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/Bigen/ - bisexual general : All or nothing edition

>QotT #1: Do you fuck?
>QotT #2: If so, who do you fuck?
>optional QotT: If not, why not?

Previous Thread: >>40527276 (OP)

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FAQ:
>Am I bi if I like women and femboys/traps?
>Am I bi if there's this one member of the same-sex I'm desiring, but normally I like the opposite sex?
>Am I bi if I sexually like both sexes, but only interested in romance with one of them?
Yes, sexual attraction to both sexes is bisexuality.
>Do you love me, OP?
I love your computer... it's got so much interesting software on it....
>What's the difference between bisexual and pansexual?
Only difference is that our flag is prettier.
>Am I bi if i have periods where I feel only attracted to women and others where I feel only attracted to men?
This is known as the bi-cycle and many bisexuals experience it.
>Am I bi or am I 'prison gay' or porn addicted?
'Prison gay' is not a real thing and porn addiction does not alter your sexual orientation. You are bi.
>Am I bi or pan if I like trans people?
Both are able to be attracted to trans people.
>I think I might be bi but I can't tell. How can I be certain?
Just make a point to check out members of the sex you think you might be attracted to and see if anyone grabs your attention.
>Should I be harsh on myself?
You should be kind on yourself. Few people will do it for you
>Favourite digimon?
Frigimon

Resource for Bisexuals:
https://biresource.org/

>>40553782 (OP)
I REQUIRE
TRANNIES

>AI sloppa
no
kys

I require

love

>>40553796
No, I uh, drew it myself :)

>>40553782 (OP)
is this just the image for the nonbinary crossover but with a different flag?

>>40553882
yeah, I uh drew multiple version, with my own hand (pencil and paper) just in case

>>40553907
oh well I was here for the nonbinary version because on top of being probably asexual I'm also nonbinary

>>40553907
nobody wants to see DEI bullshit in 2025

>>40553782 (OP)
>Bisexual - Fucks anything
>Asexual - Fucks nothing

Damn, they have everything in common

>>40553940
anon doesn't get horseshoe theory

>>40553918
we are dei bullshit

>>40553782 (OP)
Tf is this shit?

>>40553975
/bigen/ bisexual general and /acegen/ asexual general : All or nothing edition

>>40553993
it's also seemingly an unofficial split of /acegen/ from /arogen/

>>40554012
the aromantics can chat amongst theyselves

>>40553993
Whoever made this one

>>40554055
nope, i wont kys myself EVER

>>40553782 (OP)
GET THESE BIFAGS OUT OF MY ACEGEN REEEEEEEE

>>40554096
this anon doesn't remember the nice bi anon that would come to /ace/aro/gen/

>>40553782 (OP)
asexual people deserve to be undergo rape correction with pregnancy reparations

>T. bisexualoid

>>40554469
thats just gonna make sex seem more unappealing due to trauma

>>40554490
good. i dont think asexual people opinion, feelings or thoughs matter in the perfect world

>>40554542
why tho like whats the reason behind your agression im genuinely curious. is it bc the tumblr asexuals are annoying and retarded

>>40554560
because the word was made to fuck and if i cant fuck you you are literally worthless

>>40555458
>and if i cant fuck you you are literally worthless
you must think nearly all of humanity is worthless then

>>40555458
do you think your parents and grandma are worthless or do you have sexual relations with them too

asexual people genuinely don't feel human to me. I know that's a terrible thing to say but sexual desire is so core to the human experience in my eyes it's like they're aliens!

>>40556128
sexual desire is not unique to humans and occurs in nearly any animal (not to mention it could occur in asexuals as well). sexual desire is probably the least core thing to the human experience and it comes free with being a fucking animal. Some things that are exclusive to humans include our ability to majorly transform our selves and environment, our complex minds, our ability to live in pretty much every climate, and our ability to have complex and multi-faceted relationships that go far beyond just wanting to have sex.

>>40555570
yes
>>40555665
i could if i want it

>>40556246
im asexual and i genuinely dont feel human. for the context im also aromantic, i see a lot of aroace people claiming that they can love their friends and family and whatnot and that they just dont want any kind of romantic/sexual relationships but for me thats not the case, i dont feel any kind of love, not platonic not famillial not anything. i dont love any members of my family, even the ones that never abused me and were nothing but nice and understanding to me my whole life, i dont have any friends and i struggle to understand friendship as a concept because everyone feels replacable to me, even if i enjoy someones presence they never mean that much to me. i cant comprehend romantic love for the same reason because in my mind humans are mostly all the same so why single out one of them thats probably nothing special.

