Late 20s straight dude so sorry if I’m imposing in a space that isn’t for me but I thought a queer perspective would help here.

I’ve had a couple relationships but mostly unrequited crushes that never came to be and over half of them have been to bi women. It’s consistent.

I don’t wanna generalize but can any of you help explain why I might be more interested in bi women than their straight counterparts?? I can’t

Have many queer friends so I guess I’ve just had more exposure but that doesn’t explain it to me.

I really think there’s something attractive both in a physical and emotional context when it comes to bi women and I just can’t place it.

Help?!???

>>40506289 (OP)
if you're not really a "hunk" that's self explanatory. straight women have the tendency to hate on a man's "feminine side" meanwhile bi women tend to not be bothered

>>40506301
I guess that’s it???? I’m 5’6 and wear my heart on my sleeve so I guess that might vibe better with bi women?

I’m not scrawny though (I used to be) I work out pretty consistently and am nearing the big 30 so my twink death is fast approaching lol

>>40506312
As long as you keep exercising and don't lose your hair, you'll still be fine.
>t. 36 bi bottom who still gets plenty of attention from other women and men, despite having a gf

>>40506572
I’m praying!

>>40506289 (OP)
Think >>40506301 raises a good point.
Potentially it could also be that you’re attracted to bi women because our personalities and interests skew more androgynous on average? Not necessarily talking about looks here, guess I’m thinking more in the vein of seeing the world through a certain lens that straight women don’t.

>>40507183
That’s definitely part of it but it isn’t the whole story. Physically, something about it the female bi aesthetic, if such a thing does exist, is a huge turn on to me.

Whether it be the overrepresentation of bi women in emo and goth cultures I just know it’s my thing.

This could also just be a knock on me but bi women have been much more open and forward about their sexual preferences with me and that’s made the sex so much better for both of us.

I get I should be asking my straight partners how to please them too but it’s so much easier when I don’t have to solve the enigma code and just have the woman say “eat me pussy till you stop breathing”

>>40507212
>>40507183
Sorry if I came off too strong there, shouldn’t have been crude

bi chicks are just way more chill than straight chicks and have some dose of androgyny that makes them empathize with men better

>>40507649
Agreed that I find bi women less judgmental and more emotionally open

>>40507212
>>40507624
Nah you’re good anon, I think you’re pointing out some relevant stuff.
>female bi aesthetic
Think there’s something to this. Many bi women dress slightly alt, and even those who dress more mainstream tend to do so with more edge than straight peers would. Guess the ability to see clothing as sexy on both men and women changes how you dress yourself because you’re more aware of what looks good and what doesnt.
>bi women have been much more open and forward about their sexual preferences
Also think you’re right in that observation.
Bi women often seem to perform assertiveness differently that straight women, in general, from what Ive seen. I suppose we’re not as scared of taking charge? even bi women who lean more stereotypically fem and bottom tend to be more aware of what they want and more willing to voice it.
many of us seem to have higher sex drives than straight peers too, so that probably also plays a part.

>>40508206
All I’m hearing are pluses and this jsut reaffirms the post. TL;DR: Bi women are just badder bitches with the bonus of inviting you to be emotionally vulnerable with them. Sign me up

>>40508260
Well Godspeed anon, hope you find one hell of a bad bi bitch irl because you seem like a swell guy.

If I had to list some of our minuses they might be
>higher rates of mental illness
>higher rates of self harm and substance abuse
>higher rates of having been raped in the past
>might panic over missing out on chicks
>might be too assertive/finicky/controlling/possibly violent
>many of us are kind of a mess
Some of us suck. Big time.
Personally I’m just hoping for someone I can buy flowers some day though.

>>40508393
That sounds perfect cause I hate myself, have been hospitalized on more than 1 occasion and love drinking! But hey, I’m working on myself and am improving daily. Godspeed femanon

>>40508437
>drinking
>hate myself
>working on it
You’re prime bi bitch meat then, go gettem champ
Hope you like pegging and/or bdsm

>>40506301
>bi women tend to not be bothered
sadly, not true

>>40508475
>Hope you like pegging or BDSM

Stop I can only get so hard lmao. Thanks for the support