Thread 40387935

fantastic twinks and where to find them edition

QOTT: whats your favorite video game?

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FAQ:
>Am I bi if I like women and femboys/traps?
>Am I bi if there's this one member of the same-sex I'm desiring, but normally I like the opposite sex?
>Am I bi if I sexually like both sexes, but only interested in romance with one of them?
Yes, sexual attraction to both sexes is bisexuality.
>Do you love me, OP?
stares at you with my big black moth eyes
>What's the difference between bisexual and pansexual?
Only difference is that our flag is prettier.
>Am I bi if i have periods where I feel only attracted to women and others where I feel only attracted to men?
This is known as the bi-cycle and many bisexuals experience it.
>Am I bi or am I 'prison gay' or porn addicted?
'Prison gay' is not a real thing and porn addiction does not alter your sexual orientation. You are bi.
>Am I bi or pan if I like trans people?
Both are able to be attracted to trans people.
>I think I might be bi but I can't tell. How can I be certain?
Just make a point to check out members of the sex you think you might be attracted to and see if anyone grabs your attention.
>Should I be harsh on myself?
You should be kind on yourself. Few people will do it for you

Resource for Bisexuals:
https://biresource.org/

>>40387935 (OP)
who is he

Find so many twinks that are so scared to meet up in my city it gets old so fast they just like posting their asshole and body online

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P1DG9M-V_JY

>>40387935 (OP)
I have a deep love for ratchet & clank 2, mostly because the sfx and soundtrack are so so good (and I've finished it about 20 times)

>>40387935 (OP)
SYSTEM SHOCK!!!! I really like system shock and I love video games alot but I wish it wasn't my main hobby since it feels childish even if they make me really happy

>>40387935 (OP)
>QOTT: whats your favorite video game?
Hard to choose. Right now I'll say Toribash, even if there's no more online community for it.

>>40387935 (OP)
Nice bend
>QOTT
I don’t know. Warioware smooth moves? That one’s old as fuck though

>bi guy pretty close to the straight end of the kinsey scale
>too dense/ ignorant/ in denial to realize I was bi for most of my life
>figured it out 3 years ago and have been reckoning with it/ slowly coming out to myself since then
>finally hooked up with a guy for the first time last week
>some of the best sex I've ever had
>since then have made the effort to come out to more people in my life
tfw it actually does get better :')

>>40388549
Which one anon. I am hype to play the SS2 remaster but saddened that it did not get a full remake like the first one

i ship shodan and glados, i hope thye exterminate humanity together

>>40387935 (OP)
am I bi if I

>>40389442
Nice. I knew and was comfortable with it well before I started telling my friends I was bi. But being open about it with my friends has been nice.

>>40388662
>toribash
based

>>40389447
Specifically the original enhanced edition, I can't run the remake and I couldn't get into SS2 because I couldn't stomach the horror

>>40387935 (OP)
>QOTT: whats your favorite video game?
My main game is Apex Legends, I wish I could play it rn I hate being far awaaaaay from my PC...
Otherwise I really like Celeste and Chants of Sennaar (it's a cool game, go play it now anon).

I've been so horny recently but I must not give in no matter how far away from my partner I am >:3 (and it's especially harder now that I've met a few guys and gals I could hit up if I wanted to hookup ;_;).

>>40390775
get one of those sex toys your partner can control remotely

>>40387935 (OP)
QUESTION FOR BIFAGS

You know how it’s really hard for men to be friends with women because men are attracted to most women and so if they like a woman decently well they will want to fuck?
Is it the same with you guys for men? Like do you guys just automatically wish that you could fuck all your male friends or have something more with them? idk if im being clear enough to make sense but wtv

>>40387942
Reminds me of all those delicious trannies I screw
Neeeeeeed him
and maybe feed him E, too

>>40392057
yes but i think thats just because im hypersexual

>>40392057
no but i think thats just because im hyposexual

>>40392065
based forcefemmer

>>40392057
I don't because I'm not trying to force gay on straight people, if they were open that's completely different, easy for me to be platonic with straight guy friends, not with girls though

>>40392057
You are making sense dw.
Yes, I do want to fuck most of my guy friends, but since we all have pretty much the same sense of humor I can say it and they find it funny/play into it even if they know it's true.
Being friends with queer adjacent/not shitty men does really help, I'm pretty sure I couldn't do that with many other men.

>>40392112
haha
reminds me
i had a friend with that sense of humor and we would joke like that. then I confessed and he realized that it was more than just a joke from me.
then he stopped joking like that with me.

>>40392075
>>40392084
now kiss

>>40392057
For me, no. I do prefer women and am only really into more feminine dudes (which obviously eliminates the vast majority of straight dudes). I suppose if we lived in a world where more dudes were fem, I might be attracted to more of them, but there are plenty of women I don't want to fuck either.

>>40392057
Only if that friend is gay and bottom then yeah, why not?

