>>40341647If I'm dating her it means that I don't see her as a man, instinctively, whatever my rational brain happens to know about her past or anatomy. If she shows me a pic of her as a man, I can't just unsee that. I don't think people realise how heavily attraction relies on instinct, why do you think a large minority of gynephilic men are fine being with a girl with a dick in the first place but aren't attracted to men? It's because she has passed that mans threshold of having enough femininity to be sexually or romantically attractive. I don't want to see the face of a guy who draws or photographs hot women even if I find his work sexy.