Thread 40196202

Why is there such a behavioral/interest disparity between straight trannies and those who aren't straight?
Male socialization and age of transition can't be it because both are subject to the former (even if the "bad parts"--gay men also are) and both are trooning out young/mid now anyway.

>>40196202 (OP)
If you want to be a straight tranny(and not date a fetishist) you have to pass. Not just be attractive, but socially pass too. Basically you're disowning the queers.

Being attractive is not a requirement of being a transbian. You can be as autistic and retarded as you want because some other autistic post-transition chaser will want you.

>>40196231
>If you want to be a straight tranny(and not date a fetishist) you have to pass. Not just be attractive, but socially pass too. Basically you're disowning the queers.
Idk I've never actively thought about it or modulating my behavior. I just do what comes naturally. I also don't consider myself attractive, but there has been a fair amount of interest from straight and bi men. I think you're forgetting that being a woman--or some facismile of one--means you're in demand no matter what by even a small portion of the population. As long as you have a hole, someone will want you even if for a convenient nut.

>Being attractive is not a requirement of being a transbian. You can be as autistic and retarded as you want because some other autistic post-transition chaser will want you.
The problem with this logic is that a lot of transbians and bi trans women have had gfs prior to trooning out, often even with cis women. Neither transbians nor cis women have ever been interested in me. I don't think it's quite as...negative or dire as you're putting it?

>>40196253
It's not a behavioral modification thing, it's more of a survival of the fittest thing. You succeed because you do those things naturally.

>but there has been a fair amount of interest from straight and bi men

Which is why I mentioned fetishists. If anyone is going to fuck you just because youre a hole, they arent worth pursuing and are very likely fetishists. Literally anyone in the world could throw on "she/her" pronouns and attract this quality of man. They're attracted to an idea, not a person.

>The problem with this logic is that a lot of transbians and bi trans women have had gfs prior to trooning out, often even with cis women.

And they were very likely still autistic. I'm not saying it's a rule but it's just something I've noticed. I also believe human sexuality to be very fluent and even more so for trans people.

>>40196321
>succeed
I'm a friendsless faggot loser. I didn't succeed by any metric other than "get a bf" and that's not hard because men will fuck anything that moves and is vaguely feminine.
>Which is why I mentioned fetishists. If anyone is going to fuck you just because youre a hole, they arent worth pursuing and are very likely fetishists. Literally anyone in the world could throw on "she/her" pronouns and attract this quality of man. They're attracted to an idea, not a person.
The idea of "a woman"--I think you're misunderstanding. I pass so the randos who sexually harass me aren't doing it because they're fetishists or chasers, but because they perceive me as a woman. Of course they're not worth pursuing but this isn't a "only chasers want you" kind of deal.
>And they were very likely still autistic. I'm not saying it's a rule but it's just something I've noticed.
Ofc they were still autistic but it's not a matter of *only* transbians wanting them.
>I also believe human sexuality to be very fluent and even more so for trans people.
I wish. How do I start liking women and vaginas? Being a larping gay man sucks.

>>40196202 (OP)
soren on the log

>>40196202 (OP)
Queer trannies have to take agency in their lives to carve out their own path and identity. Cishet trannies are able to follow along with social expectations and thus never flex any agency. What you're noticing is the difference between the shepards and the sheep.

>>40196202 (OP)
I'm not a straight tranny and I love makeup, cleaning, and cooking, the only thing I don't like is men.

>>40196202 (OP)
because blanchard was 150% right
also socialization is a conspiracy theory, behavioral differences are down to biology

>>40196202 (OP)
Autism

>>40199955
I also like to workout, play games, autistically be interested in certain topics.

>>40199972
If Blanchard was right, why did literally every single person thought I was a faggy gay boy, when in fact I'm a hopeless transbian destined to serve femininity for eternity?

>>40198439
>Cishet trannies are able to follow along with social expectations and thus never flex any agency.
Are you insane? This assumes that every cishet tranny was accepted and allowed to troon out young and never met any backlash or adversity or criticism, which is so far from reality I don't even know where to begin.

>>40200091
because you're making it up

>>40200091
It's almost as if exceptions to the rules exist, doesn't mean there's not an average trend

>>40196202 (OP)
because "straight" is a claim to a particular cultural identity rather than a strict claim to be heterosexual (cis women mostly understand it this way too), and trans people are much less likely to be monosexual
at the margin, the difference between a straight trans woman and a bisexual trans woman is gender conformity, not sexual attraction

>>40201929
I'm literally not.

its not
a lot of the gnarliest johnessa, 51s are straight and a lot of the cutest youngshits are transbians. stop hallucinating about the real world and actually go participate in it lol.
hsts dont mean what it used to hon. the most attractive trannies i know are all bi for other trannies at least a little. the passingest youngshit i know is lesbian.
if you dont have gayface pretrans you're typically a bit crippled but a lot of transbians did too

>>40202637
this entire site is literally frozen in time, people still talk about gamergate and other retarded 2015-16 shit that nobody even remembers
no one goes outside, no one talks to irl lgbt people besides the occasional larp or rehash of "i visited some retarded lgbt support group for 15yo pooners and 51yo lateshits"

>>40202871
to be fair the outer trans realms are literally a biohazard. i have some personal friends but any "wider community" makes me want to ack

>>40202915
yah but i mean like the normal world where people arent like doing drugs and having sex all the time
a lot of those people arent even on hrt or really dysphoric and i think it's unfair to compare them to just bi or les trannies

>>40196202 (OP)
idk. im straight and im still autistic and malebrained. i think the dichotomy isn't straight and transbian, but instead normie vs terminally online

>>40203045
true i know a hsts who likes factorio autism type games and the map games

>>40203087
i like those games too, i have over 1k hours on eu4 lol

>>40196202 (OP)
Is there or are you just making shit up?

>>40203806
Have you never interacted with straight trans women vs. non-straight ones?

>>40204037
I have and theres no difference. Straight trannies play chaos and transbians play necrons idk

>>40204037
No have you?

>>40203770
i think people confuse autism with socialization and other things a lot

>>40196202 (OP)
extroverted friend-havers vs introverted retards that people are embarrassed to even look at let alone talk to

>>40198439
>Cishet trannies are able to follow along with social expectations and thus never flex any agency.
It's literally the other way around. Why do you think the average age of transition has always been a lot higher for transbians? In the US in the 90s the average age of transition for straight trannies was the early 20s, whereas transbians were transitioning in their mid 30s at the earliest. Straight trannies, especially those who thought they could pass, would literally prostitute themselves to get on some dodgy HRT whereas transbians were just going with the flow.

>>40196202 (OP)
I’ve wondered this too. I’m a cis woman and absolutely hate most transbians, but hsts women are fine.

>>40206401
Even straight hons usually aren't even remotely as bad as your average transbians, even many passing transbians give off weird vibes. Wtf is going on there?

>>40206481
i think you're just scared of anyone who could conceivably be attracted to you, its normal for afabs i guess

>>40206238
I don't think it's that. Like I'm HSTS and pretty introverted but still a far cry from non-straight trannies