I'm an identical triplet and both of my triplet brothers transitioned (FTM) before me. I cut them off because I got invested in an online TERF space and now that I've had a break from it I think I may actually be trans and need to transition. I can't do this because everyone will think not only I copied them, but I don't deserve transition and to be called a man, because I was a TERF and cut contact with them because they were trans. It's too late for help now.

>>40337055 (OP)
yeah that sucks, but like. try to make it clear u wish you'd never done that and try transitioning yourself
they might see it as a bit, but once they see the effort. they'll understand their sister was just misled

>>40337055 (OP)
ok but for real is there any way to explain this without believing in the tranny gene?

Chuds:
>transgenderism isn't genetic--ACK!

You guys don't even know how over it is. They've been calling themselves twins for years. I'm out of the picture. I don't exist to them.

>>40337128
not genes, but estrogen/testerone exposure in the womb

>>40337148
i think if u have a genuine discussion theres still hope, they cut you off for good reason but theres always room for growth and redemption

>>40337148
>>40337162
yeah you have to show them youve genuinely changed and hate TERFs (you might even have to be a little performative about it depending). im sure if youre open and clear they will be okay with it at least a little even if it take time to become "triplets" again. if they refuse to even listen tho maybe its just not worth it

>>40337178
I want to leave to another country and have a new life.

>>40337148
fuck, that hurts and i'm not even the target
>>40337178
yeah, they said it best^

>>40337055 (OP)
Honestly OP, I would like to feel bad for you but the way you are describing it makes it sound like you only realized your actions were wrong when they started to disadvantage and hurt YOU. For your sake I hope you can reconcile with them, but I wouldn't blame them if they wanted nothing to do with you, I wouldn't. Hitting a TERF with gender dysphoria always seemed like the perfect ironic punishment, a little funny to see it play out haha.