Anonymous
7/4/2025, 10:38:43 PM No.40283654
I understand agender/bigender, but I feel like people who use "he/they" or "she/they" only serve to reinforce gendered stereotypes. Outside of anecdotal experience with effeminate men who went by he/they and tomboyish girls who went by she/they, the explanations I've heard for using both pronouns have always been "I don't feel too masculine" or "I don't feel too feminine". Isn't one of the goals of activism to illustrate that being atypically masc or fem doesn't define one as non masc/fem? It just seems stereotypical to lump yourself into the nonbinary umbrella just because you don't completely fit stereotypes.
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