>>40156349 (OP)As a 25 year old in a similar position, it's because men are denied a social role these days, and the role men used to have involved being the first one to make a move.
To answer your question, trans women, especially because they were socialized as boys, knew and hated that part of themselves which was only valuable as a tool and provider for women. They "failed" as men too, but trans women just bypassed needing to come to terms with that loss by simply BEING the woman instead. They never stopped hating themselves for it subconsciously, so they project that baggage onto you.
As for what to do, don't worry about it. Feminists have ruined men for women and have ruined women for men. You can't directly ask people for sex. That's sexual assault if you're ugly. But you can make yourself seem like the kind of guy who is into sex. It's also not sexual assault to have your friends, especially female friends, say that you want to have sex and romance, if you have any friends(I don't, but you might). It's not sexual assault to get a tattoo and work out.
Whatever you do, don't admit what you think about it in front of a woman. Don't say you're a victim. Don't say it's a problem. Women hate needing to come to terms with the consequences of how much men have been shit on for the last 20 years or so. You, especially, are on the older end, closer to when feminism was actually doing something productive and resenting men was warrented. They will assume you have a victim complex or are an incel or are problematic and hate women, or worse, they will think you're asking them to be a therapist because fuck forbid a man has emotions beyond violent rage and violent sex.
Women like a man who is past all of that and helps himself emotionally by helping her. Troons, especially may feel you might troon and you're either a John 50 or are invalidating the tranny feelings they tied up with their resentment over being a failed man.
