So I (26M) was with my ex (25 mtf) for 6 years before we broke up about a month and a half ago. We had one of our best friends K (24 mtf) come in with us because she didn't feel welcomed at her parents place. I pleaded her case to my gf and it took a lot of convincing to bring K in, things are just okay living with my gf and K as a live in fwb. Things with my ex get really weird because she's just neglectful a lot more than usual so I break things off. I didn't want to at all but I needed a moment to breathe.
She then goes to my parents place with me for my mothers birthday and gets intimate with me leads me on, saying she wants to sleep in the same bed again. I try talking to my ex about the relationship like a month after and she goes about she doesn't want to be in any relationships, how she said she just doesn't think we're compatible.
Come to find out she and K started dating and hiding it from me on purpose. And here I am moving out because I'm not going to deal with a betrayal of trust like that. Both of them are demonizing me for calling them out on the shady shit they did, because they just expected me to be oblivious to it and keep paying rent. Saying how they're afraid that I'm going to hurt them and how I'm a bitter ex. I just feel very hurt from all of it, that two people I trusted could do this to me. I really cared about them. Saying that I blew up because I couldn't move on.
Did I waste 6 years of my relationship just to be treated like shit? I was willing to forgive her for the year of neglect and try again but this is just too much, why are these transfems trying to frame themselves as victims in a situation they created.....

>>40509382 (OP)
you should watch fresh & fit and some redpill/game channels.
you should ALWAYS expect this when dealing with female/feminine/estrogen based life forms.
its your duty as a man to take it on the chin, and eat it. and stay out of their lives.
they wont survive on their own and eventually they'll come back or 1 will or maybe not.
and when they do you have to tell them to fuck off.
pretty much all the love you felt, is going to turn to hate. and you're going to have to learn how to wield love/hate in healthy ways that do something positive and good and not harmful.
you have to get the mentality "i fucking hate you ex/k" without dishing that out or putting that on to them or comparing other people to them.
but expect that when dealing with women.
https://rumble.com/c/freshandfit
https://rumble.com/c/MyronGainesX
that should be enough to give you the basics and give you enough material to compare thousands of women with.
you'll notice how many of them are the exact same. its like that with dudes too, just different. abandon both of them. they died.

you should focus all your resources on yourself and invest and build yourself, once you are established good. you will have your pick. women will come to you.men take a while longer. usually by mid 30's is when they start priming up, and women start going down alot in smv. sexual market value. and you become the 1 with the upperhand.

you should always keep 3-5 women at all times. despite what people will say or you think.
women like men that can pull women. and if you keep them on their toes, they'll do more for you.
once you settle for 1 they'll leave cause they dont see you like high value anymore.
women are hypergamous what they do and say are not the same.
just focus on yourself. and study the psychology of women and see what your dealing with and you'll laugh once you figure it out.
im telling you in 10 years. you're gonna be worth your weight in gold.
lurk /biz/ get rich

also a good short term tactic is to just get your dick wet asap and fuck some random girls and date random ones.
but predominantly, you need to just focus on yourself and level yourself up and make yourself successful.

look at that + side, you have 2 less depreciating/losing/bleeding assets to take care of.

and you're going to be wealthieer and more powerful for it which will bring better women and more of a selection of women.

its so important for young guys to just build themselves and keep going.

women always fuck guys up and bleed them out when they should have just been selfish and stuck to themselves and enhanced their life.


you'll see.

you should def lurk /biz/ and get rich.

you'll be a millionaire within 10 years.
i promise.

>>40509382 (OP)
so you invited a tranner to move in, broke things off with your ex, then got mad when they started dating? i think you were the one that created this situation, not her

im so sorry that this happened with you
not all transwomen are the same
i know you're in bad mood, everyone will be
life goes on, don't give up, you deserve to be happy

>>40509382 (OP)
Transbians are the cancer of society, we should kill and behead them, but like the other anon said, prioritize yourself dont pay for them to get food and a roof, let them know how hard life is. They will demonize and deshumanising tou because it's foid strategy for you to snap so they can take you to court. Just use it as a fuel to accomplish stuff in your life, you deserve to be happy fren. If you were french i would have go out with you to drink a beer.

Correction, I asked her about possibly getting back into the relationship a week after she was intimate with me

>>40509635
I feel like I did I won't lie. I just didn't expect it from someone I did a lot for. I'm not even angry with the situation just hurt.

>>40509540
>>40509571
Legit a lot of friends have been telling me this
Improve on life overall and finding myself again.

>>40509718
This really hasn't affected my view on transfems all together, I would probably date a transwoman again it just depends on who it is I click with in the future.

>>40510106
I realized how much I really contributed to the household, and that place was pretty bare after I packed everything I bought for the house/ gifted by family. Took the vacuum, carpet cleaner, all the tupperware. etc.. They really took me for granted