>>40392227
this is why bottoms need to be protected, protected from people like you

>Bro check out this new game
>It's an indie horror RPGMaker game that's not even three hours long
Idk if its just cause I'm getting past twinkdeath or what but I can't fucking stand this kind of shit anymore

>>40392057
I could be friends with either sex and I would only want to fuck them if they are attractive enough to make my dick hard. Bisexuality isn't indiscriminate. I like chili, and I like ice cream, but I don't want chili beans in my ice cream. Taste, including sexual taste, goes beyond the broadly general category of sex for me. I find neither penises nor vaginas repulsive, and I think there are plenty of young men whose cute faces I would easily bust inside of of I found myself in that situation. Last time I had sex was over a decade ago. I don't really think having gay sex is good or anything to be proud of, although I fantasize about doing it. I have a racial biological worldview and consider heterosexuality superior for reasons of racial fertility, but I do not share the Levitical "kill em all" feeling Christians who oppose homosexuality draw from. I see retarded old man sluts with terminal AIDS as a cautionary tale of what I could become if I did not temper my faggotry, which is not limited by the superior discriminatory tastes of women. If you go on grindr you can find a dude to suck your dick. Getting a girl to suck your dick is a feat for most.

>>40392057
>>40392284
I temper my heterosexuality as well and for similar reasons. I am in a high-STD area. Marriage should ideally be between two 16-year old third cousins of the opposite sex to maximize the genetic replication occurring from procreation while also eliminating the risk of birth defects from nuclear incest, and, to a lesser extent, marriages between second and first cousins.

Is bi inclusion in lgbt spaces only of our "gay side"? I notice this isn't a place to talk about straight stuff, and yet I am mostly straight. The trannies I want to plow say it is straight to want to fuck them, but I don't think that's true if lusting over their buttholes wpuld be more welcome here than talking about fucking pussy with my dick. Where's the board that is like /lgbt/ but for straight people? I guess real life is their board?

>>40392355
there was a /straightgen/ but idk they just don’t have them anymore

>>40387935 (OP)
i want to see his nipples

>>40393325
l-lewd...

>>40392057
Tbh despite wanting to fuck over 95% of the women I see on a day to day basis, when I actually become friends with them that desire to fuck goes mostly away
Obviously in situations where they're hot I get reminded about that but I have a girlfriend so I don't think on it anymore
With guy friends since I knew almost all of them before I realised I was bi I don't really see them like that, but now that doesn't stop me from finding new guys I meet hot

I'm trans if that matters.

>>40392057
Yeah, kind of, I feel attracted to most people so I’ve come to learn how to prevent myself from acting on it in order to maintain my friendships. Being 1 on 1 with people is hard though, I far prefer group settings

>>40392284
>I like chili, and I like ice cream, but I don't want chili beans in my ice cream
You should try chili powder on ice cream. "Spice cream" is a great snack.

>>40392057
>Is it the same with you guys for men? Like do you guys just automatically wish that you could fuck all your male friends or have something more with them? idk if im being clear enough to make sense but wtv
No. I don't have siblings but my male friends are kinda what I imagine it's like to have siblings. The idea of fucking them is weird.
Whereas among my female friends, I'd probably hook up with maybe 1/3-1/2 of them lol.

>>40392355
I think as long as you keep some non-straight flavor to it, like if your gf is a fujo or a tranner or something, it still fits.

>>40387935 (OP)
>Action
Armored core
>FPS
The most fun I had was system shock, deus ex, stalker and titan fall 2 as a single player experience.
>VN
It used to be a toss up between katawa and muvluv but now it's been a toss up between dramatical murder and baldr sky.
>Other
I have no answer for mmo and RPG because I have a love hate addiction to them.

>>40392255
I moved onto rpg maker porn after rpg maker horror.

>>40393895
damn, Layrinn !! hru

>>40392355
Queerness is whenever you do something not hetero.
The people that like a troon or poonah aren't exactly hetero... takes a Queer to pursue a Queer

Heterosexuality obeys a one drop rule for K0

>>40395409
MELON
I just turned 28.

>>40393900
Play Star Knightess Aura
Hardly porn but it's great NTR and Corrpution. And its on steam! Made by a 4channer

>>40395533
I remember that name
Corruption I like a lot but NTR I hate.
>Made by a 4channer
Didn't know this. Most the ones I play are corruption, monsters, or gender bender. Snake got me trying hynosis stuff tho but most seem to be without even mtl.

>>40395471
congratss, happy birthday lay !

>>40387935 (OP)
>am i bisexual if i like women and also men who look like women? what if i'm a pedophile?

>>40388102
>I have a deep love for ratchet & clank 2
Based based based a thousand times based
Still somehow the only game in the series to get the ship combat right. I'm dumbfounded they never replicated it in any of the later titles.

>>40395471
I see you dooming about being forever alone constantly and you're a year younger than me? Stop that.

