How do I get my trans GF ex back? - /lgbt/ (#40268457) [Archived: 564 hours ago]

Anonymous
7/3/2025, 12:55:35 PM No.40268457
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I want my doro back. I want to be with my doro. I want to watch my doro draw her comics. I want to hear my doro sing to me again. I want to make my doro laugh and have my doro make me laugh. Why won't my doro let me apologize and be with me again?

I've unironically tried love spells because I don't think there's a way otherwise, but there's got to be some way. PLEASE. I can't keep living without her. I keep hoping I'll get mail from her, or an email, or added on Discord by her.

She was the doro who loved frogs and I hope she can love me again.
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Anonymous
7/3/2025, 1:02:44 PM No.40268494
>>40268457 (OP)
you've been making these threads for years dude. get help
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Anonymous
7/3/2025, 1:04:34 PM No.40268498
>>40268494
>The """help""" is just some retard who asks me 'how does losing A make you feel?' after a long pause
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Anonymous
7/3/2025, 2:02:20 PM No.40268823
Begging for a transgirl to love me like she did
Anonymous
7/3/2025, 2:12:25 PM No.40268872
>>40268498
so because you arent willing to try to be better, it makes the therapist retarded? stay sad then, dipshit
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Anonymous
7/3/2025, 2:26:55 PM No.40268931
>>40268872
Problem
>I don't have my soulmate A; the person who stop me from being lonely and complete me

Solution
>Get back with A

Your suggestion
>... see a random third party who won't in anyway help me get A back
Anonymous
7/3/2025, 2:28:09 PM No.40268941
>>40268872
Problem
>I don't have my soulmate A; the person who would stop me from being lonely and complete me as a person

Solution
>Get back with A

Your suggestion
>... see a random third party who won't in anyway help me get A back
Anonymous
7/3/2025, 3:12:50 PM No.40269202
>>40268457 (OP)
you've already screwed it, if you never made posts about her and just left it alone there was a SMALL chance she'd come back. There's 0% chance of getting anything but a restraining order if you try to contact her again, especially because she knows it's you making these.
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Anonymous
7/3/2025, 3:22:10 PM No.40269259
>>40269202
>if you never made posts about her and just left it alone there was a SMALL chance she'd come back.

I don't believe that when she refused to talk to me for over a year so you're just full of it

>especially because she knows it's you making these.

She doesn't know though
Anonymous
7/3/2025, 3:25:13 PM No.40269279
Hey are those doros
Anonymous
7/3/2025, 3:30:36 PM No.40269308
>>40269202
And if you are being honest, why didn't she try to contact me and continued not to even while was undergoing my second crash out?
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Anonymous
7/3/2025, 3:33:09 PM No.40269319
>>40269308
>why didn't she try to contact me and continued not to even while was undergoing my second crash out
I said it was a small chance and the honest reason is because she doesn't care.

she wasn't your soul mate, her breaking up with you means she wasn't. If she was your soul mate she'd still be with you. You are fixated on a girl who doesn't even slightly care about you
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Anonymous
7/3/2025, 3:34:43 PM No.40269326
>>40269319
>and the honest reason is because she doesn't care.

