Thread 40372712

Day 1825 of looking for a decent man

That app is a wasteland if you're not looking to drive to some man's house to get fucked. Honestly you're better off trying to find a man at Tesco.

>>40372745
There was this really hot guy at the local supermarket, I asked him to help me and I wanted to give him my number but then I remembered I'm trans and he would be disgusted and insulted by me

>>40372757
Personally I'd be flattered even if a tranny gave me their number, but I'm not a really hot guy so I suppose I'm not jaded in that way.

>>40372712 (OP)
wow both of these people are obnoxious. is this what dating apps do to people?

>>40372800
Wow what did I do wrong?

>>40372800
You seem to be missing the context that this is Grindr, not a dating app. The guy in blue is rightfully annoyed that the tranny is using the casual sex app to try to find tomance

>>40372855
Then why is he messaging women with 0 game, then throwing a tantrum he has no game?

>>40372853
maybe im being a little judgemental sorry
>>40372855
sex without romance is worthless

>>40372798
That's sweet. I've been abused a lot to the point I wouldn't inflict myself on others, I wish people like you populated the world more

>>40372861
Messaging women on the gay dating app? Nice troll

>>40372861
Because this isn't an app to spit game, it's an app for no strings attached sex. Op is presenting themselves as a gay man by being on this app and then getting mad that other gay men just want to fuck

>>40372712 (OP)
babe just go on tinder, dont waste ur time with this
i know its fun to mess around with them but like
it gives u brain cancer at some point

>>40372872
Lgbt app, actually

>>40372878
Nope, I'm post op lol.

His game was poor, why would I want such an awkward and charmless man

>>40372887
Lesbians use grindr?

>>40372881
I'm going to be banned from grindr soon, so I might as well mess around before next week

:(

>>40372887
App for men actually

>>40372900
Rarely but I have been approached by cis women, yes

>>40372903
>>40372881
LOL xD gl on tinder, straight men report faggots roleplaying as women there

>>40372903
you can get banned on grindr? the drug slinging rape app? I didnt even know

Doesn't matter what kind of op you are. You make an account on "gay sex app for gays" people will assume you are a gay man for gay sex. I don't know what mental illness makes you keep doing this. You are the only one who looks stupid every time

>>40372904
>App for men actually
App for men to talk to women with 0 game then get upset when they don't get what they want*

>>40372913
UK bringing in age verification, so to use grindr from next week I need to provide my passport.

It will inevitably be hacked and leaked. The data will definitely be sold too

>>40372913
Yes, you have to be really retarded but you can get banned.

>>40372917
A man messaged a man, no woman was involved

>>40372861
you're also on the homosexual board spouting traditional heterosexual gender roles. op has zero game too.

>>40372916
>look like a woman
>sound like a woman
>dress like a woman
>vagina like a woman
>breasts like a woman
>state I'm a woman

>"well actually I'm a dumb transphobe and I'll talk to you like I do other horny men, whoah do you mean you don't want to meet me in a dark park alone at 3am to give me a blowjob!! The West had fallen!!"

>>40372922
Well i suppose thats better for you really, off to hinge or tinder. Or really some real life communities, not that hard in the UK of all places

>>40372926
Yet he didn't get what he wanted, because trans women are men.

you and him have so much in common

>>40372931
I dont need game lol, I'm the pursued. My job is to look pretty and select well.

You, and that guy, are not meeting the standard.

>>40372936
I cant say I'll miss it lol. I'll just wear really sexy dresses then go to the drill section of B&Q, and look confused

>>40372938
>trans women are men
Indeed

>>40372926
Yet he didn't get what he wanted, because trans women are women.

you and him have so much in common

>>40372948
ngl, hell yeah

>>40372952
Autocorrect is made by grok now

>>40372943
I would question the motives of a man who is willing to pursue someone from Grindr desu. Comes off as an antisocial red flag given the environment.

>>40372957
>error hi! I really need to put up this picture in my bedroom but the drills here are so heavy, do you know any men that could help me??

Will they respond? I'll try it anyway lol

>>40372933
If you're on Grindr trolling for men, I highly doubt you pass. Bro was just trying to get some cd bussy in his mind

>>40372968
I pass.

You call that trying? "Let's shag", disgusting lmao.

>>40372967
thats too on the nose, ask them what drill is best for this kinda thing and vet from them, be like would you do this for me over some tea and cakes

>>40372973
For casual gay sex, yeah that's how it works.

