>be me, mid 20s passoid
>dad is supportive but had a really hard time with it at first and still says stuff like “idk how people can’t tell you’re trans”
>go to an old authentic blues club for birthday with my family. Not a place I could go if I didn’t pass
>both my sister and I are wearing dresses and makeup
>The blues singer, who is an older black man, comes up to ask my dad if we’re there for a special occasion
> mom chimes in and says it’s my birthday
> the guy wishes me a happy birthday and congratulates my dad for having two beautiful daughters. Says he has a “surprise” for us
>dad obviously uncomfortable
>fast forward in the night the singer stops the set and says “can I get the birthday girl, anonette, to the stage? Come on up here little mama”
> I’m shocked and scared, but I’m kinda drunk by this point and that + social pressure makes me go up to the stage
>guy starts singing me a soul version of happy birthday but switches it to a song that goes “shake your booty for me girl”
>tells me to dance and everyone cheers
>here I am on stage dancing like a slut on stage while an older black man serenades me
>guy makes me get up and dance (along with several other girls) throughout the night
>dad starts to get the thousand yard stare and is quiet for the rest of the night

Is my dad going to be ok? He just met my cis-bf for the first time this month too and I’m worried about his mental health

>inb4 larp
I wish it was

>>40163591 (OP)
Sure

>>40163633
Obviously written somewhat for brevity but this did actually happen

>>40163673
Ok

>>40163591 (OP)
You should've behaved yourself decently before your dad and don't sexualise yourself in front of the crowd.

>>40163591 (OP)
hahahahahaahahahhahaha
no hes not going to be okay
ya TART

>>40163591 (OP)
literally none of my family wants to go out in publc with me ever

>>40163725
sorry to hear that

>>40163717
what's the big deal

Has a tranny ever written two sentences without lying at least 3 times?

>>40163591 (OP)
i get wanting to live your life but i don't think it's unreasonable to at least try to avoid making your parents uncomfortable. even if i wasn't trans i would still go out of my way to avoid stuff that they would hate, especially since they are supportive. can't imagine going up on stage and dancing around like a slut right in front of your dad

They might not be perfect but he sounds like he has made some progress. That sounds like a really nice birthday gift.

>>40163918
i simply cannot fathom the degree of autism required that you wouldn't understand how your dad might feel in this situation if he's being a boomer about your transition

>>40163591 (OP)
Anon, it's not about you being trans
It's about you being a shameless slut

>>40163591 (OP)
it's good for him
trial by fire, get over it or perish

Do Americams really twerk in front of their family? Are they that degenerate?

>>40163717
>>40164099

Ok but to what degree. I feel bad for him and regretted doing this but all the other women were doing it. There was a lot of social pressure too. I feel like I would have been boo’d/heckled if I didn’t go up there and give it my all (I’m not a good dancer).
>>40164272
Next time he tries the “idk how people can’t tell” I really wanna hit him with “that blues singer couldn’t”. I’m not that cruel tho
>>40164312
Depends on who you are, but in a club like this -yes
>>40164099
I mean I can understand but also to what degree? Also I was mostly asking if anyone else how someone else’s dad had reacted in situations similar to this

>>40164574
>Depends on who you are, but in a club like this -yes
What a sick society wtf. Are you white btw?

>>40163591 (OP)
this is boyremoval in a more serious sense than any amount of anal sex

>>40163591 (OP)
Here let's just fast forward to your desired end goal
>yeah you should seduce and fuck your dad and maybe have him in a threesome with your chaser bf

>>40163591 (OP)
I haven't spoken to my dad in nearly 7-8 years, but I watch his YouTube videos sometimes.

I always wonder what life would of been like if he didn't leave when I was 15.

>>40164574
to be clear, you behaved correctly anon d e s u. but most dads would be traumatised seeing their cis daughter shake her little ass on stage for a crowd of people hollering, nevermind trying to psychically wrestle with this being what he believes to be his son doing this. quite fonny

>>40164633
It could be worse anon. Your dad isn't a dog rapist at least.

>>40163591 (OP)
Why do cissoid parents hate to see their children finally happy?

>>40164589
I’m white, but it was mostly black people in the club since it’s a historically black music venue
>>40164602
This is deeply unsettling and also liberating
>>40164633
I’m sorry anonette, having a relationship still with your parents is super important. I hope you can find someone to fill in that role in a healthy way
>>40164635
I was not trying to traumatize him at all. I am usually very conservative and conscious of his feelings and values. He has been pretty good at gendering me correctly recently though and ironically think this is part of it. Maybe it’s just easiest for him to fully accept I’m a girl at this point

>>40164761
From my euro perspective I'd assumed blues clubs were classy places where people chilled maybe smoked cigars and had whiskey and like some cool dude named Jacky DeShawn does rad music on a piano idk lmao
Not twerked like apes (I don't mean that I a racist way btw lol, white people who twerk are simian af it's just disgusting yknow BUT I know if I don't make it clear ppl will think I hate black ppl here lmao)

>>40163591 (OP)
my dad died 5 years ago lol

>>40163591 (OP)

>>40164761
>I hope you can find someone to fill in that role in a healthy way

Ty anon, though I highly doubt that will ever happen.

>>40164814
You’re thinking of like a jazz club. This was high energy, Motown songs that people could dance to. Nobody was twerking really just kinda moving and doing older dance moves. I was also wearing a pretty conservative sun dress, my mom sister and I looked like we were dressed for church so even if I did twerk it wouldn’t have been that revealing. It was a lot of older people, I was probably the youngest girl there

>>40164970
Yeah I don't think I have ever seen that in media so yeah
I don't know of equivalents here at all desu lol clubs are where you slut it up and dance (and they're not my scene)

>>40164861
Sorry to hear that anon :(
>>40165205
Most clubs are like that too, this is a very rare place and thus why I wanted to go for my birthday

>>40163591 (OP)
Your dad should have beat you more.

>>40167209
I got spanked as a child and had a very traditional farm upbringing, nothing works

>>40168591
getting spanked gets processed in the brain the same way as sexual abuse QED CSA to faketrans pipeline/mind virus/psyop

>>40168645
I’m a dysphoric transsexual with a boyfriend and am very gender conforming. How am I fake trans? My cis-sister got spanked too

>>40168903
the voices told me you are

My dad didnt support me until we went to a family gathering and an older cousin started flirting with me not knowing who i was
Since then he always comments on my outfits and tells me to be careful