Thread 40314057

Sometimes I wonder if I got into a relationship with a trans girl because I felt I wasn't worthy of a 'real' girl and just wanted something easy. That or trans girls just excite me more. I'm a straight guy. When I was with my ex (trans girl) and she'd be unbereable sometimes (schizo meltdowns) I wondered if I should just go for a CIS girl so that at least, if she has stupid meltdowns that ruin my day, at she would give me children and a family to my own. So yes, the meme about straight men wanting to give up on their trannies when they realize they're setting themselves up for a genetic dead end is real. What really excites me is crazy obssessed bpd girls that shower you with love. That's why I dated a trans girl. But turns out the love bombing comes with equally terrible lows where she is beyond crazy and has the frontal lobe of a 5 year old.

Dating a trans girl felt like having a little kid. It didn't feel like having a woman I could trust. It felt like someone I had to parent due to how dysfunctional she was.

>>40314057 (OP)
I must be honest though, I didn't really have those thoughts at first. Her insecurity and her calling me a fed for putting up with her bullshit got me feeling insecure in the relationship over time.

She'd say I'd leave at first opportunity all the time and there was no way I would stay because she was so insecure. I guess it gets into you after a while and you start thinking "well, maybe she's right, maybe I deserve better"

I used to wonder why they used to ban and bury certain fiction books and this is probably one of those reasons

>>40314057 (OP)
Why do I doubt that F1nn knows how to play chess?
>both black bishops are on black squares
yeah that'll do it.

current earworm:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6titLxDID9g

>>40314057 (OP)
What are the schizo meltdowns like? Like what would happen?

>>40314088
If I'm not going to have children, and I'm going to be with a trans girl, at least it has to be quite pleasant right? Taking care of someone to the point it feels like taking care of a child, for someone who can't even give you children, does feel like complete nonsense. There's no period, no hormonal shift based on a calendar. No genetic clock telling you to have children or die. So why are trans women this crazy?

I would never date a trans woman again unless she is sweeter than the cis girl. I won't refuse myself children to be with someone who acts like a child. It's just a terrible deal. And I'm glad I got out of it.

Words words words the left can’t meme

>>40314118
I don't want this post to be too recognizable, but mostly delusions? She had to be re-assured about things all the time, constantly. It was constant emotional work. Sometimes she'd act violent. Anxious meltdowns about nothingburgers all the time. Constant drama about every little thing and can't get out of the house without worrying about nonsense and finding excuses to do nothing rotting in bed all day watching instagram reels.

>>40314057 (OP)
Also there is no way for the black kings rook to be where it is, why the fuck is the black king half way up the board while the queen is still behind pawns, the black queen is on the wrong colour, how the fuck did kings knight get there, how the fuck did white get a pawn on the back row, and also white has made 10,000 times more moves than black, the king randomly assaulting up the board for no reason withstanding.

this is worse than that time Jude tried to tradthott using the KJV.

reminder to not use f1nn5ter pics when making posts lol

>>40314149
So normal female in her 20s.
I struggle to get my cisf friends to respond to texts and emails.

>>40314179
I was drunk when I made this post.

>>40314203
I would only take shitty behavior from a really hot cis woman giving me 10 children. Otherwise she better be on her best behavior or she can fuck off.

>>40314149
This sounds so crazy. And here I am feeling bad for my bf having to take my dog out when I’m at work.

>>40314224
You wouldn't tho.
You'd wind up dating me in your 40s because I'm the only girl who's up for it and you're the only man who can actually get it.
Literally 100% of the dicks who've been inside me more than once are divorced guys with kids looking for distraction on "her weekend".

>>40314057 (OP)
>>40314088
>>40314122
>>40314224
I will never date another cis woman after my experiences with how much they can fuck your life up. I previously gave up a trans girlfriend back when it was even more uncool to date a trans girl partly considering the having kids thing, to get into a decade long relationship with a cis foid who nearly destroyed me.
I am have now been happily dating a trans girl long term again, their shit cannot compare to how cis women try to fuck up people's lives.

>>40314245
You’re a sissy boomerhon, of course the only dick you’re getting is married DL creeps on the apps. Your experiences aren’t comparable to a cis woman or even the average passoid.

>>40314278
dude, my ex trans wife almost ruined my life, I had to fucking flee man. I guess it's not a trans vs cis issue but just finding someone who isn't brain damaged as your partner

>>40314282
>things that don't dispute what I just said

You got into a relationship with a trans woman because you cannot accept being gay and want to have gay sex and pretend it isn’t that.

>>40314306
>Emily of 4chan
question, why do you fuck random married men if you're decently hot? what's the appeal over a normal relationship?

>>40314306
I didn’t realize I was supposed to be arguing with you? Feel free to go back to the feminine pastime of sperging about chess

>>40314304
>finding someone who isn't damaged in the 21st century
good luck with that

>>40314328
>if you're decently hot
Emily is the biggest hon on the board and extremely delusional

>>40314304
>dude, my ex trans wife almost ruined my life
well, tell us about it so that we can learn

>>40314327
No actually... sometimes I'd doubt myself but I looked deep into it and can assure you I'm not gay. Touching her gock in any way didn't excite me too much. None of her masculine features excited me. Just to be sure, after the relationship ended, I let a twink sucked my cock and didn't enjoy it at all even though he was good. I don't like men. The appeal for trans girls to me is that they're obsessed and really really loving when they're not into a crazy anxious depressive episode

>>40314358
I second the motion. Give us the tea you cowards

>>40314328
I fuck whoever asks and can host. I like sex, and I like saying yes to sex. It's absolutely fucking mindblowing that the number of guys who want but can't have me outnumber the guys who can have but don't want me.