>>40372977
Then maybe he should message men if he wants casual gay sex, why does he want a vagina

>>40372977
In the gay mind, a blowjob counts as mild foreplay.

>>40372712 (OP)
>Do you pass?
>Do you still have a cock?
>Are you in the Sydney region?
If yes to all three, I'm down.

>>40372976
Omg you're so good at this. I love baking.

That's a good suggestion, offer to bake a Victoria sponge or a layer cake, men love cake. Wish we could wing woman together, I bet I'd find a good man in no time

>>40372978
He did think he was messaging a guy

>>40372989
Then that makes him a jackass.

>let me message this user thst looks like a woman

Why doesn't he message a nice daddy type who goes to the gym?

>>40372985
>>Do you pass?
Irl yea but brainworms meh
>>Do you still have a cock?
Nope
>>Are you in the Sydney region?
Sorry

>>40372987
ahahaha no way, i kinda scare men away with my bratty attitude. But yeah everyone loves some cake!! and women who can bake are great as well!

>>40372993
Because he likes feminine men and that's what you look like

>>40372999
I lied I don't pass I deserve to be killed. I'm a disgrace and I don't deserve life, I'm sorry I exist

>>40373009
I've had ffs lol. There's plenty of legit CDs on there, like actual weekend sissys who have a male sex drive.

I'm very open I'm post op, I have a pussy, and tits lol. What kinda gay man likes that, explain yourself now!

>>40373014
I'm sorry that you look like a gay twink after all that work.

>>40373007
Hehe I have this new oven it's so lovely, and my mixing bowls and wooden spoons. It's nice just baking random biscuits and buns, something to nibble on whilst I go on my phone :)


Ohhh I made myself hungry lol. I thought men loved brats! Hehe they're easily intimidated creatures

>>40373019
What colors my hair? Whats my skin tone?

Anon you know nothing and just look silly lol

>>40372887
Kek, you fell for that marketing gimmick? I thought autists saw right through propaganda.

>>40373021
nonono guys get really scared very quickly, gone are the days of chivalry.... It's like, really hard to be a coquettish girl cuz men cant take a little playful insult anymore, but ur approach is good, very non-threatening!

>>40373041
No ones immune to propaganda, also get reported on other apps

>>40373043
Modern men are very confusing, i think its because of how fragile they are, and rather than work on that, the becone defensive, just what ive observed.

Demure for the win, if a man cant handle you flirting then how can you rely on him to support you when you need him most, its a good filter

>>40372712 (OP)
Why the fuck are you looking for that on Grindr then dude.

>>40373099
And that's what I love about grindr. Its still as unconfusing as ever.

>>40373117
Self harm, can post content here, pure and total desperation and misery

>>40372712 (OP)
are you seriously trying to use the gay man hookup app to find a decent man?

>>40373139
>are you trying to use the gay man hookup app to find a decent man?

Yes

>are you seriously trying to use the gay man hookup app to find a decent man?

No

>>40372933
>look like a woman
>sound like a woman
>dress like a woman
>vagina like a woman
>breasts like a woman
>state I'm a woman
>still goes on app for men that fuck men
???

>>40373154
Lgbt app, trans friendly. I clearly state im not cis, dont mislead anyone

>>40373154
Checks out for women behavior lol

>>40373159
Grindr isnt just for gay men, the apps culture can change and become inclusive and more understanding

>>40373158
>LGBT app
Yes, gay/bi men are LGBT
>trans friendly
That's for FTMs/non-passing MTFs

>>40373167
But what about me, thats not fair?

>>40373178
Too bad

>>40373197
Well thats the wrong attitude, grindr is for me too

>>40373204
Nope

>>40373427
Well it's unfair so it needs to change. Gay men can't just monopolise the app!

Trans women have so few places to go

>>40372712 (OP)
frankly im shocked you met anyone on grindr who can speak unbroken english

>>40372712 (OP)
looking for anything other than a hookup on grider was ur first mistake.

>>40373936
noooooo but the homosexual AMaB was supposed to figure out the other homosexual AMaB is a transgirl, so you have to treat her differently!!!

>>40372917
App for prison gay men

>>40373946
I don't care what you are if your using grinder or tinder or any of the other cesspool hook up apps you're asking for it.

Bump

>>40373946
>"figure out"
>basic reading skills
>eyeballs that can see pictures

You calling gay men stupid and illiterate anon?

You're not going to find a decent man in Grindr, you stupid dumb fag

>>40376127
Pain

:(

>im exciting for the right man who treats me right
watching low language proficiency people duel with each other on dating apps just makes me feel really bad, anyone else?

