talking and connecting for weeks and then suddenly they just never respond again
Thats more than not replying to a first dm or convo dying out just after first contact
It really sucks

>>40128787
in a dm context if you dm an autistic person "how are you feeling" and they don't reply you were not ghosted

>>40128765
you can ghost an employer, an employer can ghost you. It's not just for relationship contexts

I generally take a double text where there's no response to mean not interested anymore and move on, especially if they don't have to put any effort in to reply (yes/no, good, etc).

Its not an autism thing, if you're interested you will reply even with a wordle notification to ping the other person

i hate being seen as a woman

>>40128795
no, that's really really not what ghosting originally meant
ghosting requires a presence in the other person's life that you can retract
the online equivalent of a chat-up at the bar not landing is not ghosting. and that's what most dms are

>>40128720
Post body

>>40128756
That doesn't count

>>40128811
>no, that's really really not what ghosting originally meant
when? in 2002? it's what ghosting means in a modern context on dating apps or in any online interaction

I hate working I wanna go home and watch SpongeBob (_)

>>40128797
>connecting for weeks
>not a full on relationship
boo hoo, not my problem. you were connecting for weeks but didn't make any effort to communicate that you desire a relationship?
not how this works. you made no commitment she didn't owe you anything. do you think this a jaun austen novel what are you doing? courting her? waiting for her father's blessing?
if you like a person enough that it would hurt you if they left your life you should have made more of an effort to keep them. relationships meant to work don't take weeks and weeks of "connecting" dude. it failed. timed out. you make a connection or you don't.

If you’re getting ghosted by any girl here there’s definitely a (You) problem going on. These girls are horny as fuck.

>>40128788
the texting a random person and getting to know them without any shared context (school, work, hobby) is pretty soulsucking - its not enjoyable

if i only exist on your phone i was always a ghost. you were talking to a ghost.
i have to exist in your life in a corporeal form to be able to ghost you.

>>40128818
if that's true then it's a misuse of the word probably caused by people wanting to play the victim in cases where they were just unsuccessful in launching a relationship
i really hate seeing useful words get twisted and bent and rendered useless like this

if none of you are real enough to be willing to meet up with each other, then it's not a ghost

>>40128836
it's just not how people are meant to meet one another i've come to learn. truly too unenjoyable to be effective.
i think people used to have like church, and bowling alleys.

>>40128854
amen

How dare you ghost me after I cold dm’d you asking you for nudes? You owe me nudes and I should not have to reveal a single piece of personal information. I should not have to strike up a conversation or send you a selfie or tell you my name. Trannies are such ghosting whores.

Good afternoon /miserablelonelyniggasgeneral/!

>>40128848
>people wanting to play the victim in cases where they were just unsuccessful in launching a relationship
yep basically. you shot your shot and missed but the modern way to say that and retain your dignity is to say "she ghosted me"
its the zoomer's way of excusing their lack of sway... sorry, "rizz" by claiming it's all on the woman.

>>40128862
I've never asked any girls for nudes but I still get sent them

That's not how these go generally. idk what other guys are doing to be fair but that's not my experience

I downloaded an app with a bunch of emoticons on them but a lot of them don't work on 4chan (´-ω-`)

>>40128854
Preach bbgorl

>>40128862
loool guy who dms you from what is clearly an alt discord account, refuses to give any information about himself, claims to have no social media, and is calling you the ghost
truly

i don’t ghost i just tell people i’m not interested like a normal person

>>40128848

>Ghosting, simmering and icing are colloquial terms that describe the practice of suddenly ending all communication and avoiding contact with another person without any apparent warning or explanation and ignoring any subsequent attempts to communicate. In today's digital world, ghosting is often seen as an easy escape from confrontation or emotional discomfort, facilitated by the anonymity and convenience of online platforms.[1][2][3]

>The term originated in the early 2000s, typically referring to dating and romantic relationships. In the following decade, the use of the term ghosting has increased, which has been attributed to the increasing use of social media and online dating apps. The term has also expanded to refer to similar practices among friends, family members, employers and businesses.[4][5][6]

