This is your sign to reach out to that person you miss (it’s me I miss you)

Yes this is for you

>>40253107 (OP)
dont do me like this pls someone posted in my thread saying they knew me but didnt reply when i asked for further info
i miss her so bad but already reached out to her before

>>40253107 (OP)
Both of my persons ghosted me lololol

You got me tempted however

>>40253120
What did you say

>>40253129
it was in a thread thats still up and they said something sweet complimenting me

>>40253136
Ugh. What did YOU say

>>40253146
im gonna reveal myself if i say that!!!! too obvious. what did u say??

>>40253146
ok i just asked them for a hint

>deleting posts
Pathetic

>>40253107 (OP)
AGP image
>>40253128
Based yaoi fag or troon
Fuck yuri transbians

>>40253229
yes whats ur point u werent responding so im obvs not who ur thinking of

>>40253107 (OP)
i think i know it’s not tho :(

>>40253107 (OP)
you have me blocked

>>40253107 (OP)
Stop posting this, it makes me sad

>>40253238
what is the image i thought it was from something i knew but i guess it wasnt

I've blocked or unfriended her on basically everything. If she has my number though that I sent her and misses me even a fraction of the amount that I do then I hope someday I hear back from her. I miss you more than I've ever missed anyone in my life.

>>40253490
Idk it just gives me le hecking ps2 graphics shit which I hate

>>40253238
>Based yaoi fag
Thank you saar

>>40253107 (OP)
thats a terrible idea
spiritual soulmates we can stay away from eachother in this world

>>40253506
please reach out, ive tried messaging you to no avail but idk if you got them, and im blocked elsewhere but i miss you

>>40253107 (OP)
you don't miss me that'd be too good to be true

>>40253107 (OP)
die die die liar

>>40253107 (OP)
I'm ngl i don't really wanna talk to her cause I can tell she doesn't like me.

>>40253107 (OP)
What if she still misses me but I don't miss her at all and honestly kinda hate her now?

>>40255438
you should still reach out because i'm sure she would really appreciate it

>>40255521
Why would I reach out if she'd be the only one benefitting from the interaction?

>>40256361
thats hurtful... do you not care about her at all anymore?

>>40256361
thats hurtful... i guess there wouldn't be any benefit for you. has she reached out to you since you stopped talking to her?

>>40256404
>thats hurtful...
Whatever, she ended it, she can suffer.
>has she reached out to you since you stopped talking to her?
Yes, with more of the same bullshit she'd try to make me believe before.

>>40256525
in the off chance this is who i think it is because it sounds very much like her and fits what happened:
i really did mean what i say, even though i didn't show it well, i really did care and wanted to hold you. i didnt know how to handle it well and i kick myself for not doing so. im sorry for doing this and other things that's led to you hating me.
i shouldnt have ended things with you and i regret it every morning i wake up with a pit in my stomach. it hurts you dont miss me but i understand. i really enjoyed meeting up with you and i hope you find someone who is able to treat your vulnerability with the kindness and comfort it deserves.
katanagatari & lil witch nobeta

>>40253107 (OP)
I can't
continents apart
too much happened
she moved on, I stagnated
not a day without thinking about her

>>40256525
what's the first letter of her discord?

>>40257113
shut up

>>40253107 (OP)
this is a psyop and if you missed me you would reach out to me

>>40253107 (OP)
How would the person you miss know it's you

>>40253107 (OP)
i want a japanese man to fly me over and mistreat me

>>40257141
>>40257113
>>40256709
you guys sound cute.

if for some reason my ex showed up, Im not even sure if I would get her right from these posts.

only if i knew her discord but it's probable one of these posters are playing with you.

>>40257243
are you the person that those people were replying to?

sigh its so romantic. living with a man and not speaking his or his peoples language while being totally isolated and mistreated in a place you don't know your way around.

i didn’t make this thread or any of these posts i’ve deleted my account and i deserve yr hate. i really did love you sorry i said it under horrid context. i wish we met when i still lived in the south everything would have been different, and i wish i could change everything of the circumstances i live in for you and be the for you. i would try if you let me but it would be very hard but you are worth it.. i want to be there for myself in being there for you. do what i want live life freely love myself and amongst what i want is you and to love you. i’m sorry i messed that up. i would still love to hear from you one day sorry for being crazy

>>40258185
if you deleted your account how would this person contact you?