Because of her fucking SSRIs.
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Anonymous
7/3/2025, 3:35:29 PM No.40269332
>>40269326
>Because of her fucking SSRIs.
no, she just doesn't want you. she will never want you again and you can't force her to. I hope you move on from this soon and realize that.
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Anonymous
7/3/2025, 3:40:16 PM No.40269361
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>>40269332
I thought I was getting over it, but then some piece of shit posted this, which was one of the last things she ever sent me. I have a terrible memory but I can't forget stupid things like this because I FUCKING LOVE HER GOD DAMMIT AND I'LL ALWAYS REMEMBER THE STUPID LITTLE THINGS ABOUT HER
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Anonymous
7/3/2025, 3:42:23 PM No.40269381
What's happening in here?
Local man pines for woman?
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Anonymous
7/3/2025, 3:49:05 PM No.40269427
>>40269381
It wouldn't be pining if somebody helped me get her back. There has to be someone here witchy enough to give me the right spell or something.
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Anonymous
7/3/2025, 3:51:09 PM No.40269439
>>40269427
so you would rather magically rape her than move on? you don't love her, you are obsessed with her and if I was her I'd be scared of you.
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Anonymous
7/3/2025, 3:52:39 PM No.40269452
>>40269439
That's not how they work.
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Anonymous
7/3/2025, 3:54:08 PM No.40269460
>>40269452
bending someone's will in a way they don't want so they will be with you? yeah dudes that's just magic rape. you're gross.
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Anonymous
7/3/2025, 3:55:03 PM No.40269463
selfish pig
you already know that posting this shit is bad but you don't even care. fix yourself or die
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Anonymous
7/3/2025, 3:55:40 PM No.40269468
>>40269326
>>40269332
Hey I’ve had this happen (SSRI thing). It’s brutal and im sorry. It legitimately may have had nothing to do with you, and maybe she was your soulmate, and how things ended had nothing to do with you. At the end of the day you need to cut the self infantilization out. Maybe just do your best, when you get the urge to post or stalk her or curse her out or whatever to pray for her wellbeing. If you guys really are meant to be you should focus on becoming the mind of man who can be a really excellent lover, and act like an adult, instead of whatever it is you’re doing now. This whole thing reeks of underage posting to be honest but my advice stands, focus on getting yourself together, wish her well and accept that somethings are beyond your control. It doesnt mean you have to forgive her for abandoning you if thats how you feel it went down, but you need to stop resenting her for it to have any hope of moving on, getting back, or finding someone else.
T. Found a new, better love of my life after this happened to me
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Anonymous
7/3/2025, 3:57:55 PM No.40269485
>>40269468
>Hey I’ve had this happen (SSRI thing)
I've been on the other end and no this isn't how it works. I'm off SSRIs now because I can cope with the depression enough, and I still don't want them. The SSRIs just helped me get enough out of the slump to realize I deserve better. That's what's really going on not whatever cope you're doing.
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Anonymous
7/3/2025, 3:58:08 PM No.40269488
>>40269460
Confirmed for not fembrained. Look up who makes love spell videos on YouTube.

>>40269468
>T. Found a new, better love of my life after this happened to me

You make it sound easy but I'm 30+
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Anonymous
7/3/2025, 3:59:29 PM No.40269499
>>40269488
>Confirmed for not fembrained. Look up who makes love spell videos on YouTube.
doesn't matter who makes them it's still magic rape
Anonymous
7/3/2025, 4:01:29 PM No.40269515
>>40269468
>>40269488
And, I forgot to mention I'm a disgusting mutt, as I can tell how one side of my family influences me over another.
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Anonymous
7/3/2025, 4:05:51 PM No.40269557
>>40269485
Your experience is not determinative for all persons, you realize that right? Maybe it wasnt a chemical thing in your case but that doesn't mean im coping or lying. Im literally trying to be mature and giving honest advice from my own experience.
You can think what you want without sharing it. This is an especially good practice if you’re only sharing it to convince yourself you’re right and the other persons statement is wrong. Persons on SSRIs for significant periods basically loose their capacity for meaningful object cathexis because the whole circuit boards getting fried with pleasure daily, you ought to be appraised. Meaning that I dont tend to trust the mental acuity or perceptions of people that voluntarily submit themselves to chemical lobotomy.
Anonymous
7/3/2025, 4:07:07 PM No.40269578
>>40269488
Then stop being such an autistic baby manchild and get yourself to an analyst
Anonymous
7/3/2025, 4:08:08 PM No.40269586
>>40269468
>>40269463
Let's say I "fix myself" (whatever that means)

I'm still without A

And again, for a bit, I was really thinking "okay I'm not with her and it's okay, my life sucks and it's okay and she's happy"

And like I posted here: >>40269361

It's impossible to forget, which stifles my attempts at forgiving.
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Anonymous
7/3/2025, 4:08:34 PM No.40269589
>>40269515
>>40269488
ohhhh this makes sense why you're obsessed with them now. You don't love them, they don't love you, but you've convinced yourself you can't find someone who can care about you for a bit again subconsciously because of how much you hate yourself. You think it would be easier to force her to change. Get therapy, work on loving yourself, and eventually you'll be able to do relationships again but healthily
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Anonymous
7/3/2025, 4:12:46 PM No.40269617
>>40269586
Got to sex and love anonymous or something man. This connection to A is a basically addictive relationship to nustify you slowly symbolically killing yourself everday. Its not about anything at this point. You just have to stop this pattern. I know its easier said then done but truly you will never think your way out of this consciously. You just need to basically surrender your will and try to get over it and live your life no matter what seems possible. You will make it truly truly seem to yourself everyday that rotting in your own impotence is the only possibility you have. You have to become able to maintain to yourself you can live without her no matter how bad or impossible that feels.
Anonymous
7/3/2025, 4:14:09 PM No.40269630
>>40269589
She called me from work. Nobody ever did that for me. There's a lot of other things too but that always stands out to me.

And you say I could always meet somebody better, but I contend based on my mom's history, I could meet someone worse.