How the hell am I supposed to date as a trans woman? I'm even bi so I have more options and I STILL can't imagine finding anybody who would want to date my worthless ass. Cis men just want to fuck, cis women either are scared of my AMAB nature or view me as some sort of safe softboi, trans men aren't real, and I haven't been able to find a single other trans woman around my age who isn't either a creep or already in a polycule and I'm not gonna be a poly fag. What do I even do? I just want someone to hold me ffs fmstl

>>40291686 (OP)
I'm going to give you some serious advice while I'm sobering up. Start by telling us your age and location. Also tell us what apps you've tried so far. Do you pass? Are you employed? There's a lot of factors that will determine your success in dating.

>>40291686 (OP)
i got a transbian gf as i was into buses lmao. she was a gigahon who rejected hrt as "needles painful" so i didn't miss her when she broke up with me "to study" lmao

>>40291702
I've tried Tinder, Bumble, Grindr, Taimi, Hinge, that's about it for dating apps but I kind of hate them because they're so superficial. I'm 25 in the US. I wouldn't say I pass but I'm not ugly or anything, just look like a feminine man. I do work full-time.

>>40291686 (OP)
I have dated 4 trannies (real life not long distance) since 2015 and I met them all on Tumblr or Twitter. Shit was easy. Just be cute and visible online and the men will march in.

>>40291686 (OP)
>dating trannies
no one wants that