Are you bisexuals whores? What are your bodycounts and of whom?
>6 and soon to be 7 (18 y/o femboy I will meet today)
>2 cisgirls
>2 nonbinary theyfabs
>1 femrepper afab
>1 mtf tranny from here
I’m 20, and this all happened since being 18. I just don’t know how to get a longterm relationship

>>40397094
im not a whore cuz I dont do it for money but I am a raging slut and always have been. always been hypersexual. But I only have sex with men and women. and im much older than you so my count is way higher. I sucked my first cock at 14

>>40387935 (OP)
SEXOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

>>40397094
No, and zero.
I only developed an interest in dating earlier this year and I'm now attempting to find a husband.

>>40397119
well that makes me feel better despite my hard time with self control
never sucked a cock in a random hook up :))

>>40397085
I haven't been around the discord or here in a hot minute.

>>40397119
>>40397182
what are your letters
also
>>40397182
why so late

>>40397189
Sex has always been a source of great fun for me lol. I get way too much validation from it but it is what it is...

>what are your letters
im a cis bi dude

what are your thoughts on my boyfriend?

>>40397189
>never sucked a cock in a random hook up
the best are the completely spontaneous ones like in sauna or similar where the opportunity just comes out of nowhere...

>>40397361
looks like Tony hawk a little bit the face shape at least

>>40397306
>why so late
Desire for solitude and privacy overrode desire for companionship, then I kind of developed a capacity for loneliness out of nowhere and the situation flipped

>>40387935 (OP)
>whats your favorite video game?
I'm not a big gamer nowadays, but my bf and I set aside to play "Duck Game" (2014) most afternoons. It's a bizarrely deep game that's remained fun for years.
I've played tons of WoW over the yeas but it's hard to call it my favorite, especially since now my most vibrant memories of it are getting rightfully berated during raids for getting drunk and generally doing terribly. Lessons learned, at least.

>>40392057
I don't want to fuck any of my friends, and this is one area where I've never felt similar to a straight guy. Ideally I'd like to pass as a gay guy to the women and a straight guy to (most) men just to diffuse any of the otherwise annoying and needless sex-worry; I'd never cheat on the one I've got anyway.

>>40392057
>wish that you could fuck all your male friends
not at all. I eye rape every woman I meet. I rarely think about guys- muchless ones I know- in a sexual context unless I am actively fantasizing. I rarely see a guy and think I want to have sex with him...everyonce in a while I see a big daddy who gives me that wink and I think how nice it would be to service him. With women I fall in lust constantly and in love often

>>40387935 (OP)
>QOTT
anything in the top row really, I've strayed from having a hard favorite for a while now

nice twink

>>40392057
No, but I don't automatically want to fuck women either. I find most people initially off-putting even if I find them physically attractive. I find humans in general grating, so it comes naturally.

I feel like im attracted to men mostly when I'm drunk or high and not as much when I'm sober. Could this be because of internalized homophobia? Also propably a dumb question, but are there many twinks who are also attracted to guys with a more twinkish build? I'm mostly attracted to more feminine man, but I dont look really masculine myself.

>>40398806
>Wciii
>Jka
Those games made up so much of my gaming history and jkanis the only reason I know I can't play well in RP servers ever. Mods used to be absolutely banger for games before everyone went for almost exclusively bethesda titles.

do you fellows ever question your sexuality due to the pendulum swings and then thank the stars / gods / timelords when you confirm you're still attracted to women?

it feels good when I can confirm that I'm not a total faggot.

I'ma go take a bluechew to make sure I can get it up for my woman tonight and last 60 seconds in her brb

>>40400067
It feels embarrassing sometimes that I like men too.

>>40400164
%100

When my wife calls me on this shit I have no response because I know and she knows. I'm a fucking faggot in her eyes.

It always gets a little uncomfortable watching gay scenes in shows cause it's just a reminder for her that I'm fag-lite.

>>40392057
i am not attracted to 'most women'

>Like do you guys just automatically wish that you could fuck all your male friends or have something more with them?
if theyre attractive then sure

>>40398806
wow really based choices anon. who was your WC3 main? have you played AOE4?

>>40400067
Nah. My attraction to women isn't that meaningful to me. I don't explicitly plan to date or marry one.
>>40400223
This is why b4bi is the answer.

>>40400293
>b4bi is the answer
double the cheating

homophobic bi guy here still

I am not attracted to my long time male friends. My wife is skeptical and worried about our weekly nerdy Magic the Gathering card games but I legit am not turned on by my male friends.

BUT I am turned on by all women. Im always having thoughts about every woman about whether or not shes down to fuck or what her panties look like or ooh shes bending over can I get a good luck at that figure etc

but fuck sometimes my dick dont be working how I want it to and it makes me seem extra gay despite all the above

Im actually about to have a doctor check up because I have some kind of internal bleeding around my knee caps and Im starting to think thats why I lose my erection quick sometimes.

But fuck if it doesnt mindfuck my manhood.

>>40400311
Not if you aren't a piece of shit and don't date them

>>40392057
>Like do you guys just automatically wish that you could fuck all your male friends or have something more with them?
No, but I do have male friends who I would fuck if given the chance. I also have others I wouldn't touch, though.