>>40258185
>>40258241
yeah you should leave her a message on discord instead of here

>>40253107 (OP)
I reached out to her last year and now we're dating again yipee

>>40253107 (OP)
you don't miss me, you haven't thought about me in years

>>40258241
>>40258251
she has me blocked and i don’t think she will ever contact me there. i’ve checked discord like at least every hour since she has blocked me two weeks ago like yearning there is a request from her it just hurts and i can’t do that anymore it definitely contributes to me spiraling and like obsessive thinking i think

>>40258310
>she has me blocked and i don’t think she will ever contact me there.
you can still leave a message anyway. she may look back.

>>40258329
i don’t think discord messages work like that? and i did make an alt account to contact her and she said it only makes her angrier and to never contact her again. i need to leave her alone and like i really did fuck up and like pushed her away by spiraling and being crazy she is right for wanting to not hear from me and i need to not speak to her unless does to me first idk which i don’t think is going to happen

>>40253107 (OP)
Every time I reach out to him, he leaves me on seen and ignores my messages.

I irreparably fucked up our friendship by developing feelings and telling him about it (to put it lightly), but now that the feelings are gone, I'm not longer constantly drunk, and I want to be friends instead of trying to be in a relationship with him... It's gone. No more chances. I've apologized about it, I've tried to explain that I have a disordered way of thinking about relationships in general, I had delusions of him being secretly in love with me, but it's over.

You live and you learn. I miss him frequently, and not in a "I'm deeply in love with him" way, in a "I want to play video games and talk about music and listen to music and hang out and shoot the shit and encourage him to succeed in life and hear about his drama and walk around maybe sipping a brewski" way.

god that reminds me that earlier this year this FUCKING LOSER who went out of his way to fuck with and insult and demean me tried to reach out to me again after two years of no contact, I freaked out on him the last time it happened which was also after a one or year gap I think because he didn't even apologize for anything and just took the opportunity to insult me AGAIN

I am so fucking done with clingy desperate losers with no spine, BPD nightmares who always need a problem or drama in their life to satiate their fear of abandonment and a victim to tether themselves to, and fucking liars and cheaters

never letting anyone get close again

>>40258253
don't give me hope like this anon

>>40258400
If you truly love her, there's always hope. Our relationship ended in 2016, but now we're more in love than ever.

>>40258436
tell me the story, that sounds so cute c:

>>40258436
yeah lol don’t give hope like this about to ruin my whole life

>>40256709
>even though i didn't show it well
>i didnt know how to handle it well
What a fucking understatement. Stop leaving out the awful shit you actually said to me and about me before YOU broke up, you lying fucking snake. All three times I've been able to confirm it was you posting it's been you lying through your fucking teeth about everything that happened between me and you, with poor you always playing the victim. I refuse to ever believe you when this is all that I see from you since the day you left.
There was one thing that was actually my fault in that incredibly short lived relationship, and it was believing you'd change the first time this happened. You never show me any sign that you've considered anyone's feelings but your own. You just halfass saying sorry like you're a child being forced into it and then try to guilt trip me into coming back, saying you enjoyed yourself or that me leaving at YOUR request was "hurtful". You've never even tried to stop and think about if I enjoyed myself with you or how every honest attempt I made to open up to you was turned into daggers and thrown back in my face whenever YOU wanted ME gone. It's all about you, all the time, and always about how you're the victim.

my favortie thing about bpdemon post break up posts is that they all share the same patterns and tactics for every single one of them and always date the same type of person so there could be like 20 people who all think whatever anon is crying today is definitely their ex

>>40258672
no one here knows who's who. it's surprising so many relationships have ended around the same time.

>>40258687
it is wild to see people fighting/pleading/whatever with posts that aren’t confirmed to be the other person but also literally me soooo

>>40258395
I hate that so many honest people like us that seek relationships in good faith get run around and burnt out by the rampant bpdemons before we ever get a chance to find each other and work on our problems together in a healthy way. Now we're all so damaged even the slightest imperfection sends us spiraling and cutting people off, like the BPD rubbed off on us somehow.