>>40376790
I dont care to use lavish language on a man who's idea of an attractive proposition is "let's shag"

Just gotta tell them... slow your roll hornball, lets see if you like my new outfit at the coffeeshop first :)

If you want them to pursue you, you gotta lay some good bait and anticipation. Especially on Grindr where the dopamine receptors are deep fried. Lecturing will get you nowhere with these men it makes them limp and uninterested.

>>40373770
Is that a zoomer thing or related to the proliferation of people with ESL?

>>40378574
More good advice.

God damn ok thats good. Make it a sexual thing. I wanna show my stockings off at the coffee shop

Youre good at this, men are like dumb animals, their dick leads them around

>>40378844
When a man is horny they go into an ooga booga sex now mode, but you can delay their release and have room to frustrate them so long as you don't scold them the wrong way.

>>40379456
Offer the suggestion of sex, if they agree to do what i want.

Genius.

>>40379470
Keep the maybe going.

>>40379487
Thanks anon.

Will try using new techniques

>>40372943
What are you gatekeeping, though? Sex? Apparently not, as you’re rejecting casual encounters. So what do you think a male-female relationship is for beyond sex? Will you bear his children? Feed them? He’s out working hard all day, competing, fighting, earning, and what’s it all for? A conversation partner to discuss Netflix with?

>>40377022
whose*

>>40379852
Saying "I'm not into sex" on a hookup app is akin to slamming the door. Gotta keep a few breadcrumbs of interest so long as it isn't someone who starts the conversation with a dick pic. Men are horny creatures especially on Grindr.

>>40372745
What if I want a wife and a butt slut in one package?

>>40372712 (OP)
You're in an app for sexual deviants, yet somehow don't want sexual encounters. What is wrong with you?

>>40380759
I would like a sexual encounter with a man i trusted, felt a connection to and was comfortable with, and I knew it was gonna go somewhere

I don't want a stranger I've never met to come into my home, and certainly not a rude, horrible one. I also worry about diseases, kissing and even cuddling can spread diseases

Its 2025 and basic human interaction is indecipherable to most anons here, its weird, this place is weird, shout out to the dolls in this thread who are princesses and know their worth

>>40380244
You're so good with human psychology. How have you learnt all this?

I just worry if I tease them, meet them, they'll get angry, and hit me or rape me. That's on my mind and it makes me shut down

>>40379964
Cis women who are infertile have relationships.

I'd like to have a boyfriend, go to nice places, make memories, visit animals. Yes sex is a part of a relationship.

No I won't respond to "let me use you like a cum rag then never call you again"

>>40379979
Loose*

>>40372712 (OP)
Does anyone these days use these apps for something besides trolling?

>>40382173
Yesh some use it to rob people.

I agree, it's not nice to be spoken to like this

>>40379964
A relationship should get you away from stupid societal norms, fake bullshit and can have actual human interaction for once. If you work all day you're just wasting your life on shit that doesn't matter, and you're probably pretty stupid outside of work.

>>40382241
Judging by these responses it seems a ton of anons actually hate human connection

>>40382241
>Judging by these responses it seems a ton of anons actually hate human connection
i'm not sure about normies getting together just to discuss sports either

>>40372712 (OP)
I gotta say the idea of teasing a tranny for being a faggot while fucking her, and maybe flicking her dick with my fingers a couple times, really turns me on.

>>40382739
That doesn't result in incurable life long diseases and severe trauma, usually

>>40372712 (OP)
have you tried looking in places decent men go?

>>40372943
i'm also trans and you're the problem.
i'd rather kill myself than date anyone like you lol. i find you utterly repugnant.
>>40379964
this anon is right too. if you want to reap benefits from traditional gender roles, you also have to be willing to play your part. which means being a submissive housewife whose whole existence basically revolves around trying to make his life easier. they want a man to bend over backwards for them but will give nothing in return because 'i'm worth it'.

>>40382981
every human so far has ended up with those

>>40383272
where do they go?

>>40383561
>I dont want to invite a stranger into my home so he can use me for sex as I think this will compromise my safety

>iD rAtHeR KiLl mYsElF tHaN dAtE you!!

Ok I don't care, no one will shame me into doing something I don't want to do, I don't give a fuck. I'm sorry you get upset that I'm a princess, maybe if you simp some more for people who don't care if you live or die it will all work out.