>>40397094
>Are you bisexuals whores? What are your bodycounts and of whom?
i lost count but its gotta be at least 10 with all of them being cis men
for reference i lost my v card when i was 20

>>40400902
damn that’s a lot
leave it to the other bisexuals to (thankfully) mog me holy
letters and age?

Anyone else in an apartment constantly dealing with UPS and other services constantly leaving out your apt#
This happens so frequently I don't know why they bother to have a line for apartment unit if they aren't even printing it on the label.

>>40400952
23, bi mtf

>>40397094
>Are you bisexuals whores? What are your bodycounts and of whom?
1 cis woman, my wife.
I'm ugly as sin, and the few people who ever expressed wanting to touch me did so long after I was off the market.

>>40392355
>Is bi inclusion in lgbt spaces only of our "gay side"?
Basically. Bi guys are seen as either repressed gays or attention-seekers.

Should I try getting a cis gf if I'm a mostly gay twink? Is it fruitless?

>>40401831
Have you ever dated a woman before?

>>40401906
No. Infact I have never dated anyone.

>>40401831
>Is it fruitless?
You sound pretty fucking fruity to me man

>>40401831
>Is it fruitless?
idk anon you sound pretty fruity to me

>>40401995
>>40402009
very funny

>>40401929
Then give it a try. You have nothing to lose.

>>40402049
i need a bf who yells at me like this...

>>40402072
I'm not mean enough
>>40402065
Don't women hate bi men? Or is it a myth

>>40402112
I mean, some do. Some do get grossed out, especially if you have had sex with another man. Others, especially ones that are bi themselves, really don't care.

>>40392057
not really, for me it was just figuring out that me REALLY caring about my (male) best friend in highschool and having daydreams about teasing him actually meant something and that I'm not 100% straight like I thought I was. basically if it was a guy I was already into then yeah, but I had male friends I never really felt attraction towards

Idk if anyone is going to read this but basically my cousin introduced me to a friend/old fling of his online to play some games with. He lives in the Uk while I’m in the US and I think I’ve grown completely infatuated with him. We started playing games just the two of us and I have never gelled or felt comfortable with someone as quickly as I did with him. I haven’t shown him my face yet but when he faced time ME I was honestly shocked because he genuinely looked like the prettiest man alive. We talk pretty much everyday and he’s gay but he also a bit of a slut and tells me constantly how he gets hook ups and he said he was going to stay over at one of his hook ups place tonight. It legit made me feels like death when he told me. The last few years have been tough for me because of hyper-mobile issues and possibly lupus that have cause tendonisis in the hands and neck issues which caused me the gain some weight. I’ve already started a diet plus exercising more and already lost 10lbs because of this but even if I get to a good weight I still feel I will be no where near good looking enough. I am a 24 kissless virgin who has never felt this depressed, anxious or insecure before in my entire life and feel I should just kms to end my misery once in for all. Little part wish I never met him cause everyday I been crying about him. Idk what to do next.

so anyway. I have an ex, who used to be trans, now he's decided to not transition and we broke up (mutually)

at the time while dating him, I id as a lesbian...

Maybe two or three months later I went on to date this guy who reminds me of a videogame character that I'm madly in love with, I took his virginity (one of my best days ngl) he treats me like a princess, like a queen. I love him and I wanna marry him.

I also think hes kinda stupid and annoying and honestly I don't respect him like I should, I keep telling him but its like he doesnt notice and thinks I'm good to him (lack of self respect?)

I wanna marry him anyway. I just wanna be good to him and learn to respect this manchild, (he is good. he just lacks maturity. maybe if I stay with him he'll mature but I don't wanna mother an adult man.)

my ex is now dating a girl I used to like a little but also see as a little sister to this day. and I wanna tell her hes not worth it so bad but also it'd just make me the bitter crazy ex. (which I am. sore looser) and it drives me crazy when I see them together.

>>40402573
tell him how u feel, with no strings attatched. like.

"hey i'm just telling you so I can get over it. I'm in love with you, you don't gotta do anything though I just needed to get it outta my system" or smth like that.

>>40402829
Strongly validating my decision to stay away from women

Women are equally as useless to listen to as they are wildly appealing to look at, which is to say lots. They're never funny, clever, witty, or smart.

>>40402846
and I should stay away from men ngl. its like. hes so nice but I just don't like him and I feel like I use him for chips and sex. if I was his friend I'd tell him to dump me for being an asshole and gold digger. but I'm his girlfriend instead, so when I tell him that he says "don't talk about yourself like that honey" and "hey I don't like that you don't trust my judgement on who to trust"

hes open to bein poly. i'm so sure he just said that to make sure I wouldn't leave him. it makes me sad he doesn't respect himself...

>>40402573
>Idk what to do next.
Stop basing your self worth (or lack of such) on the approval of other people

>>40402112
>Don't women hate bi men? Or is it a myth
If you look like a twink, the girls you attract will not hate bi men.