>>40128856
my dad told me they used to have dances every weekend for young adults to mingle next door when he was growing up (he lived next to an ethnic community center)

all the non-corporate, non-government parts of our society have been hollowed out

>>40128885
This

>>40128804
I hate not being able to see you in my big fuzzy arms. I dont see you as a woman. I see you as a cute, slender, girly-girl princess who needs to be cuddled and have her butt rubbed all the time. I love you Meffy, the way only a big male Teddy can :)

>>40128884
if his discord account is less than 3 years old he’s sus

>>40128885
Good

>>40128873
Real and same

>>40128714
trans yeah. i'm sure it's me. it can't be literally everyone else that's not feasible. i expect too much from others and i am giving off some kind of unintentional bad vibe.
i think i have a kind of flat, sarcastic tone to my voice. i'm not good with spoken word my brain forms ideas in a weird order and my mouth doesn't work as well as it needs to to articulate my thoughts. i think i make a fool of myself every time i open my mouth.
i'm rarely in the moment with things and calm so i'm rarely saying anything i would remember or stand by later.
idk i'm just a mess clearly too messy still. like i said it's hard it's tough. but i clearly have things i need to fix before i'm ready to let anyone in (or before anyone really wants to be let)
i think most people are more lucky they have some quality that people, maybe not many maybe even one person, latches onto that makes them interesting or whatever. makes them want to be around them. i don't think i have that? doesn't seem to happen to me.
i know these aren't the standards other people are held to because i see people have bad days and i see their friends forgive them and stand up for them and i know i would like that too, but it's unreasonable to expect that i think. just not how my life has shaken out. starts in the home i guess and i didn't get a lot of love from family.

>>40128885
it's too presumptuous to say that to guys who dm me when the guy has barely said anything to indicate he himself was interested
i don't want to be the ass who says "im not interested" so the guy is left astounded and responding like
>who even mentioned interest? i was just talking to you to be nice and friendly
and then i look like a rude conceited idiot
if a guy expressed interest id want to be clear like that but if he's just dming me for no reason i really don't want to assume he's interested. seems unlikely and rude

>>40128906
I guess I wont ever make a discord account then

>>40128934
you should have when you were like 14 or whatever

>>40128906
I came back from a hiatus and my old one was deleted

i want a best friend who talks to me about their crushes and dating

>>40128931
I would love to see what you think is
>barely said anything to indicate he himself was interested

Swag > drip

Game > rizz

>>40128890
most people's "hobbies" are consumption based activities now too like playing a game at home, watching a movie at home, etc., etc. so few people do things that would constitute like, joining local clubs or attended classes. library book clubs, cooking classes at the grocery store.
just drive around in cars now too locked away in separate pods as we travel. no opportunity to strike up a conversation with a stranger on the train.

the world is sick. it's not our fault for not succeeding at finding real human connection using the inhuman and unreal tools they give us to work with.

Finding out your trans gf is cheating on you with native born bbc when ass fuck her on jollof rice day

>>40128963
how do the kids say wheels is that drip too
like a guy who is always wheeling girls we would say he's got wheels

>>40128939
It's for useless trannoids, anyways

asking "so what do you do for fun?" and they respond with a list of social media apps.

>>40128773
>>40128777
same. Indiana. air is thick, hard to breath.

>>40128955
I want a best friend who has sex with me and takes me out on dates

>>40128960
to be honest im not sure what would qualify besides explicit "im interested in you" or equivalent
guys usually just say "is that you in your pfp" and "im from such-and-such state" and "what are you up to" and "what do you like to do for fun"

>>40128978
not me apparently. but the more outgoing ones or something, yeah.