>>40553782 (OP)
>Do you Fuck?
Nope
>If not, why not?
Too many other things to focus on before getting into relationships (like finishing college) and I think one-night stands are unromantic.

>>40556246
This just proves my point anon. If every other animal has a sex drive, boom,

Hey, sorry if I’m being mean, this should be a safe space for you. Just know it’s something I personally could never relate to or understand

>>40556424
I am also aroace and I suppose that makes sense. to be honest the whole concept of "feeling human" doesn't really make much sense to me because to be human is to be a member of a biological group, I associate all of my feelings to my individuality and don't really think about "being human" past my body. I just thought I'd ensure that anon's definition of "core human experiences" included things actually unique to humans. If anything you not feeling any sort of love isn't odd to me but what is odd is how you don't seem to recognize the inherit complexity and uniqueness of individual humans because I don't think that would require one to feel any form of love.
>>40556563
>This just proves my point anon. If every other animal has a sex drive, boom
it doesn't prove your point though, you just said that it did and then didn't elaborate.

>>40553782 (OP)
>QotT #1: Do you fuck?
no, virgin.

>optional QotT: If not, why not?
nobody i liked wanted, only creeps wanted and i refused.

>>40556726
You’ll find someone anon! Keep putting yourself out there

>>40556758
eventually it will happen, i'm not in a hurry anyway.

>>40556786
nice malware anon

>>40556666
>to be human is to be a member of a biological group
> If anything you not feeling any sort of love isn't odd to me but what is odd is how you don't seem to recognize the inherit complexity and uniqueness of individual humans
i think we have a different view on things. i think that being a human is different from being a homosapien, like to me humanity is more of a societal concept i perceive it through a philosophical lense. i dont think that being human is purely biology because there is a clear set of interpersonal concepts that our society attaches to "being human" like friendships, companionship, love, morals, etc. its why people commonly refer to individuals like charles manson or ted bundy as "barely human" and why i often dont feel entirely human either

>>40553782 (OP)
>QotT #1: Do you fuck?
not in a while (over two weeks)
>QotT #2: If so, who do you fuck
usually this guy im goin out with
>>40553918
u fuck other men in the ass/let men fuck u in the ass and given the fact that ur on 4ch u most likely have a plethora of mental illnesses u are the dei bullshit

>>40553782 (OP)
>>QotT #1: Do you fuck?
sometimes
>>QotT #2: If so, who do you fuck?
my gf
>>optional QotT: If not, why not?
because I am retaining my semen or don't feel like it

>>40553812
why do you draw in ai style

Came out to my sisters last week as bisexual.
Tip: Don't come out to the religious/conservative one first, if you were hoping for validation
Not my greatest decision, but I felt like I had to get it off my chest.
It went great with my other sister, who leans more liberal. It felt great to have someone on my side to talk to, and who had her own experience with "bisexuality/bi-curiosity".
Worth it.

>>40556824
>because there is a clear set of interpersonal concepts that our society attaches to "being human" like friendships, companionship, love, morals, etc. its why people commonly refer to individuals like charles manson or ted bundy as "barely human" and why i often dont feel entirely human either
well usually I connect those to my and others individuality but I have also seen the figurative phrase "barely human". So I see where you're coming from but I also probably wouldn't use that figurative language due to how my own mind attaches things.

>girl I was talking to is now the guy who is ghosting me
The bi experience in one person is crazy
Guess they saw that and left
Was kinda looking forward to being gay for him
Oh well way she goes

>>40553782 (OP)
>QotT #1: Do you fuck?
Yes
>QotT #2: If so, who do you fuck?
My gf. I also have a mild crush on a guy I know from a local band. I think he's into me too cuz he's touchy-feely with me. My gf's a fujo but idk if his is lol

i fucked a month ago. it was a chubby, tatted up nurse lady. not great, but it made me feel better.

>partnered with /acegen/
>qott: why aren't you fuckin' broham? whats up with that?