>>40402872
>>40402829
Pretty sure you already see that relationship as doomed.

good morning bigen !!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-_0VrxrmC8k

>>40403934
good morning friend

>>40396764
Right ? And the weapons all feel so much material and physically powerful than in the 3 or after. The gravity bomb and the bouncer are so perfect in this one

>>40403992
no u

>>40402573
Hug you anon, you're going through a lot and feelings get intense when it's like that. I'd say better not leave yourself to deal with those thoughts alone.
Something like >>40402836 seems good, it doesn't have to be for you to get over that love, but be as rational about it as possible and don't let the misery foster a home in your heart

>>40402829
>I love him and I wanna marry him
>hes so nice but I just don't like him
STOP MAKING ME MORE MISOGYNIST

>>40404088
I really need to get a ps2 emulator up and running so I can play it again

>>40405521
Aww. Don't fret.
Join the team that offers a nationality & an imaginary friend in times of darkness

>>40405908
I had a stroke trying to decipher that.

>>40387935 (OP)
how do i cope with male pattern hair loss
and how do i convince my dermatologist to prescribe me dutasteride

>>40401929
imo if youre mostly gay you shouldnt date a woman
speaking from experience

Homosexual Men - Gays
Homosexual Women - Lesbians
Bisexual Men - ???
Bisexual Women - ???

We need a cultural label that isn't bisexual or bi so people don't just think of us as sexual. I don't know what it would be though.

>>40406499
Bisexual Men - Bis
Bisexual Women - Sluts

Slut pride, yeah I want to be naked and wrapped around other girls in a harem, fucking each other and spreading our holes for our mutual daddy, what I can't live my life as I want it? SLUT PRIDE WORLDWIDE, COLLARED AND CUMMED UP AND CONFIDENT

>>40406457
Just go to Hims and get fin/min if the doctor refuses. Just be careful and check and drug interactions if you're on other meds.

>>40406499
It used to be AC/DC, but that fell out of fashion ages ago. Otherwise gay and bi men are called Achillean, just like lesbian and bi women are called Sapphic.

>>40400067
>you confirm you're still attracted to women?
this happens everytime I step outside. I see a pretty female and all I can think about is her ass. im addicted to female ass. I hate man ass even tho I love cock.

>>40407139
>bi men are called Achillean
That's fucking awesome why have I never heard this before

Also when is it my turn to fuck a twink
>t. Twink

>>40407473
Because it's a fairly recent term, I think.
Also you get to fuck a twink when I get to fuck a twink.
t. Otter

>>40400067
disclaimer: i have quite severe alexithymia, so I have to objectively analyze my feelings to know what I feel a lot.

i've had women come on to me. and i hate how it feels when they are into me. 99.9% rejection rate.
i have kissed women. hate how they taste.
i have had sex four times with women. hated how it feels. never came.

after having made out with a man for the first time, I felt like a knot inside of me untangled. it felt RIGHT for the first time. not forced, but like actually natural. this continues until today.

although this history makes me in theory bi, i came to the conclusion that I might as well be completely androphilic. i can recognize an attractive woman, but what I'm feeling must actually be the desire to BE them, because it's not a good feeling per se. being with men makes me giggly and I have always felt like I connect with them on an emotionally deeper level.
> t. tranner

>>40406482
agreed.

>>40403619
Yes, just look like a tall version of a boy and they're like

waow
he's so childlike and harmless but tall
waow

>>40400002
Yeah it was a different vibe that lead into communities like counter strike/gmod. Long gone now. I feel like it rode parallel with the attitude of the younger internet in general.
>>40400255
I was dogshit at the actual PvP matches, just spent hundreds of hours in custom games. But from what I played I liked Undead. They were fairly noob friendly.
aoe4 interests me but I've been on a razor thin budget for a couple of years so it hasn't been a priority. Only reason I have aoe2 definitive is someone gifted it to me.

That artist seems familiar.

I used to really hate rainbow people but I've since found out I love taking it in the ass. How do I cope?

>>40408091
How do u feel?

>>40408173
Demolished yet happy

>>40408327
But u still like girls?

>MOVIE NIGHT
MOVIE NIGHT
>MOVIE NIGHT
MOVIE NIGHT

A reminder that tomorrow at 21 GMT we will vote for the next two movies for Movie Night! If you want you can also give your recommendation by replying to this post

>what the hell is "movie night"
its a special night where bigen comes together to watch on Discord two movies chosen by the community

>when will movie night take place?
its FRIDAY at 22 gmt

>where do we watch the movies?
on the Bigen Movie and Game Night Discord server:
https://discord.gg/xnE7u98S

>i don't usually post on bigen/never took part in movie night, can i join?
Of course, movie night is open to anyone, just remember to mute yourself during the movies, be civil and have fun!

fyi: this is the list of every movie we watched so far:
https://pastebin.com/Bc8pqK9h

>>40408342
Yes
It's just my long held identity being shaken

>>40400902
how do you guys find so many people? need advice.
im 20 and ive only ever dated 2 people: a cis girl and a trans girl, for about a year each. i never actually had sex tho bc im too much of a bottom i think . or maybe porn destroyed my brain. either way i think I want to find a guy next but not sure how

>>40392057
idk maybe this is just how being male was taught to me but when im just looking at strangers on the street pretty often I'm like damn that girl is hot but pretty much never if it's a guy.
on the other hand when i jerk off i imagine a guy fucking me a lot of the time. makes me wonder if im actually bi or not

>>40406457
Try a minoxidil/finasteride combo first and keep in mind it takes like 4 months before you can see results. If it doesn't work, shave it off. Grow a beard if you can - bald with beard often looks much better. Use minoxidil on your face too if you can't grow a good beard already.