Ngl really wish I was sucking a gock rn

Gock is a good stopping stone to real dick since it isn't as big and hard

>>40128985
Based!
I hope you find someone

>>40128984
I hate being a Midwest troon I wish I was born in the West Coast (μ_μ)
I live in Missouri

the darkest room in my house is the bathroom. sometimes I take a bath in the dark during the intense sun. to counter the constant all day light. also being in the dark and under water, less solar radiation

im a useless trannoid :D

>>40128965
I agree, a lot of it is luck + circumstances now, no hand holding or structural things to push people together.

but also, you need to basically be prepared to seize the opportunity. Like if I had an opportunity but wasn't prepared (for a test, for an interview), too fat, too shy, too careful, that's ultimately on me. As much as I might wish circumstances were different and romanticize the past or what could have been, the only thing you can do is do the best with what you actually have and avoid being bitter about it.

one time pretrans i got a blowjob from a girl who was very insistent about giving me a blowjob and i couldn't stay hard she just gummed my soft penis while i lay there silently and held back tears. eventually she just gave up and said "[other guy] would have cum by now, so..."

>>40129008
Thank you! I hope you find someone too
>>40129011
Taking a bath in the dark sounds dangerous

>>40128965
this is a great post

i will never feel like a woman

>>40129011
ohhhh taking a pitch dark shower today sounds so nice
thank you for the idea nona
>>40129022
im sorry anon :( but also oh god this brings back awful memories of the same thing. you're not alone

I hope all the baddies here find a good chaser bro. You all should get together and have an orgy

>>40129022
>woman gives dogshit doo doo garbage pee pee caca head
>tries to guilt trip you by negatively comparing you to another man
Fucking typical

>>40128885
BASED

>>40129041
>oh god this brings back awful memories
aw sorry didn't mean to do that sorry it just intruded on me

>>40129029
>Taking a bath in the dark sounds dangerous
nah. I've lived here 15 years and have my house memorized with my eyes closed
>>40129041
>ohhhh taking a pitch dark shower today sounds so nice
>thank you for the idea nona
its nice to get out of the sun sometimes. and lss stimulus for a bit.

i think this is relevant to keep in mind: "picking up" people or meeting people for the explicit purpose of dating was not that big a thing back even 30 years ago. like the "Bar/Restaurant" 19% could be considered that, but other than this, ppl would just meet through circumstance and then get together.

>>40128990
Yeah that checks out.
And I would bet every single guy that matches those examples was interested. You are very pretty. Men aren't going to be that explicit, they don't want to freak you out.

>>40129059

>>40129059
I feel like so much has changed since 2017 that this isn't representative

>>40129016
You are. Why don't you try using /soc for trying to get some unlucky guy near you to orally rape?

>>40129072
See >>40129070

>>40129070
yup. I do or did all those things. I am told I should try dating apps

>>40129050
oh no it's ok im just bad at sympathy and tend to do that "hey same happened to me, so i can relate" thing
didn't mean to guilt, soryr
>>40129059
i want to see this same chart for non-straight couples
>>40129069
idk, it still feels not worth the risk of being "the conceited bitch" who assumed every guy talking to them was hitting on them

>>40128676
I talked to marie in another thread and she said unless you're on par with the Marine she fucked you have no chance. So either be a Marine or a 1/10 tranny who fucks dogs and kids lol

>>40129035
I want to get your skinny faggot ass pregnant

>>40128926
Maybe you've just had bad luck or something. You seem pretty articulate about your problems

>>40129087
Maries larping, whats new

>>40129083
has happened to most of us i think i should jsut be careful with what i say and not put every intrusive thought i have to text

>>40129083
No you can't really respond to small talk with "I'm not interested." They do need to be more explicit than that to warrant such. But it's still something of which you should be aware.

>>40129070
This doesnt say anything about couple satisfaction or longevity, so effectively useless

>>40129120
hmm, ok
domanon, you seem really familiar. have we talked off-board before?