>>40553782 (OP)
Terriermon is the best Digimon.
Also my Digimon fit it came but I'm still waiting on the vpet.
>>40553993
Slow general general?

>>40556893
>not in a while
>2 weeks
Anon you’re gonna make me cry

>>40559402
i havent had sex within the first 20 yrs of my life so idk how i did it either

>>40561132
Happy for you!

I'm a vegan zoophile because I love animals both ways & then some more

>>40556939
>why do you draw in ai style
uh, ai draws in my style because im a very uh real artist

>>40553782 (OP)
I wish I was asexual, I fucking hate being sexually attracted to things, it's sybaritic and degenerate because the modern age gives a voice to so many scum that abet the most hedonistic shit and though I might be more stalwart then most I still have preferences that I hate. It's pure weakness caused by a desire for excess and sin.

>>40564412
castrate urslef babe

mfw the porn addicted straights and traumatised tumblr users are trying to make friends

>>40556246
humans are animals, therefore animal qualities make up human qualities. hope this helps.

>>40564425
Doubt it'd work, the desire would still be there in the mind

>>40553782 (OP)
aces need rape correction

>>40556424
Another asexual here. I get where you're coming from
>in my mind humans are mostly all the same so why single out one of them thats probably nothing special
Oscar Wilde said most people are other people, so I guess you could say most humans — especially with a surface look — are practically indistinguishable from other people. If they don't, either their personality truly resonates with you, or some other tie makes them stand out — likely family ones.
Personally, I still do make friends, mostly because they're fun to talk to sometimes, or because some part of me still feels the need to hang out with someone. Sex and romance never cross my mind, too much of a bother really. Maybe I'd make an exception for a cute boy but that's a big maybe.
I'd advise looking into Schizoid Personality Disorder, you might find it interesting.

>>40565084
Snurly does indeed need rape correction

>>40565811
>>40556424
I'm not asexual but I understand the lack of attachment, for me it's not so much as not loving or being friends with people, it's just that I have a hard time understanding either. I love my mum and appreciate friends and coworkers I'm close to, but I often have a hard time grasping either and don't feel the same way about many other people, including family. I still like my family, I still like friends I'm not super close to, but not love. Think it's in part to me being very, very fucking contemptuous and judgmental, I'm cordial and laid back both online and irl too, but some people are just horrible and debased and evil, and it's those people I feel limitless contempt for.

Also, don't put yourselves down too much for being asexual, you might see it as being aberrant but neither of you have had to deal with lust, I see that as a blessing. You know how many people destroy themselves and become shut in gooners because their minds have rotted away and been replaced with degenerate horny thoughts? How many people get manipulated by lovers? It's destroyed states before. Some people just give up and decide to live life as a limb because they'd think it'd be hot and pleasurable or fun, that'd their worries would go away because someone would own them and it's perfectly ok because they're told it's safe sane and consensual. I for one struggled with getting off to zoophilia porn for years until I finally quit, and it feels good to not have those thoughts corrupting my mind.

Your asexuality isn't a curse, it's a blessing, it can be honed to make you a better person free of base desires most humans are slaves too.

>>40556893
>not in a while (over two weeks)
>it has been 3 years for me
launching a cruise missile at your house rn

>>40563102
me

>>40553782 (OP)
HOW MANY fingers ?????

>>40568363
all the better to fist you with my dear

Would bigen fuck the new Superman?

>>40569499
without question i am a ride he would not survive
>>40567521
if it makes u feel any better he cancelled last minute so i continue to remain sexless

>>40553782 (OP)
Going to the office soon. I have no work to do. I will find an unused conference room and take a nap!

>>40556995
RATTLE SNAKE
RATTLE SNAKE
RATTLE SNAKE
rattle snake

dating is getting to know someone and form a meaningful connection all while fighting the urge to fall in love with them to early and fight the voices telling you theyll ghost you at any moment. Is it seriously a balancing act like I met someone on hinge and we have been talking for about a week and everytime we talk I feel like I can never say enough. Oh no Im doing it again.

Sometimes I wonder if this is autism Gen then I realize we have normal people.

>>40571137
The sensation of falling in love is one of the best life has to offer. Be reckless with how and who you love. Even the pain of rejection and failure is sweet in comparison to the guarded life. How will you ever experience the height of being fully loved back if you never open yourself to the experience? Get it, son.