>>40407912
lol same. I also have a big butt so women want to peg me or see men fuck me

>>40397094
>Are you bisexuals whores?
Yes
>What are your bodycounts and of whom?
Don't recall exactly, but something like;
>35+ women
>30+ men
>7 or 8 tranners
>1 pooner
I'm 35

I'm a bi virgin in my 30s. Should I just kill myself at this point?

>>40408614
>how do you guys find so many people? need advice.
im 20 and ive only ever dated 2 people: a cis girl and a trans girl, for about a year each. i never actually had sex tho bc im too much of a bottom i think . or maybe porn destroyed my brain. either way i think I want to find a guy next but not sure how
idek myself but being hot helps altho i dont think im anything that special
i also got personality going for me too as a lot of guys say that im “cool” and “interesting”

>>40409838
Nah. If you want to lose your virginity it's gonna be infinitely easier with a dude. Just go on Tinder or Grindr or some shit.

>>40409901
>i also got personality going for me too as a lot of guys say that im “cool” and “interesting”
You're joking, right? This is the type of shit dudes will tell any woman to get in her pants lmao

>get one guyed by someone saying I complain all the time about being alone in bigen which I haven't been to much in months
>My motorcycle is still broken
Names change here every time I leave but nothing really changes.
Also snake, I blame you for me getting back into hyno stuff. Fugg my bottom grimace life.

>>40410129
>This is the type of shit dudes will tell any woman to get in her pants lmao
maybe so but ive also had women tell me that too in a platonic context so mayb it means something

>>40410129
I have no confidence in myself. I'm too ugly, mentally ill, and boring. I don't see how anyone would ever bother

>>40410417
Address that first then, so you stop sabotaging yourself.

>>40410451
How? I tried getting professional help for over a decade and it was pointless. I wasted so much money and time. Therapy, drugs, psych hospitals

>>40397361
Rape

>>40387935 (OP)
>QOTT: whats your favorite video game?
TF2, by far. I miss when fps games weren't 6v6 sweatfests...

>>40410580
U mean titanfall right

>>40410585
Nop, Team Fortress 2

>>40410517
Long story short, I stopped thinking in terms of 'deserving' - basically I don't believe anyone deserves anything good or bad, we all just exist. Thinking in terms like "I deserve x because y" is just placing chains on yourself that ultimately just prevent you from living your life - both because of the unnecessary restrictions you place upon yourself but also because it means that you think that you are incapable of change. Secular buddhist philosophy in particular helped me realize that.

>>40387935 (OP)
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>>40410793
Sounds cool and all but you provided no link

>>40410963
https://discord.gg/wxJrT6B8

>>40410753
I don't think I deserve anything. I'm just trying to get out of this hell. I can't seem to help myself and constantly fail and going for professional treatment never amounted to anything so I have no idea. I'm legitimately running out of hope and close to suicide

I want to have rough sex with a twink

>>40403692
I do. and it makes me feel guilty. I don't understand why someone kindhearted and nice like him takes as much shit as I give him. he says he never notices me being mean to him but I feel like I disrespect him all the time.

still i would be stupid not to ride this as long as I can. He insists he wants to come to my hometown and meet my mom so if we don't last a year its gonna be embarrassing having a third parthner over next year. Though I hope its a girl, the rest of the guys who like me aren't very cool

pic not rel I don't remember what face she's making but I'm liking this show a lot.

>>40410580
I love tf2 too. There is something about the attacking and defending dynamic in that game, especially on payload, that is so fun.

I never really cared about crafting or the fancy items. All I cared about was playing a good game of payload lol.

>>40411229
I want to be gangraped by men.

>>40411572
I want a husband I love who also loves me

>>40411622
True love is the one thing you can't have nowadays

>>40411229
this

>>40411572
also this

>>40411622
and this

How am I supposed to know if bi as opposed to a straight male? Ignoring thread FAQ, surely you can't just wake up one day and decide it, right? I think masculine men are gross, and I haven't really seen any cute guys irl. Would I have to like, suck off a twink and see if I enjoyed it first to determine for myself if I am really bi
I'm khhv somewhat androgynous male and don't wanna just be a whore, but to truly determine it I don't feel like looking at porn and fantasizing about things necessarily has any bearing in reality.

I have reached a new low in life. I caught my best friend I've had for 3 years groping me while he thought I was sleeping. I have confronted him and he has left my life but I don't know what to do with my life right now. My friend group is shattered and my mental is fucked beyond belief

>>40413201
its gonna be okay anon, stay strong

>>40413201
Don't despair, it can get a lot worse.