>>40129090
maybe. someone has to have it right? for karma to be balanced an all that. some people have good luck and good lives that means some of us have to take on all the bad luck.
about three decades of unlucky is a little ridiculous but not statistically impossible i suppose.
not sure where to go from their either. i can self diagnose and recognize the issue but i don't hold the knowledge on how to make things better.
basically i'm out of ideas and my only strategy left is to appeal to shallowness. spend a couple years trying to bury myself. improve my appearance, practice masking more, learn how to copy "perfect." then i'll try again and look for new people to humiliate myself in front of.
i don't think i'll ever be able to love myself but i can maybe get better at seeming like i do and never letting on that i struggle. i don't think its constructive to "let it all out" all the time, or ever again necessarily, if all i get from not masking is some kind of personal catharsis that is ultimately damaging to my reputation.

>>40129069
why not? i always move on cause they don’t act like they want anything from me

>>40129155
I think you're right but also wonder if you've over intellectualized. Try to be happy too ya know

>>40129175
also true. but its what i do when i don't have anyone to talk to. i think. i don't know how to be happy really. i feed off of sharing other people's joy. it's the closest i ever come is feeling glad for someone.

>>40129210
I think finding happiness in others is really normal especially if you struggle to on your own. But yeah it's not ideal. Maybe you're ruminating too much, could try more hobbies or something.

>>40129083
>i want to see this same chart for non-straight couples
same, though also I feel it wouldnt change that much. my main feel looking at those stats is, i don't think it's surprising that online dating is hard, we dont have 6000 or however many years of oral tradition and society built on it (like we do for the other forms of dating). The explicitly "looking for" thing is inherently awkward for a lot of people, i've found

>>40129136
Couldn't get Lizzy to tell you who I am, eh?
I think I will have more fun here if I avoid answering questions like that.
>>40129163
It's extremely easy for men to go too far too fast and that almost never works out. You can't blame a guy for learning from experience.

Yo, what happened to AFT? She finally get a BF?

>>40129227
yeah. i don't really derive joy from stuff i do anymore though. things i used to actually like i can only really appreciate now like "this film was well edited", "this music is unique", or whatever. but not "i had fun"
too lacking in motivation to do anything creative
haven't had that kind of drive since i was a child

>>40129249
she got a bf off of this board and left

>>40128931
Who is you and what's your discord I am interested in you

>>40129242
>Couldn't get Lizzy to tell you who I am, eh?
you are all so deranged and weird. need to turn everything into drama. can't be a normal person even once and just respond like a human being honestly.

>>40129242
she dangled bait in front of me about who you are but i really didn't care enough to take the lure
i also didn't really feel like talking to her directly to ask
>>40129249
she got banned for some underage joke i think
hopefully not a perma
>>40129260
i am pichu
my discord is pecha_lotte
i am very bad at talking to people

I want to get a bf off this board
Chaser btw

>>40129266
Right lol. Actual high schoolers in here

>>40129266
all i know about domanon is that he's 31 years old and there can't be that many 31 year olds who know pichu so that should narrow it down

>>40129242
i can because the other option is blaming myself for being too stupid to know the difference between real flirting and being friendly
>>40129249
she got banned for making an off color joke about pedophilia

>>40129299
except the people acting like high schoolers are all in their thirties

i hope i'm not here when i'm 31

>>40129255
Hmmm. I don't know then. Maybe you need a doctor or somethin

i'm realizing i don't have the relationship with sex that i maybe thought i did. i'm starting to think it's maybe something i don't really want for myself and only seek because i'm convinced it somehow validates me as a person in a way that isn't actually healthy.
still not sure what this means but i think i need to reevaluate myself and my own behavior and what makes me act the way i do.
the question is am i asexual or just traumatized.

>>40129325
you can be both

I have only met up with one person from 4chan, but we met on a vidya gem
just a bro and all we did was bro stuff like play vidya and go to concerts together. Haven’t seen him in years doebeit
he still cold DM’s me album recs and stuff, good lad

>>40129286
I see.
>>40129266
Let people enjoy things.
>>40129302
You don't need to blame anyone. Misunderstandings happen.

>>40129322
that hasn't helped either. been on medication and seeing a therapist regularly hasn't really made a dent in my day to day.
thats why i'm thinking i need to make a significant lifestyle change and resurface afterwards.