>>40258763
>like the BPD rubbed off on us somehow
yep
I swear it's infectious, and I'm trying my best to not let it define my life

>>40258623
I'm sorry for the awful things I said to you, particularly the night we argued, it was cruel of me to use your vulnerability against you. I know I treated you wrongly and I'm not the victim here, I just wanted to say how I felt. I don't want to be the victim, I just want things to be better and for us to talk again and for you to feel better.
My apologies aren't half assed, genuinely from the bottom of my heart I feel guilt and I wish I could make things right. I wasn't trying to guilt trip you by saying I enjoyed my time with you, I said it because I genuinely did and I was hoping maybe you would say that you did too, even after us having broken up and argued. I don't remember you saying you left was hurtful, if you meant this thread then I was speaking more towards you saying us talking not benefitting you at all.
I'm sorry for throwing the things you opened up to me about in your face, it was scummy of me to do and you don't deserve that. I'm sorry for pushing you away, I thought you were going to hurt me and I preemptively pushed you away, even though you hadn't ever shown me you would do so. I wish I could make things better.

>>40258623
>>40258805
theres a few typos i apologize if i was unclear, im on mobile right now waiting to get labs done. im girlmoding like you suggested
im sorry for how i treated you

mtfg pls go

>>40258916
hug?

>>40258395
is that person me because it sounds like me but I usually apologize for my behavior because I’m unable to stop it

>>40259169
idk, the guy was a huge fag and a terminally internet-brained 4channer neet and cock-obsessed chaser I met before I trooned out through other internet degenerates I knew irl, but that describes a lot of people lol

>>40259226
that’s literally me. this could mean anything. do you make mods and post them on nexus & steam

>>40259322
goku?

>>40259312
lol no, I don't, and if it helps he was also way into really lowbrow moid shit like wrestling and tried to get me into genres of metal I repeatedly expressed I didn't like

we played some online games together for years off and on, especially when I was NEETing and later when I blew up my old friend group too he was like the only person I'd talk to regularly

>>40259367
oh okay. that’s definitely not me. i usually just go on schizo rants about random stuff. i never liked metal and wrestling. sounds boring

i miss your ASS

>>40258805
Watching you talk is like trying to listen to someone stuck in a house of mirrors. Everything you say always comes back to you and how you feel about it, and nothing about anyone else or how I said your actions here on 4chan are as disgusting and full of shit as anything else you've said to me in private has been.
If you can explain how and why you did EVERYTHING you did, from the lying here to the evil shit you said to me in DMs and the original fucking up everything, without once using the pronouns I, me, my, or us, I will consider speaking to you again. If not, fuck off forever and stop contacting me. All of the numbers you've been texting me with are blocked and deleted.

>>40258897
>im girlmoding
Good.

>>40259655
>If you can explain how and why you did EVERYTHING you did, from the lying here to the evil shit you said to me in DMs and the original fucking up everything, without once using the pronouns I, me, my, or us, I will consider speaking to you again
I promise.

>>40259655
>If you can explain how and why you did EVERYTHING you did, from the lying here to the evil shit you said to me in DMs and the original fucking up everything, without once using the pronouns I, me, my, or us, I will consider speaking to you again. If not, fuck off forever and stop contacting me. All of the numbers you've been texting me with are blocked and deleted
I can do that, promise there will be none of the nouns you listed when we dm

>>40259655
one sec
>Good.
thank you

you could never even finish my playlist i made you i should have known you wouldn’t see a complicated thing through. i’m still sorry how you idealized me at the start it was wrong and im not artsy or like sweet the way you thought im too selfish and brainwormed and prefer paths of least resistance even if they trample over my heart it’s so stupid. i am in a hard spot not enough to explain away anything i did you are right to hate me and i can’t drop the heartbreak it’s pathetic and ugly. that’s what i really am like the stupid music i listen to over and over again. i’m still honored you tried to learn one of my songs but it all blends into the nothingness i am and that of which i express as myself just anger and resistance to fall into where i am and inability to move on from anything and as the keys fit into place to open anything good i retardedly shake in the vulnerability so the lock alters it’s all my fault lacking worn tight and thin i snap empty again and again idek

>>40259655
narc abuser spotted
>>40258805
stay away you are being conditioned

>>40259655
>Not giving you the love you needed when you were sad the first time
It can be difficult to give love when someone doesn't ask for it or give any indication they desire it. There was no knowledge beforehand of how you like to receive love and it was good it was communicated after. That conversation went very well
>Not giving you love the second time you were sad
You were very cold when there was a small test to see if you were receptive, and it made it difficult to give you the love that was needed in that situation. There were different rememberances regarding the order of things, although considering you were so hurt it makes sense that how you remember it the right way. You acknowledged beforehand that there can be gaps in people connecting with you and that is likely what happened here. There is a lot to love about you and there is lots of love that is able to be given to you.
>the evil things said to you in dms
Difficult to say without explaining feelings. There was a lot of panic and strife and threats and doubling down. It was surprising how quickly things collapsed considering things seemed to be going so well. The situation could have calmed down but it kept escalating.
>making the thread
There was poor communication and it was something that truly wasn't a big deal that what was written about happened. It was wrong to write about it on 4chan (along with the posts being made here), youre right that it's immature and misleading towards people to not give the full information and to talk about you on here.

