Thread 40390651

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Anonymous 7/15/2025, 4:27:20 AM No.40390651 >>40391016 >>40391049 >>40391086

how do I know if I want a bf bc I’m gay or if its just bc I’m lonely and wish I had a friend

Anonymous 7/15/2025, 5:06:32 AM No.40391016 >>40391031 >>40391063

>>40390651 (OP)
Well it's pretty simple. Do you want to do platonic friend stuff with him? Long conversations, dumb inside jokes, bantering and playing video games, going on outings together and stuff?

Or do you want to do all the platonic friend stuff, but then before the night's over he makes a move on you, and suddenly he's all up in your personal space, kissing you and touching you and pushing his hands up your shirt so he can feel your bare skin, grinning at you and teasing you when you get all flustered, and then he takes you to bed for rough sweaty lovemaking and then you sleep there with his arms around you and do it all again the next day?

Anonymous 7/15/2025, 5:10:00 AM No.40391031 >>40391058

>>40391016
well i definitely want the first part but I wouldn’t mind the second part but I want the first part more I think

Anonymous 7/15/2025, 5:11:38 AM No.40391043 >>40391055

a lot of people depend on romantic relationships to fulfill all of their emotional needs but making good friends is generally better for you and more sustainable in the long term
not all romantic relationships are doomed to fail you're just better off developing a support group first instead of banking your mental health on one person forever

Anonymous 7/15/2025, 5:13:02 AM No.40391049 >>40391087

>>40390651 (OP)
maybe its both? nothing wrong with it being both. to answer the gay part though; if the guy wanted to give you the best head of your life, would you tolerate it? would you be excited to receive?

Anonymous 7/15/2025, 5:13:45 AM No.40391055 >>40391089

>>40391043
Idk how to make friends tho especially close friends who won’t get creeped out when you talk about all ur mental illness

Anonymous 7/15/2025, 5:14:06 AM No.40391058 >>40391087

>>40391031
So you just kinda think you might need to use sex and intimacy to "pay" for friendship in a sense? Do you have more interest in sex with women?

Anonymous 7/15/2025, 5:14:48 AM No.40391063

>>40391016
Every night i hug my pillow fantasizing this ;-;

Anonymous 7/15/2025, 5:15:14 AM No.40391069

Discord?

Stella(she/her) !wzi4fPBOgI 7/15/2025, 5:18:05 AM No.40391086 >>40391100

>>40390651 (OP)
Try sucking a cock. If it tastes good, you're gay. If you find it yucky, then you just wanted a friend.

Anonymous 7/15/2025, 5:18:09 AM No.40391087

>>40391058
>>40391049
Idk tbhon I don’t think I’m a very sexual person but if a guy loved me I’d let him do anything he wants. I dated a woman once a long time ago but I never felt like we ever got “close” and p sure it ended bc of my wierd hangups around sex

Anonymous 7/15/2025, 5:18:36 AM No.40391089 >>40391136

>>40391055
well i find that people who are unsocialized often struggle to read social ques and can start very uncomfortable and personal conversations about things like sex and trauma without realizing that they don't know the person they're talking to well enough for all that
i'm not saying you shouldn't confide in people but maybe you're struggling because you don't know whether or not people are open to being talked to, and you need to get to know them better first so you have an easier time discerning

Anonymous 7/15/2025, 5:19:36 AM No.40391100 >>40391120

>>40391086
i don’t think that really means anything tho there are straight men that suck dick like in prison

Stella(she/her) !wzi4fPBOgI 7/15/2025, 5:22:08 AM No.40391120

>>40391100
True, but my qualifier is the taste. When I sucked a dick I knew I wanted more. It was delicious. I would think a straight person would find it unpleasant.

Anonymous 7/15/2025, 5:23:13 AM No.40391136

>>40391089
it’s more like everyone I’ve ever known seems really upbeat and type A and talking about my struggles is really “killing the vibe”