Or, there is another way. Take the princess pill. You can do it too, it just means you get to be your best self whilst being treated like the royal girl you. The downsides are 0, and you get to put dickheads in their place just by saying no. So stop simping for retards and learn your worth!

>>40382088
I bet none of that is written in your profile, but you're using it in a way that's entirely different to how people expect you to be on there.

>>40385388
I'm very honest. You just lost your bet

>>40384634
nice mott and bailey you vapid shell of a human being
>more empty narcissistic prattle
omg so true you go girl yaass

>>40386187
>be hot
>men offer to look after md
>accept offer and feel happy
>incel rages at me online, calling me names

Ok retard

>>40386187
Oh I didn't even realise what you were replying to.

Its you simping for morons. Ok retard, you win, the nice cis men will say you're one of the good ones! Well done lol.

Dual Lipa, Sydney Sweeny, Sabarina Carpenter all have haters online who talk shit about them, but they don't care they're living their best life.

:)

>>40386230
You’re not looked after, I can tell. It only gets worse from here; if women hit a wall, troons hit a truck. Trying to use sex as power only works for about a decade of your life, and by the end you need to procreate to tie a man down with this strat. You’re shit out of luck in that department, so genuinely, I hope you’ve got a backup plan, because I can tell you from my teen years, Walmart stockers aren’t all that inclusive to gender shit.

>>40386700
You can't tell shit, I've had two men propose to me in the past 5 years.

You should worry more about yourself

>>40372712 (OP)
Blue sounds pretty bitter.
Maybe his chat bubbles are the same colour as his balls? :)

>>40386700
Saying
>Troons
Already outs you as a seething incel talking out of his ass, no need to read further

>>40386901
I really am genuinely sorry for you. Hope you figure things out.

>>40372712 (OP)
Given the number of threads you have made like this and been told that nobody on the gay sex app is going to treat you like a princess, I can only assume that you are actually retarded.

>>40372712 (OP)
autistically invading spaces that are not for you is very malebrained behavior. sorry nona, your grindr chats do not pass.

>>40372712 (OP)
You're never going to find a decent man on Grindr. The closest you'll get to a decent man online is a straight guy who mistakenly hit both boxes in the tinder sign up.

>>40387887
I'm sorry we all have to listen to your posts too

>>40388257
I find it fun.

>>40388295
Its an lgbt app

>>40389302
Its true, its been 5 years. I've found one or two nice ones but they've had their own issues and not worked out

>>40389614
You’re reading. By choice. Fuck, man.

>>40389833
Youre posting. By choice. Fuck, man.

>>40389872
You’re*

Are you autistic by chance? That’s obviously inflammatory but I’m genuinely interested at this point. I’ll leave you alone after this, I’ve learned what I needed aside from this bit being confirmed.

>>40389969
Im just having fun, stop taking the thread so seriously.

Everyone is so uptight these days, lighten up

>>40389989
So you won’t tell me?

>>40390013
Do you also want to know what my iron levels are? Strange questions regarding medical information.

Are you the guy i turned down?

>>40389633
You're very aggressive about this. Also very malebrained.

>>40372712 (OP)
>looking for a decent man
>on grindr

>>40372712 (OP)
Try me. I'm 40, so I'm not going to want to ram my dick in you all the time. I want to cuddle on the couch and watch cool shows together.

>>40382093
>You're so good with human psychology. How have you learnt all this?
Im a man. I know how men think.
>I just worry if I tease them, meet them, they'll get angry, and hit me or rape me. That's on my mind and it makes me shut down
Gotta go somewhere that is public but not overly noisy and crowded. Coffee shops and restaurants, even McDonalds, can be a safe place to meet someone. Most men are not rapists but the most charming ones who say the right things often have questionable character.

>>40393240
>ffs
>vfs
>ba
>srs
>5'4

>"mAlE bRaInEd"

Bitch im a space marine grrrrrrrrr im gonna lick your ass you dumb bitch!

>>40393512
*kick

Oops :s

>>40393253
I would love that so much, nice comfy duvet, snuggles, cuddles, order food and listen to each other lore dump

>the perfect man doesnt exi-

Woaw!

i just want a husband who i can cherish for the rest of my life, but i live in a homophobic country
i think i will die a virgin

>>40393250
I have brain damage, no bulli!

