>>40342103 (OP)Does it make me transphobic if I just cannot see these people as women, and at this point frankly feel insulted that I'm supposed to?
I don't want them hurt, I don't want them to lose access to their HRT, I don't want them to go through conversion therapy, as far as I'm concerned if playing Woman makes them happier then they can do it happily with whoever chooses to participate. But I have nothing in common with them. I can't imagine any other woman accepting them out of anything other than pity, or more likely, fear. It's insane to me that a woman could lose her job because she feels uncomfortable sharing a toilet with the one on the left.
Am I a TERF? Is this Peak Transing? I don't even mind about most transwomen. And there are some non-passing ones whose appearance startles me but who seem like totally sweet and harmless people who have more in common with women than anyone else, but behavior like this just makes me think 'creepy man'.