>>40438836 (OP)I kind of hate this perception of lgbt as like, a specific "lifestyle" or people act like its an organization or something, or theres a lgbt hivemind or something like that
like no, and you can't just opt out of being lgbt because you don't like the actions or ideas of others who are also lgbt...
that's like if a black person decided they weren't black because they didn't want to be associated with the hood or something.