>>40387257No, you're just more likely to be made to be the "man" when you're with a woman, no tranny wants to feel like she has to perform masculinity, it's tempting to be with women yes, and it might even work under very specific circumstances and with a ton of mutual understanding, but it's unlikely, women will push you towards a masc role, even butch women will do that over time because you have a dick and she has a vagina, trans women will also push other trans women into masc roles in relationships, because penetrative sex is pleasurable so someone will have to top.
Fundamentally, being penetrated IS gender affirming, so basically it's harder for a trans woman to feel affirmed in her gender with any AFAB person (pegging looks and feels fake), it's possible for a trans woman to feel affirmed by another trans woman, but one of them will have to sacrifice their desire for penetration, and it's still not as gender affirming as straight up being with a man.