>>40260323
holy fear conditioning
let me guess this person ghosted/blocked you at the slightest misdeed on your side and not being obedient?

>>40260323
This is just a rehash of everything I already spent that whole night saying was incorrect assumptions and you projecting onto me, and you couldn't bully me into taking it the first time either, along with some new "that didn't happen, and if it did it wasn't a big deal" at the end. The only thing we agree on is that the first point wasn't communicated well, but in the end it was just setup for all the lying you did that it would go differently the next time. You really have not changed at all and having responded to you feels like it was a mistake to break the silence you chose for yourself. I believe you have a single shred of remorse for your words or actions even less now, which is honestly an accomplishment.

Never, and I truly mean never, contact me again. Here or otherwise. I will not be contacting or unblocking you.

>>40259996
>>40260421
Go ahead and add her if you think you'll get along so well. For all the claims she makes that she's hung up on me, she's here giving her discord out daily for anyone that asks. I'm sure she'd post it for you as well.

>>40259987

>>40261081
what?

>>40261300
huh?

>>40261040
They were incorrect assumptions, incorrect assumptions happen and it was a misread of what happened. There isn't any attempts at bullying in that post, just attempts at explaining what seemed to happen. I misread the situation, I'm sorry, that's all there is to it. I misread the situation, I misread what you desired.
>I want to hold you right now
>I don't know if that'd help
as you turning me down/thinking that suggestion was stupid. You didn't realize that, but many people would interpret it that way. It was a miscommunication just like our first argument was. Please give grace here, you asked me to explain the situation and there was no starting point to go off of other than the one we were already at. I tried to have it go differently the second time, but you didn't seem receptive to it. Genuinely, bottom of my heart, you didn't seem receptive to it and I was kicking myself for how dumb I seemed during our convo because I tried to be sweet but it seemed like that wasn't what you wanted.
I made the mistake breaking up with you and making that thread, which was wrong, but I didn't block you.
>along with some new "that didn't happen, and if it did it wasn't a big deal" at the end.
That is in regards to what I made the thread about, not that I did or anything I did. You assume the worst interpretations of what was said.
(1/2)

i cant i have to break up first otherwise its dishonest

>>40261040
grendel? who are you talking about?

>>40261040
>>40261378
(2/2)
>Go ahead and add her if you think you'll get along so well... she's here giving her discord out daily for anyone that asks
I haven't sent anyone my discord (other pic), you can search my discord username on the archives for yourself and there won't be one result that comes up.
>For all the claims she makes that she's hung up on me
I have been. I've sent you god knows how many messages and idk how many anons ive replied to hoping that it's been you. I've been waking up every morning with a pit in my stomach and feeling it every time I think about you. I miss being in your arms, I miss hearing your soothing voice, I miss getting to be around you all the time. Normally I have a strong fear of abandonment, but I didn't feel that with you until we argued. We had something good and the chemistry was amazing and we had the same long term desires.
>Never, and I truly mean never, contact me again. Here or otherwise. I will not be contacting or unblocking you.
Please know my DMs are always open if you ever desire to contact or talk to me one day, it's never been too long. I'm going to miss you

>>40261412
i was honest with the both of you… are you seeing someone now is that why you got rid of me

>>40261448
i got with someone else to forget him
it didnt work obviously

>>40261378
>>40261430
You were posting your alt. I remember seeing it in your phone when you showed me stuff sometimes, the one with the dog pic and four numbers at the end, always posted after your exact story was repeated and then deleted a moment later.
You only ever back pedal to exactly as far as I have bothered to call you out to, like it's a game of hide and seek. I can't keep responding to every little attempt you make at manipulation forever or giving you the grace that you aren't doing this intentionally. Everything I said in my post a few days ago still rings true and I'm not dealing with it anymore. Thread closed.

>>40261578
>thread closed
not for you to decide

>>40261578
You're right, I'm sorry. I hope you have a good life and find someone who gives you the fulfillment you desire.

>>40261578
You're right, I'm sorry. I hope you have a good life and find someone who gives you the fulfillment you desire.