>>40129325
is being asexual really that bad? people make it out to be some kind of nightmare or something that's unacceptable

Anybody else feel like a fundamentally broken person and incapable of cobbling themselves back together to feel a semblance of humanity despite actively trying every day

>>40129342
>Misunderstandings happen.
how do i make them stop?
>>40129352
yes all the time and it's becoming a problem

>>40129311
Try 38.
>S&P beard here

>>40129352
yes but i gave up trying a long time ago

New thread
>>40129317

>>40129346
in my mind, no? but i've never thought of myself as asexual until now. people do kind of make it out to seem like if you aren't having sex you are doing something wrong socially.
and i've kind of sought out sex to try and convince people that there isn't anything wrong with me. to remove the burden of virgin status.
but idk that i've ever felt physical attraction to a person or desired sex the way other people seem to.

it's also... like... expected by a lot of people if you try to be close with them. and i desire not to disappoint sort of at the expense of my own comfort.

>>40129363
are you actually 38 years old? have you tried hitting on the 37 year old tranner whos always here?

>>40129376
no just the 19-20 year old ones

>>40129344
Maybe you're right then. Just don't spend too long in the cocoon that you forget to butterfly and all that dumb metaphor stuff

people pretending that being the same age as someone makes you suddenly live next door to them

>>40129376
>the 37 year old tranner whos always here?
That narrows it down.

Still can't believe I fumbled 30 y/o anonette bros...

>>40129381
This is the way

people acting like not being next door to a person means you can't even try to talk to them
you're both in your 30s one of you might be looking to move
the tranny probably

>>40129317

>>40129364
That's the problem
I gave up a long time ago
But I'm trying to come back out of it
And making a lot of real progress in some ways
And hitting a brick wall in others
And my brain has these ruts in it trying desperately to pull me back into protective apathy because feeling nothing is so much nicer than feeling like this
But then nothing improves and you get those occasional lucid moments of abject utter dread and horror at how you've wasted your life and potential
Trying to fix that is like trying to get a freight train to budge

>>40129398
dm me again
>>40129406
why do i have to do everything?

>>40129376
Yes, I'm actually 38, and prefer tranners closer to my age. Did you mean Dakota? Or the one in Spain, I think?

>>40129424
I don't think you're her, she never added me on discord

>>40129430
the one in boston

>>40129424
>why do i have to do everything?
you don't have to do shit i just know i'm miserable where i am and would happily uproot everything and move for the right someone

>>40129436
Oh Boston. Shes a total dime and pretty funny and cute. Totally wifeable. I'm on the other coast though
-Worst Coast

>>40129435
where did you talk? did you offer to fly out to see her?
>>40129453
i don't like where i live but moving is hard and scary

>>40129463
>i don't like where i live but moving is hard and scary
would be easier if i had a friend somewhere i could stay with. i'm just thinking like we don't live in the 1800s travel is possible and relatively easy.
i think people make too many excuses about distance. why come here to look for your neighbour? they are presumably outside in your neighbourhood?

>>40129463
It was on here like 3 threads ago, I said I was willing to fly out, but she was kind of apprehensive to the idea. She seemed really sweet

>>40129484
>why come here to look for your neighbour?
that's a good point. maybe i should actually try a dating app
>>40129492
>She seemed really sweet
sorry to mislead you then. i fell asleep while posting sorry

>>40129456
Dude you're in the same country

>>40129507
I don't think you mislead me, you do seem like a nice person. Dont worry about falling asleep, it was kind of late. I'd still be willing to talk, if you are :)

>>40129535
It takes like 6 hours to drive through Georgia, it's not a small country

>>40129575
I'm aware, still she said multiple times that she's willing to travel

>>40129535
Shes on the other side of the continent and I cant do long distance anymore bud. It's never worked out for me. I dont have time to chat all day, when I'm at work all day. Like all the girls here, Boston-chan deserves a man who can actually be there for her all the time.

being tall is inherently condescending