I wonder if Thelema worshipers accept the bisexual.

>>40572330
you wonder if a cult accepts people?

Bi anons, both men and women, how would you wanna be approached in a bar? Trying to meet people and have just come out of a LTR and just wanna be a man whore for a bit but am open to something more serious if the sparks fly. Help?

>>40572330
Crowley was openly bisexual and banging women and men, so yes.

>>40573292
I'm a bi man.
For women, just be flirty, and simultaneously forward and receptive. You should break the physical touch barrier first ideally.
For men, be friendly and forward. If we are laughing and touch each other, allow the touches to linger to indicate interest.

>>40573564
>You should break the physical touch barrier first ideally
That sounds like a good way to get a SA charge

>>40573631
Sorry, I meant how women should approach me, and how men should approach me.
I don't think a woman touching a man's arm will result in an SA charge.

>>40553782 (OP)
> AI Slop
/ic/ reporting in. The council asked me to say you are a faggot

I thought I was asexual and aromantic until I emerged from a 17-year depersonalization/derealization pit earlier this year and found myself able to feel loneliness for the first time.
I am fully convinced that ace/aro are just symptoms of mental disorders.

>>40573292
Try walking up and asking if they'd like their cock sucked.

If you're ugly I can't help you.

>>40573813
Rate my slop art.
>>40573953
Maybe or some upbringing with family or a friend network replacing romance.

>>40574224
I can see you are a beginner but the fact you are trying situations instead of character in void doing pose is already a good and solid start! Keep going anon!

>>40571137
if it makes u feel any better im in the exact same position so ur definitely not alone

>>40574224
Are you also on the "trying to get decent at art in your late 20s" train?

>>40575085
JOIN!!!

>>40574224
u should draw me ive been told i make quite the muse :3

>QotT #1: Do you fuck?
No, never have
>optional QotT: If not, why not?
It's over

I won't be going home with anyone, but I'm off to the gay bars tonight and decided to go out with a butt plug, some cute underwear, and the cage I haven't worn in months.

>>40575925
I can't decide if this is giga based or giga cringe (I'm leaning towards based)

>>40569640
Why does it seem like we are the only people who are into hunks and muscle hunks around here?

Is bigen full of Reddit bisexuals or something?

>>40575925
Hot. I've always wanted to go out caged. Why not go home with someone too?

>>40577103
no its full of regular bisexuals

if you want muscle worship go to gaygen

>>40577592
Not about to fuck someone I don't know fairly well. Sex is unappealing to me without an emotional connection.

>>40577655
>implying that regular bisexuals aren't into muscular men
>implying that only gay men are into muscular men

Nuh uh. I'm the normal bisexual, not you.

>>40578081
nope regular bis fuck femboys and get them pregnant

>>40553782 (OP)
>QotT #1: Do you fuck?
Nobody
>optional QotT: If not, why not?
I was already shy as a straight person, but I'm ESPECIALLY more nervous about coming out to people if I ended up dating a guy.

I'm finally going to take my SSRIs after procrastinating taking them for 6 months... I know lots of people think you're fucking your brain up for life by taking them, but in my current state I'll probably kill myself soon anyways. It's like the lowest dose of one of the (supposedly) more tame ones, but it's extremely difficult not to worry about side effects. Ironically my anxiety has been the main thing keeping me from taking it. If I don't make the jump now, I'll be struggling for the rest of my life; wish me luck!

>>40553918

>>40553782 (OP)
>QotT #1: Do you fuck?
Bottoming and giving BJs counts?
>QotT #2: If so, who do you fuck?
Three grindr hookups last week, I gotta remember to make these dudes send pics first and not rely on conversation vibes. I had one ugly asian guy with a curvy dick, an ancient old man with a curvy dick, and one immaculate Brazilian boy I'll be seeing again tomorrow if all goes well. One out of three ain't bad. Me and the Brazilian boy had the most amazing time last week, I'm smitten with him

I had been having sex with my ex-GF against my better judgement but switching to men has been a godsend in resetting my mindset. I think I'm at a point now where I could honestly just turn her down for sex.

>>40572330
why would you want to join that group. It's possibly the lamest thing I ever heard of and I am definitely not averse to spirit.

can yall make an actual acegen/arogen

>>40579906
Why make a thread that's gonna die within an hour?

