Friend may have sexually assaulted me and I have mixed feelings - /lgbt/ (#40217811) [Archived: 650 hours ago]

Anonymous
6/29/2025, 11:59:12 AM No.40217811
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I don't know where else to post so I'll post this here. For the record, I'm not gay but I crossdress a lot and hang out with other crossdressers.

At a party the other day with a friend (male), both of us were really drunk. Despite what my friends think, I tend to handle my alcohol well, but I pretend to act drunk because it's just more fun for me. I think my friend was genuinely drunk. While sitting to the side, he leaned to my side and dozed off, and afterwards ended up surprising me by kissing me twice.

I don't think I'm upset since I really like him and care about him. However, I was saving my first kiss for when I had my first lover, and I don't know if he's interested in dating me. I don't want him to get in trouble and I'm worried he might, especially since there's been some issues recently about someone higher up SAing someone. I don't know if what he did counts as that though. I also worry that this kiss was kinda meaningless, or that he's kissed other people. I'd feel better if he had a crush on me and was wanting to date me since it would mean the kiss was special.

What do you think I should do?
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Anonymous
6/29/2025, 12:06:13 PM No.40217841
>>40217811 (OP)
What are you, fucking 15?
Sit his ass down and talk to him seriously.
That was an important moment that he stole from you and you want your answers. Be a proper adult and talk to his dumbass.
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Anonymous
6/29/2025, 12:12:05 PM No.40217876
>>40217841
>What are you, fucking 15?
No, I have no experience with any kind of romantic stuff. I've never had a partner and I never know when people are flirting with me or just being friendly because of self esteem issues.

I'm scared to talk to him about it because I don't even know if he remembers doing it to me, and if he doesn't what do I even say? It's also been a few weeks so it feels awkward to bring it back up. I also don't know if I'm overreacting on my end, like people say a lot online that first kisses aren't that special and it's a hollywood kind of thing.
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Anonymous
6/29/2025, 12:16:25 PM No.40217892
>>40217811 (OP)
>saving first kiss for some reason
>crossdressing but not gay
>claims a drunk kiss is sexual assault
>deltarune picrel
OP is definitely 15 or something. Tell friend you don't roll that way and forget it ever happend like a grown man holy shit. And stop getting drunk in drag around guys.
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Anonymous
6/29/2025, 12:22:27 PM No.40217922
>>40217892
Shouldn't the fact we were drunk discredit the underage theory? And I don't get drunk in drag, I get drunk in crossdress, big difference.

>and forget it ever happend like a grown man
I was hoping to be able to forget it after a while but it still keeps coming up in my head after all this time. I haven't really talked about it to anyone so that's why I came here.
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Anonymous
6/29/2025, 12:26:31 PM No.40217942
>>40217922
>And I don't get drunk in drag, I get drunk in crossdress, big difference.
Sure. If you're ugly it's drag but if you're pretty it's crossdressing.

Also, it's just a kiss. He didn't fuck, suck, or punch you so you're fine.
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Anonymous
6/29/2025, 12:52:02 PM No.40218052
>>40217942
>Also, it's just a kiss
It was only a kiss
How did it end up like this
Anonymous
6/29/2025, 12:59:30 PM No.40218085
>>40217811 (OP)
You should definitely permanently ruin your friend's life for the most minor possible mutually-drunken infraction
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Anonymous
6/29/2025, 1:02:40 PM No.40218096
>>40217811 (OP)
trannies and sexually assaulting people, name a more iconic combination
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Anonymous
6/29/2025, 1:48:05 PM No.40218354
>>40218085
This but ironically
Radiochan !!ate8lm4hZuS
6/29/2025, 1:50:00 PM No.40218368
>>40217811 (OP)
You got randomly kissed while drunk, that's not "sexual assault "

That being said

>>40217841
You are both adults.
Anonymous
6/29/2025, 1:52:12 PM No.40218380
>>40217922
>Shouldn't the fact we were drunk discredit the underage theory?
Underage reasoning omegalul
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Anonymous
6/29/2025, 1:58:33 PM No.40218419
If Anon didn't consent, it's sexual assault

