>>40340558 (OP)It's misandric bi/homophobia on all sides.
I'll openly date trans women and publicly defend them when they stop screaming at everyone that they are the exact same as "cis" women.
Trans women and the men who actually are capable of loving them have no allies. To most normies, especially American women, both groups are either fags or groomers. From a "chaser" POV it's hard enough for us to honest with ourselves about what we really like. When trannies turn around and want us to lie to everyone to control their own optics in a narcissistic, entitled way, it creates the resentment that leads to the dynamic that is often seen between MtFs and the "straight" men who are attracted to them. So we ghost or are emotionally distant because the lie you need us to tell is absurd and traumatic to us, and you want to shake us down for money, seeing us as "tricks".
MtFs are attractive to guys like us because of their androgyny. The artful artificiality of your hyper-femininity that is ultimately a true, deep expression of your personalities and creativity that most "cis" men and women aren't capable or worthy of. That's what GAMP is. It's an attraction to this beautiful, delicate kind of new masculinity that comes without the patriarchal baggage. Someone will read this and call me a gincel without thinking about it any more deeply than that and it makes me sad, genuinely. You don't want to really understand our desires. You just need them to validate your weak self image.