>>40324151I wish you wouldn't say that I don't want to be communicating a misogynist idea like, "women are passive, I'm feminine because I hate conflict." I try to work on my self esteem instead.
Regarding sexual situations I remember one time I was SO scared to tell my boyfriend I didn't want to do something because what if he just decided to keep pushing me to do it anyway? I knew if that happened I would just give in and when he just responded with, "okay we don't have to do that" I started crying a little bit with relief.