And it sounds like a Anon didn't consent
Anonymous
6/29/2025, 3:58:02 PM No.40219203
>>40218380
Underage can't legally drink alcohol.
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Anonymous
6/29/2025, 4:46:42 PM No.40219643
>>40218096
This isn't /pol/
Anonymous
6/29/2025, 7:02:30 PM No.40220647
One thing to ask here is that is OP really straight or in the closet?
Anonymous
6/29/2025, 7:04:03 PM No.40220668
>>40219203
I became an alcoholic while underage
Anonymous
6/29/2025, 7:07:31 PM No.40220699
I sometimes doubt if I was truly SA and yet you get morons pretending a kiss is SA without any issue or doubt lmao
Anonymous
6/29/2025, 7:08:19 PM No.40220704
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>someone gave me a drunken peck on the cheek, was I raped?
I'd like to think this is bait but knowing this board I'm sure op really does think that's a normal response
Anonymous
6/29/2025, 7:26:03 PM No.40220867
for a heterosexual guy you sure do think like a woman
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Anonymous
6/29/2025, 8:18:00 PM No.40221268
OP is beyond unhinged and is case and point as to why sharia law may be preferable for the emotionally disabled
Anonymous
6/29/2025, 8:21:05 PM No.40221290
>>40217876
If you can't understand that you're overreacting here you should never date and/or show affection to anyone again for the sanity of the other person, seek broader and better help
Anonymous
6/29/2025, 8:37:04 PM No.40221445
>>40217811 (OP)
dont feel too bad about it being your first kiss.

my first kiss was in highschool when a guy tried pranking me by getting really close to my face and pretending to kiss me, but he accidentally stumbled and we smooched.

youll forget all about it when you actually find someone you love and start smooching them, even the 100th kiss with a lover is way more memorable than your first kiss with someone you dont have feelings for
Anonymous
6/29/2025, 9:13:59 PM No.40221827
>>40220867
poon larp?
Anonymous
6/29/2025, 9:18:46 PM No.40221868
>>40217811 (OP)
>I'm not gay but
>[...]
>gayest shit you ever read
Anonymous
6/29/2025, 10:31:34 PM No.40222645
>>40217811 (OP)
>two kisses
>sexual assault
christ it's not that fucking deep who cares
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Anonymous
6/30/2025, 12:25:10 AM No.40224152
>>40222645
Of course a chaser would post this
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Anonymous
6/30/2025, 12:37:58 AM No.40224317
Lmfao being sexually assaulted has truly lost all meaning. Zoomers are cooked
Anonymous
6/30/2025, 12:43:41 AM No.40224395
>>40217922
Gayest thing I've ever heard anon, welcome to the adult world where sometimes things get messy. Sometimes I wish some of you people would actually get sexually assaulted so you can understand the difference between a drunk friend kissing you and someone forcefully making you do something
Anonymous
6/30/2025, 1:01:59 AM No.40224628
>>40224152
are the "chasers" in the room with us right now?
namefagger
6/30/2025, 1:23:53 AM No.40224918
>>40217811 (OP)
...am I reading this right? A kiss? I think you should do nothing really. Whaddaya expect in that situation?
Anonymous
6/30/2025, 1:43:00 AM No.40225190
These posts are wild. An unwanted kiss is 100% sexual assault.
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Anonymous
6/30/2025, 1:54:08 AM No.40225364
>>40217811 (OP)
if you're not gay then why are you here?
lgbt does not include crossdressers.
Anonymous
6/30/2025, 1:57:46 AM No.40225423
Woahhh Tenna! So cool!
It's.... TV! Timeeeeeee!
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Anonymous
6/30/2025, 4:35:18 AM No.40227487
>>40225423
Tenna is pretty cool, isn't it?
Anonymous
6/30/2025, 7:07:32 AM No.40228524
>>40225190
Every degree is exactly the same which is why we don't distinguish between the sizes or scales of anything ever and jaywalking nets you capital punishment