I HATE fake tops or switches. They are always just larping bottoms. Is it that hard to be honest and why would you even act that way.

>>40256119 (OP)
ive never done that but i finally wringed an answer from one. they just wanted to be liked and thats what they thought would get me to like them. extremely frustrating

>>40256127
Seems like a histrionic thing to do. Does being a top actually make you that popular to warrant doing that? Also that is pretty pathetic to pretend to be someone else just for attention.

>>40256143
hey no disagreements from me. its not as bad now as it was years ago, tops seem more common nowadays

>>40256119 (OP)

Fake top = not whatever I imagine a top is based on stereotypes, personal ancedotes, my poor dating choices and a non understanding of psychology.

^Average 4chan take.

What makes you different?

>>40256119 (OP)
I only want to top extremely pathetic cis boys I'm exclusively bottom otherwise

>>40256119 (OP)
I mean... look. I am mostly a bottom, I like to say that I am a switch to give myself some defense but I am a bottom. Well, that's the position I'm unwillingly forced into anyways, 60kg 173cm 19yo twink yada yada it makes sense. But I really DO want to top, but every time I try to do it I just get fucking laughed at, I talk in a low voice, get on top of my partner, bite her neck, fondle her, tell her she's under my control now but she can't stop fucking laughing and I don't know what to do. I have a tiny bit of a lisp so it may be that though but idk

>>40256865
>I talk in a low voice, get on top of my partner, bite her neck, fondle her, tell her she's under my control now but she can't stop fucking laughing and I don't know what to do.
Top =/= Dom
Gentle tops exist. Fatherly tops exist. Fem tops exist. You're thinking of dom and sub.

>>40256884
Sorry, I'm well educated in sub v dom but like, rahhhhh gimme a sec to explain.

My gf describes herself as a 'sub top', I really want to satisfy her and play into her natural state of mind but idk wtf that means. Like I'm more than happy to be dommy but do I do that from underneath her??? Is this like power bottoming or whatever??????

(also apologies, I just took Ritalin for the first time)

>>40256951
Yes, think of her as using you for nothing but your cock. You are giving in to her demands and satiating her desires, like a meek goblin servant to a powerful ogre warlord (should be your next roleplay idea).
Jokes aside, think of like the dominatrix/death-by-snusnu fetish of straight men. That's a similar equivalent. She's the dom, you're the top.

>>40256865
> I'm literally a bottom but claim to be a switch thus proving OPs point right

>>40257012
I'm not a bottom by my choice though

>>40257003
Thanks but I think you misunderstood, I never said she was a dom bottom, she told me she was a sub top, the exact opposite of what you're talking about

>>40257161
> I'm not a bottom by my choice though
Free will is an illusion that arose through evolutionary mutation because it merits higher chances of survival for the human species.

>>40257161
if you're the sub top, then that makes her the dom bottom lol

>>40257182
Once again you're not understanding, your advice was worded well but SHE'S the sub top, I have no preference but I guess that would make me the dom bottom in that dynamic, so would it basically be the reverse of what you said earlier? And if yes, what do I do, how do I direct her on what to do to me? That's what I'm confused about

>>40256189
no, fake top = someone who won't top

>>40256119 (OP)
Maybe because you posted pictures from 5 years and 30 pounds ago on Grindr and when they showed up its a deal breaker.

>>40256772
so based, i kinda have the same thing. i will exclusively bottom for everyone, even with trans girls, even with cis women, but for some reason i want to top and fuck girly femboys so badly omfgggg. i have no idea how or why i'm like this, i don't think my dick could even work if i tried topping, but that part of me needs to pin them down by their necks and fuck the absolute shit out of them, i want to top femboys

bump

>>40257277
nta I'll top but you gotta be sweet to me