Thread 40435709

>gender dysphoria is pain due to not being a woman
>being a woman means looking and behaving like one
>hons do not look and usually dont behave like women
Real dysphorics* just manmode if they cant pass because the pain of being a hon is far worse than the pain of being a man.
t. 5 years hrt manmoder trvemoder
* one caveat is very autistic or low iq hons who genuinely believe they look like women, bless them, giwtwm but sadly I am aware of what I am

honestly manmoding is making me want to puke

>>40435709 (OP)
Real dysphorics can pass easily and wouldn't need to manmode

>>40435718
Ask yourself: what would a cis woman do if she were transformed into a masculine man overnight? She might go on hrt for emotional benefits, but she wouldn't start stomping around yelling AKHCUALLY IT'S MA'AM!!! She would suffer in silence with dignity like any fembrained person.
Hons are malebrained and like typical men, they think every problem can be solved with brute force. And so they put on a wig, skirt go spinny, you know the rest of the story.
>>40435735
Spoken like a true zero empathy youngshit luckshit. Having no empathy is a masculine trait btw.

>>40435735
im a real certified dysphoric and cant pass cuz im a broke retard and have man genetics

>>40435709 (OP)
i have a lot of dysphoria and hate having a penis.

>>40435884
>She would suffer in silence with dignity like any fembrained person
Like any malebrained person, you mean. Suffering in silence is peak moid behavior. A cis woman would seek support from close family members and friends.

>>40435893
If you can't pass why would god make you dysphoric?

>>40435901
because god is a sick fuck who gets off on my suffering

>>40435709 (OP)
Idk what I'd do in the situation. Probably HRT NB mode because I wouldn't want to force the it's mam thing if it was obvious I wasn't a girl. But being a Man forever sounds like suifuel. But maybye with effort I could become androgynous enough to be rejected by both genders

>>40435735
Cope. It's easier to believe that because the idea that we could have been hons with a slightly worse luck is terrifying.

>>40435884
Nah plenty of woman have 0 empathy to. They are just better at masking it IRL. But they were just as mean to me as a femboy in highschool as the guys were

>>40435909
>But they were just as mean to me as a femboy in highschool as the guys were
deserved desu femboys deserve it for being part of a pedophilc culture

>>40435915
Everything that would make femboys pedophilic, cis women do every day with impunity

>>40435928
no. they dont. I used to be a femboy and like 90% of the culture is just older men preying on little boys telling them how feminine they are. modern day pederasty. grooming cess pit. every femboy bullied out of the culture is a teenager saved from being groomed

>>40435898
By suffer in silence I meant not trying to force other people to address her as a woman. She of course would get therapy and support for it, you're right I didnt phrase it that well lol.
>>40435901
Because God loves you. Unpassing dysphorics are God's favorites.
>>40435909
HRT NB mode is what im doing. It's true: if you have dysphoria, its a bad idea to try to be a stone cold masc man ... again think how a cis woman would behave if she turned into a man overnight, and it all makes sense.

>>40435709 (OP)
you dont get it because you don't have the delusion.

i just can't with you guys. it's like you're obsessed. you can't accept not getting something. it makes you feel dumb and your narcissism precludes that you can't be. but you are. learn to live with it.

just be like: hey i don't get it. i'm never gunna get it. live and let die. it's none if my business.

>>40435971
?? I literally am accepting that I cant pass and doing my best to live a decent life as an andro man???? Maybe its meds time.
>>40435909
Fuck idk, youre probably right about many women not having empathy. I would still say women have more incentive to develop empathy because they are weaker than men and empaty is needed for manipulating them well.
Its kinda like how men have more incentive to become funny.

>>40435915
Okay femboy wasn't even the term or mainstream yet this was like 2014-2016 before I trooned. I was just femboy coping because I didn't even really know about being trans yet and wanted to be fem and pretty anyways like the femboy anime chars I liked. And being emo was an easy excuse to be androgynous. And I sort of discovered HRT and being trans while researching DIY orchiectomy techniques to prevent male puberty.

But like girls would be mean and one tries to cut off my hair. Only girls who were nice about it were weird fujos in anime club who wanted to like put me in 100% drag. But that felt embarrassing to do in a school that mostly bullied me for being a femboy.

>>40436006
if you live as a man it's because you identify as one. that means you're cis.

i might be ugly, but i'm not a man. i'm a woman. the difference between trenders misconflating a want with a belief. you don't get it. you want to be sydney sweeny and when you can't you get all moody about it.

if you really identify as a woman you could live as an ugly one. not every woman is some instagram thot.

>>40435709 (OP)
>being a woman means looking and behaving like one
your problem is here

>>40436006
That makes sense desu. Tho I guess having empathy(ability to understand other emotions) is 100% different than actually being a good person. Despite how we generally associate the 2 traits

>>40436030
This is just objectively true. Having gender dysphoria doesnt automatically make you a woman. Trust me, I wish it worked that way. But no amount of hugboxing in the world can change facts.

>>40436023
Passing and being attractive are two different things. Meds, now.