I want to go on a hookup spree but every time I get to it I instantly lose interest. It seems like men and women look good until you take a good look at them

>>40412664
If there's some scenario where you find both sexes attractive you're bisexual, hope this helps

>>40413251
Thank you, I'm going to try and work on my life. I just got lots of things done right before this happened so I have the good things to look up for at least.

>>40413261
I understand the sentiment, I've gone through a lot of crap already. This was just when I was starting to be happy again. I will not despair though. Thank you.

>>40413283
i believe in you anon!

>>40410753
>Deserve love
This an unconditional love are the biggest lie's I absolutely despise hearing. It comes off as out of touch as aboomer telling people that they just need a firm handshake for a job and to bring in the resume in person.
>Secular buddhist philosophy in particular helped me realize that.
I reached a similar conclusion through burnout and bad advice.
>>40411527
>I don't understand why someone kindhearted and nice like him takes as much shit as I give him.
You are giving them at least some time or making yourself emotionally available enough that they put up with it.
>still i would be stupid not to ride this as long as I can.
Oh, god damn it.
>pic not rel I don't remember what face she's making but I'm liking this show a lot.
That's one of my favorite genderbender shows and I wish I could be as supportive to people as that man was with his family.

>>40413201
>>40413283
I'm older than a lot of users here and I'll say I know a lot of people who have successfully rebuilt their lives and their entire social circle at various points in their 20s, and even in their 30s. There are plenty of paths forward for you.

>>40413402
Thank you, I like to think I'll be okay. I'm trying to not fall into depression again. I've been a victim of sexual assault before and this happening now is really messing with me. I'm on my early 20s.

>>40413847
*hug* itll all get better soon

bamp

>>40402829
>>40402872
>>40411527
I really hope this is bait but I have a horrible feeling that it isn't

>>40410753
>Secular buddhism
I shiggy diggy

We have /cisgaygen/ and /cislesgen/, why not /cisbigen/?

>>40416955
Because this general is already dead all the time

>>40416955
not a bad idea

>MOVIE NIGHT
MOVIE NIGHT
>MOVIE NIGHT
MOVIE NIGHT

The poll is now open, no further recommendations will be accepted.
The voting will stop tomorrow at around 4 PM GMT, so be sure to vote before then!

Here is the link to the server:
https://discord.gg/xnE7u98S

What is bigen's current stance on DILFs and MILFs? Still popular?

How would bigen react if a 40-something, fit, bi 4 bi couple offered to buy you a drink?

Would you rather the couple be M/F, M/M, F/F or enby/enby?

Is there a point in dating women unless you really want to get married/have kids? Like I skew more in the homo direction and would rather just deal with guys. I'm still attracted to women but I don't plan on having kids

>>40418274
>40-something enby
lmao

>>40418274
>Enbi
>After 20s
I'm sorry but time stops for no one.
>>40416955
This is the slowest gen on the board

>>40418274
Wait these are different questions. Oops.
>DILFs and MILFs
Like age or actually with kids?
>offered to buy you a drink?
Id quote the mentos line from 40y/o virgin
>Would you rather the couple be M/F, M/M, F/F or enby/enby?
Anything but enby at 40. Christ.

>>40392057
>do you guys just automatically wish that you could fuck all your male friends or have something more with them?
No not particularly because it's pretty easy to tell when a dude isn't into gay sex, and most aren't, so it kills any potential fantasy. With being friends with girls, there's a very high chance she's willing to fuck men so it keeps a faint hope open.

But if two gay people end up friends, it's very likely they end up fucking at least once for a romp. Women demand too much for sex to casually fuck a friend

>>40397094
>18 total
>13 guys (8 regular twinks and 5 proper femboys)
>3 cis girls
>2 FtM twinks (both were my best sexual experiences)
>0 MtFs (I don't see a point)

This is spread over 12yrs of being sexually active so idk if it's "a lot". I often go on 6-8 month dry spells so I don't ever turn down opportunities for sex

Where do you guys find so many twinks and femboys? Do you live in a big city?

>>40418796
>>40418989
This is what I get for trying to be inclusive of enbies, lol.

(Never again).

>>40419022
When I say MILF/DILF I'm only talking about age (30s or 40s). Actually I was imagining childless couples, if that helps.

i tried sleeping with 1000 men in one day but nobody showed up :( (which also goes to show how much of a feminist i am btw)

>>40419185
that helps

>>40420235
>tfw small town bi
At least I live in a small state so driving around ain't too bad

>>40418274
>What is bigen's current stance on DILFs
theyre cool i wish they were real
>How would bigen react if a 40-something, fit, bi 4 bi couple offered to buy you a drink?
i could never turn down a free drink but if we were going to have a threesome i wouldnt want the wife to be involved
id be down for her to watch while i have sex with her husband tho
>Would you rather the couple be M/F, M/M, F/F or enby/enby?
m/m probably
idk threesomes arent really my thing

Would you tell someone you're a virgin in your 30s or would you just wing it?