>>40373043
>>40373099
Guy here, the reason I stop replying when a girl starts getting lippy is that most women seem to be on these apps just to find guys to disparage and insult, it's clear as day once you just swipe through a few dozen profiles, "teasing" is fine once you're face to face and there's nonverbal cues but in the first 10 messages back and forth I have a zero-tolerance policy and there's an nearly unlimited supply of women so there's no reason not to just end the conversation, you can call it "scared" or "fragile" all you want but don't be shocked when the only guys left are oblivious weirdos who will put up with anything in the hopes of getting their dick in a warm hole

>>40372757
Rightfully so because troons are just mentally ill people that should be eradicated for the good of society

>>40393621
Well read the interaction again. He is so charmless. Why would i have sex with such a weird man?

If i felt special id be attracted. Im not looking for casual sex, so it suits me fine when theyre upfront, what i find hilarious is his attempt to insult me.

Boring? Yes, i love boring, id love to have a boyfriend, and go to the same restaurant and order the same food and cuddle like the last 2000 days. I love routine, i love familiarity. It makes me feel secure.

He could've just said "thats ok take care" instead he gets upset, dodged a bullet!

>>40393789
It looks like he was looking for casual sex though, and you weren't. Both of you seem like you were looking for a fight when that became clear.

>>40393621
This comes off so insecure... Self reporting even really. Who said anything about first ten messages on grindr of all places god forbid. You are all fragile in real life where teasing is even worth something. So bitter wow

>>40372712 (OP)
lilytino tier ragebait waow

>>40393814
Not really, plenty of men on grindr say "want hook up" i say sorrry, they say ok have a good one, i reply you too.

I give the energy i recieve, chick

>>40393935
>allow random men to infect you with diseases or you're the worst representation ever

2025 is bizarro world

>>40393926
Facts, why do men think being charmless is a quality worth boasting about.

>>40393952
im not the one looking for a husband on grindr & being shocked when moid sex pests are moid sex pests

>>40393963
Not shock, disgust. Take the L you dumb horny moid

Also i will find a husband on there, and until then I'll make great quality content for 4chan users to enjoy

>>40393983
im literally a tranny kys fakehsts,ur posts arent even quality theyre always so boringg

>>40372745
You say that as if the supermarket was a bad place to meet someone, not the most likely, sure, but far from the worst either

>>40394000
159 replies bitch, lets goooo

Haha im a boring girl, didnt you see the original screenshot.

Idk why everyone dog piles on me, its legit weird, im not trolling i dont understand it. I dont understand. Is everyone else so sex crazed that they react so strongly to me turning down a pushy charmless man that wants to pump and dump?

No trolling, i dont understand, is asking for basic communication before an intimate act too much these days?

>>40394079

Like its bizarre. Calling me moidbrained, fake hsts, boring etc

Hahaha wtf did i do to upset you all? I could understand if he was like yeah im gonna treat you so well, we'll have a great time, and i was a complete cunt, but it isnt like that at all, these men are like "i dont give if a fuck if you live or die, invite me to yours now and so i can fuck". Not even "lets cuddle, lets chill" just straight rudeness, calling me names when i say sex with a strange isnt my thing.

Idk im very glad im not like everyone else here, i like being able to have self respect

>>40394079
>is asking for basic communication before an intimate act too much these days?

no not at all just your attitude. Its grindr & that has certain implications to it which is like whatever but then you post on it on this site like you're gonna change something. its. literally. GRINDR. you come across as obliviously arrogant

>>40394130
Well maybe i misunderstand but why are they like this? Its gross.

Legitimately gross. One guy was talking to me, i said ok you're in great shape, lets meet up, when was your last sti test and he blocked me.

Why would i do anything sexual with someone like that?!

>>40394130
Idk its just weird, are cis women spoken to like this too? I dont ask my cis friends "hey grindr has shit men, does the apps you use have shit men too" lol theyd be like why tf are you on grindr

Oh shit, thats a good question

>>40394140
>why are they like this?

moid socialization & sexuality is usually in some ways dictated by the standards of women & where they draw lines. A predominantly homosexual environment festers the unchained depravities of the moid brain

>>40394154
Its wild. Im very phsyically weak, my cup is sometimes too heavy.

Its so extremely dangerous to be alone with a man before even doing basic vetting. Are there girls from this board behaving like that? Absolutely crazy

>>40372913
I think most banning is just for sex workers not like its really effective tho

>>40391974
So you admit it through omission, sure, I’ll take it. That’s really funny by the way. I’d ask you now if you’re clinically retarded too, but I doubt you’ve been tested for that, plus I said I’d leave you alone after this. Bye.

>>40395127
This is old school cunty not new school cunty