>>40580315
idk i just wanna talk about shit thats actually related to being asexual without the offtopic bisexuality faggotry

>>40580336
Then you go do it. Whatever faggot made this thread is the same one who did the combo bigen/enbygen and I want him to stop doing this shit.

>>40577655
Would you be into muscular short guys or is it over for anons like me?

>>40553782 (OP)
>qott 1
yes
>qott 2
wife

>>40581730
NTA but my first time with a guy was bottoming for a muscular shorter guy and I had a great time.

I miss the comfort of my ex's cuddles and having someone be curious about my day every day, goddamn self improvement can only keep you occupied for so long.

>>40582964
why dont you tell us about your day anon?

>>40582979
I just got it started despite it being afternoon, finished my breakfast (strawberries, bananas and coffee) and I'm gonna take a shower before going to the gym, thank you for asking!

I have been friends with this girl for a while and we’ve always been kinda flirty with each other but even more lately. About a week ago she invited me to her house to do shots before going out and J felt she was kinda off and distant and she’s been like that since. What could’ve happened?

>>40582999
sounds like a nice (and healthy) breakfast! what are you gonna do in the gym today?

>>40583027
I didn't want anything too filling before going out and we have like 3kgs of strawberries in the fridge to get through before they go bad. Today's gonna be a cardio day, like every other day! I'm trying to get a lower body fat % for more definition on my body. Being able to run for more than 5min is nice too, I've been going there for a month now every other day and it never fails to lift my mood once I'm done. Do you work out as well anon?

>>40583052
3kgs of strawberries is a lot... where did you get them all from? and yeah i do work out! ive only been going once a week for a few months now, so just when i can squeeze it in but i think ive been making good progress!

Why is accidental bi4bi so common?

>>40583066
Both my sister and my mom bought some when they went out shopping so now we have too much! And yeah I did have one week where I'd only show up at the gym once, but I've been making up for it whenever I can, today's gonna be a third day in there in a row, I'm hoping to make that 4 tomorrow! What's your routine like anon?

>>40577103
to be fair im like the inverse of a reddit bisexual
i would only fuck a “””woman””” if she were a he/him butch on t that was indistinguishable from a cis man and the like
basically i “would” only masc ftm reppers and butches

>>40583109
it depends on how much time i have to spend there, but i always try to hit bench press squats and deadlifts! whats your routine like?

>>40583076
Bi people are hotter and hot people go for each other. Sorry I don’t make the rules

>>40583076
My gf and I met online and didn't list our orientations. We both admitted to being bi like a week into dating. My ex-gf before her was bi too, and I think the one before that was closeted (even to herself) bi.

>>40583187
Probably something like this.

>>40583197
How are you pulling all these cute bi girls? Are you just that attractive (if you say you’re ugly you’re a filthy liar lol)

>>40583281
I'm reasonably attractive, yeah, kind of eccentric, and I'm also kinda twinkish/twunkish with a naturally big butt (and enhanced by squats and stairs).
So I am most appealing to girls who have somewhat alternative attractions and interests, they are frequently bi and also frequently want to put things in guys' butts. The closeted to herself bi girl was quite homophobic so kinda pushed me into not being openly bi for a bit as well, but it didn't stop her from pegging me lol

>>40583315
That sounds like me but I hate myself and have 0 self confidence and haven’t had sex in a long time. Happy for you anon but I genuinely don’t know what I’m doing wrong. Maybe my self confidence is the issue itself…

>>40583352
The self confidence is definitely an issue. I met my current gf online, but my last gf I met at a party and the homophobic gf I met dancing. Bringing positive energy is a massive advantage, and I almost always have that assuming I'm not physically exhausted or something. It cancels out my complete inability to read social cues lol.
Not sure what you need to do to resolve it, but when you do, you'll see more success.

>>40583388
Thanks for the vote of confidence anon :)

>>40583395
No problem. You'll figure it out :)

>boyfriend decides to make fun of me using a picture of us cuddling that he took right before i had to move to the other side of the state
>have extreme intimacy issues so any sort of physical contact is rare for me
>he knows this
i wish i could go back to be an incel virgin, unironically. im tired of this shit so much that i could scream. this is just the lastest in a long line of stupid bullshit hes pulled. usually, its just gaslighting and such. this is the first hes ever mocked me for allowing him to be affectionate with me so long ago.

