>>40153573my friend, for centuries women have hooked up and fallen in love with other women who look/act/style like men, whether they were butches or tomboys or early transmascs or just trying to pass as a soldier so they could fight in war. these women were desired by other women regardless of the fact that you could find a feminine man who looks approximately similar to them. so attempt look past your petulant outrage and consider why that might be. theres a certain common denominator, which is something called a vulva and clitoris. so, even with all other attributes being "the same" as a man, given the opportunity the lesbian has chosen the vulva and will choose the vulva.
on the other hand the cis bi woman has desire for penis and appreciates female form, which leads to them being the only real way for cis women to love tgirls. theres nothing wrong with your cis lover being bi and it doesnt invalidate you... more people need to accept that cis girls liking penis is only natural, and how wonderful it is for a cis girl to be able to appreciate and love a tgirl. cis lesbians are the rare anomalous ones