I'm scared that I will never settle down with a family and kids, I want to get married and have kids one day, but I'm 20, I have not had a successful long term relationship since I was 11, that one lasted till I was 14 but I have not had one since, I have dated many, but not for more than a year at a time. Is it too late for me to find the one, I know it probably isn't but it feel like it is, all my peers had/have long term, loving relationships but i find it so hard, it's hard to put yourself out there. I tried dating apps but its horrible, I only have success on fucking grindr, but I've never met up with anyone on there, and I cant stand the hookup/cheap sex culture. Is this really what it's like being an adult?

>>40343524 (OP)
>20
bitch shut up you’re literally a fetus

>>40343524 (OP)
>20
>years old
>twenty

yeah it's already over, pack it up. stop trying

>>40343540
I know I'm young, but it feels like I'm past my prime already.

>>40343524 (OP)
my.goat im 20 too and going through the same thing except i never dated anyone offline and also got kind of traumatized by something so i cant love or feel comfortable with people anymore. i feel like now i can never achieve my dream of being happy with a family of my own even if i do make it to 50 or 70. i feel awful all day everyday. i hate whores so much because its so normal in lgbt culture that the chances of finding someone who will actually stay with me seem so low already. also im ftm so i feel like no one i date will see me as a man and will just lie to me. my advice is we should just vow to be volcels until we find someone or stay celibate our whole lives and use up that time for other things like hunting or studying

>>40343664
I will never stop trying, or give up. I think that will only make your situation worse, why make it worse instead of at least trying, that aside, it's still hard to feel like this all the time.