>>40196954 (OP)
I'm 5 years post-SRS, I would say that it feels good, much better than anal, but it's also rly easy for it to feel painful and I'm still having to work through being relaxed enough to just enjoy it instead of worrying about it hurting.
Masturbating is fine but as soon as someone else's mouth gets down there my brain worms go "she's gonna bite my clit off I'm gonna die" etc.
>>40197955
After a few months of dilating, it is p much fully healed up so the worst that will happen from not dilating is that you'll just not be able to take anything too deep or girthy. If you're having sex once a week or so, esp. after the first year, you can kinda just skip it