>>40584496
That really sucks anon sorry to hear that

>>40584502
thanks. it is what it is. ill chalk it up to a lesson learnt.

Bi4Bi is the best

>>40584615
Yes it's the hottest and most fun

>>40583388
How do you bring positive energy? I think I do that most of the time but I want to know more

>>40585803
From my perspective:
I'm generally a positive person, I cultivate supportive friendships and bring that energy when I go out, I am willing to be briefly uncomfortable in new situations, I don't ever try to make people uncomfortable but I'm also entirely unconcerned if people don't like me.
From a friend's perspective:
I walk around with a smile and that is inviting, I like to dance.

>>40585993
Ok yeah I'm kinda like that. Always trying to have a smile or at least inviting appearance whenever I'm out and about. And I like to dance too. I'm not good at it, but a straight appearing guy dancing the way I do has gotten me being checked out by plenty of chicks but I am taken

>>40586113
I'm good at latin dancing (salsa+bachata) but am terrible at all other forms of dancing, but people don't really care. They're just happy to be around happy people (except certain nightclubs where people are really aggressive but I avoid those).
I also have a gf and am bad at recognizing flirting so I have to be careful I'm not accidentally too inviting lol. I will back away as soon as a woman touches me more than once, or try to redirect them to a single friend.

Anons are any of you here besides me severely depressed? Have heard being bi correlates with it but idk

Fellas, if I'm making a dating account profile, how many pictures do I need? I don't take selfies and I don't usually take photos while I'm out with friends. So what the hell do I even put? I have lots of hobbies and stuff but it feels weird just taking a million selfies of me doing each thing...

>>40586520
It was tough for me too, since I also rarely take photos and my friends don't take photos often. Here's the five I used on Bumble (where I met my now gf):
1. A selfie I took with snapchat. It took me awhile to get one I liked cuz I don't normally pose for photos and my phone camera is absolutely terrible cuz I only use tiny phones.
2. A picture of me climbing over a fence when my friend and I were drunk and lost. My instincts told me I'd want that photo and they were correct.
3. A photo of me playing the drums on the street with a couple musician friends of mine. They had invited me to play when their drummer disappeared. I don't really know how to drum but I can count to 3 or 4 depending on the song lol
4. A picture of me and some friends wearing face masks before going to a party
5. A picture of me dressed up as the Pokemon Mr. Mime. Most people find this picture to be horrifying lol.

My girlfriend tells me I could've easily gotten a lot more matches with a broader profile, but my goal was to find someone who's a good match for me. And it didn't take me long to find her anyway, maybe a week.

>>40586185
Yes. I usually get a few weeks of normalcy, then 1-4 weeks of depression. It can be mild or pretty severe like it is right now. Even some tics I have are getting really bad... I've had anxiety my whole life as well, but that's generally pretty constant. As I mentioned here >>40578793 , I'm actually starting SSRIs. Took them last night and feel no different, which is good, because I've been agonizing over whether side effects were going to instantly fuck me up or not for like 6 months.

>>40553782 (OP)
aseuxal here what goes on in this thread?

>>40553940
actually I'm asexual and I've fucked everything

>>40586700
BIG HUG ANON

>>40586601
So you're telling me I have to put EFFORT into my profile?! Come to think of it, I think I got 3 good ones right now, maybe I'll get a few more later. I'm a big perfectionist so I'm trying not to let it stop me from actually getting myself out there. Thanks anon

>>40586819
Thanks (^_^) I'm sure it'll all work out somehow.

>>40586941
Yes. Put effort into really showing yourself, rather than making a generic profile. Take your time and don't make your profile until you have five pics ready to go.
But also don't be neurotic. You should be able to do it within a month

I think dating apps aren’t worth it if you’re not tall rich and incredibly attractive. I’m not sure if anons here have the same experience but I don’t think it’s the best

>>40587249
They're a total disaster. Meeting people in person or through friends is the way to go.

bisexuals, which one would you rather bone down and why?

>>40588682
Right

>>40588868
is it because you prefer men

>>40588682
Porque no los dos?

>>40588682
neitjer but if i had to choose it would be the right

>>40588682
Not super into religious people but ignoring that I Think left is hotter. So I'd hit it and quit it.