>>40420773
They’ll know. If they care, they aren’t worth dating to begin with.
Not going to lie and say no one will judge you. They will, but fuck em.

>>40420367
if you don’t like women then how are you bi

>>40420812
I don't know where to start. Should I attempt dating or just do a random hookup and get it out of the way? I'm more attracted to men than women

bump

My girlfriend told me again that she wants to see me with another man. I think the idea is hot. Has anyone here ever done it?

>>40423847
Your girlfriend secretly finds you pathetic.

>>40423991
T-thats kinda hot.

>>40423991
Doubt it lol

>>40424001
Doubt it all you want faggot, it remains true lmao

Is a man not entitled to the sweat of his brow... to the uhh milk of his cow... to the meat of his sow

I had a horrible night, but I'm alright now. I think everything is gonna be okay. I'm going to get some tacobell with my little sister. Thank you for being so nice yesterday.

>>40387935 (OP)
I need a femboy vs twink irl comparisons

>>40388662
I haven't heard that name in years...

>MOVIE NIGHT
MOVIE NIGHT
>MOVIE NIGHT
MOVIE NIGHT

And we have the two winners!:

>Darkman
>Happy Gilmore

So see ya later at 22 GMT!

>>40420367
>DILFs aren't real

How can you say that when there are hot local DILFs in your area?

>MOVIE NIGHT
MOVIE NIGHT
>MOVIE NIGHT
MOVIE NIGHT

A reminder that in 2 hours Movie Night is gonna start! Here is tonight's selection:

>Happy Gilmore
>Darkman

>what the hell is "movie night"
Its a special night where bigen comes together to watch on Discord two movies chosen by the community

>where do we watch the movies?
On the official Bigen Movie and Game Night Discord server:
https://discord.gg/xnE7u98S

>i don't usually post on bigen/never took part in movie night, can i join?
Of course, movie night is open to anyone, just remember to mute yourself during the movies, be civil and have fun!

fyi this is the list of every movie we watched so far:
https://pastebin.com/Bc8pqK9h

>>40420940
well actually im more of a kinsey scale 1 bishit so i rly only like butches
im just assuming the wife in this scenario is an archetypically feminine woman
>>40427831
>there are hot local DILFs in your area
where? they all seem to let themselves go by the time theyre 30

>MOVIE NIGHT
MOVIE NIGHT
>MOVIE NIGHT
MOVIE NIGHT

Good evening !
Its finally time to start another Movie Night! Tonight selection is:

>Happy Gilmore
>Darkman

Here is the link of the stream, don't be shy and come join us! the film will start at 22:10 GMT

>https://discord.gg/xnE7u98S

>what the hell is "movie night"
its a special night where bigen comes together to watch on Discord two movies chosen by the community

>i don't usually post on bigen/never took part in movie night, can i join?
Of course, movie night is open to anyone, just remember to mute yourself during the movies, be civil and have fun!

fyi: this is the list of every movie we watched so far:
https://pastebin.com/Bc8pqK9h

>>40428820
>Where are all the DILFs who aren't fat
The trick is to join a gym... for the sole purpose of stalking prime DILFs.

Personally I went the extra mile and got a gay muscular DILF as my personal trainer. (He is LA-tier fit with a pretty face, like picrel). It's perfect.

>>40422885
giwtwm

>>40429659
ive had a membership for the gym at my local uni and i went there for roughly abt a year and unfortunately nothing came of it except for me making passing eye contact with guys roughly my age :pensive:
i think its just bc im not a gay dude and this whole cruising thing just isnt for me

>>40409179
yeah im not going bald or growing a beard
id rather kill myself desu

>>40430829
>this whole cruising thing just isnt for me
bih you got a higher bodycount than the entire rest of bigen combined

>>40431978
yeah i meet them on dating apps and/or social media like a lady!

>>40387935 (OP)
>QOTT: whats your favorite video game?
Of all time? Final Fantasy Tactics. I will forever fucking love that game.

>>40432057
that still counts as cruising

>>40430961
Sadly I am going bald. Gotta see what the dermatologist says at the end of the month.

>>40430961
>don't wanna go bald
>don't wanna do the things that prevent/delay balding
You're in for an uphill battle

>>40433754
cute

>>40433754
me on the right

>>40387935 (OP)
Thinking about the Christian boy I was secretly in love with who stopped talking to me a year ago today.
>Tfw his Patron Saint was Michael while I've been cursed by Lucifer since birth
Reading Milton has menuinely considering converting just so we can get in touch again.

>>40434598
*has me genuinely

>TFW you trawl Grindr all week looking to suck a hard one and end up rug munching your chubby nerdy friend last night and this morning.
Back to square one.

Bump for femboys where tf are they at

>>40433754
I now long to wash my twink in this cutesy manner

>>40434598
Move on... joining a religion isn't worth it

>>40436469
They've all been turned into men by society, manly mens with men tits that nobody can avert their eyes from

Bump