>>40373013Pattern recognition from real bad examples overblown and projected onto everyone out of an understandable need for self-protection
Problem is it actually does protect you half the time, but it also keeps you from good connections and real things
This is just a more specific example within the standard "all men are evil/violent/shit" rhetoric that women often fall into out of the very real need for self-protection
I don't know the right answer for it, it's complicated