>>40314335
I didn't know chess was gendered.

>>40314352
>Emily is the biggest hon on the board
That's a BIG claim.

>>40314407
Not really. We’ve seen your fridge body in grandma clothes many times and you are too much of a hon to post a face pic.

>>40314420
Yeah that makes me mid.
There are literal Yetis lurking here.

>>40314460
>mid
The only thing mid about you is that you’re middle aged

>>40314494
It must suck to be as alone and isolated as you are.

>>40314358
It's all about power unbalance really. I'm a bit of a hopeless romantic so I naively believed I could give up or comprimise on some important things to make her happy. I put myself in a vulnerable position that made it really hard to stand up for my values at the end.

I don't want to get into too much details because I've already made quite a few posts about it, but essentially...

I immigrated to her country, I had a car but at the end I had to send it back to my country. So I ended up in a position where I didn't have a car, wasn't allowed to work until govt said yes. I wasn't independent anymore. Basically stuck at home with a crazy bitch that didn't let me drive her car. And sometimes, you can refuse to believe in basic menology thinking it's joe rogan type stuff, but a man who doesn't really have the option to leave and doesn't have the means to be independent looks weak and abusable. Since I was immigrating, she knew she had power over me and she knew I cared about successfully making it. When I lost my car, the abuse and disrespect ramped up to the point I had to use the only card I had left. Leaving. Now I will never know if this woman was just nasty or any woman would start disrespecting their man, no matter how good he is, simply because he is in a phase of his life where he doesn't have much teeth due to life events. Anyway, LESSON OF THE DAY

- Don't put yourself in a vulnerable position with a woman. DO NOT immigrate to her country no matter how amazing that country is.
- Never give up or compromise on your responsabilities/power/values as a man. Never let a woman declaw you because she will abuse you once you're declawed.

IT IS also very possible I had a nasty bitch for a woman. But I still think it's important , at least for me, to NEVER put as much trust and faith into someone. Always keep an eye on yourself or you might lose yourself

>>40314057 (OP)
> the meme about straight men wanting to give up on their trannies when they realize they're setting themselves up for a genetic dead end is real
why do y'all never talk about your feeling and just come to conclusions without involving your partner? i'd be TOTALLY fine going with a surrogate pregnancy if you care about preserving your genetics - adoption is of course also an option.
I want to be a mother.

>>40314591
we did talk about it at length actually. We both wanted children. But she insisted on having some with her frozen sperm which I couldn't really get behind and she was also very insecure about me falling in love with the surrogate mother and leaving her behind.

>>40314514
here cometh the 4chan incels...

>>40314514
Thank you for sharing that anon, I had a similar experience but with a cis foid. Shitty people are out there but I think what you said about
>Never give up or compromise on your responsabilities/power/values as a man
Is incredibly important
I let myself fall into that and it really fucked me up bad, I will always put my self sustainment first these days and it is far more healthy.

Other anons here, this anon isn't bullshitting this is real stuff.

>>40314619
>here cometh the 4chan incels...
>everyone who had a bad experience with a woman and an unnatural power dynamic is le incel

>>40314607
ah okay sorry then for assuming wrong things :3
> the meme about straight men wanting to give up on their trannies when they realize they're setting themselves up for a genetic dead end is real
I don't have frozen sperm so adoption or surrogates are my only option - seems like the two of you just didn't match all that well in the end

>>40314505
That would def suck if it were true

>>40314057 (OP)
what's the point in making these posts here?
>i dated a schizophrenic bpd tranny because i wanted excitement and a quick ego boost, but now i'm swearing off all trannies forever
>also here's all the ways you'll never compare to cis women
like is this just a mean spirited larp designed to make people feel bad? or do these men have zero emotional intelligence on top of their poor understanding of statistics?

>>40314057 (OP)
I never understood the point of dating a trans girl unless someone was really into penis but didn't like masculinity.

You don't get pussy access (anal is way more restrictive); you don't get potential kids, you don't get nicely shaped boobs; nor the look of female hip; and finding a trans girl facially on par with an average girl is way harder than just finding an average gf.

I can understand why people chase FtMs cause twink + pussy but dick really overcome all those downsides for MtF chasers?

>>40315682
At least for me I thought AMABs were really endearing and the little cock, especially in a cage, is quite cute too. But they are inferior to cis women in every way.

>>40315682
forgot to say, anal is amazing but it sucks that it has to be planned in advance and I can't just enter whenever I want. It made initiating and starting sex a bit annoying sometimes. We'd get excited and horny and then she'd have to clean. Sometimes waiting for that could kill the excitement

>>40314107
god u suck

>>40314278
>>40314304
now ur getting it! It's not gender its whos been hit as a kid. Just ask did ur mom hit u and if they say yes you got ur answer.