Is it weird that the idea of being called ‘good boy’ during sex turns me on more than ‘good girl’? I definitely view myself as a woman, but it’s been a fantasy of mine for a while now and i'm scared to ask my boyfriend to call me that instead because he’s not gay and he might get mad.. :(

>>40573545 (OP)
I think that you are a FAGGOT, and you should ask your boyfriend to call you a FAGGOT during sex, because that's what you are. FAGGOT.

>>40573585
He’s very sure of his sexuality and i don't think he would call me that anon… he might break up with me instead

>>40573545 (OP)
>>40573627
this is why i date bifags

>>40573627
If he'd break up with you over a kink he's not a very good partner to be honest.

>>40573643
To be fair its a kink thats insinuating we’re both boys even though it wouldn't change anything outside of sex

>>40573667
Would you break up with him if he wanted you to call him a girl during sex?
Probably not. It's just a kink.

>>40573545 (OP)
I also have a detrans kink

>>40573689
probably to be honest :( I like men and it would give me red flags that he’s gonna troon, which is fine obviously, but I don't like women.. I would understand if he broke up with me for it

>>40573711
>probably to be honest
You don't have the right to complain then.

>>40573696
I don’t have a detrans kink, i think i just like the idea of being misgendered during sex, so if anything its probably a MEF thing sadly

>>40573721
I know, I wasn't complaining, it would make sense if he broke up with me, thats why im probably not going to bring it up with him

>>40573545 (OP)
I want to a boyfriend that will call me a cute faggot who gets off to having sex like a boy while he bends me over the counter and puts it in my butt... But only post SRS. I feel like that increases the humiliation

>>40573750
I may have a humiliation kink too…. I used to consider myself vanilla

>>40573845
Enjoying light humiliation is pretty common as a kink

what if i called you good goy

>>40573545 (OP)
Lowkey real, I could never tell a guy I was with that I was into it because it’d be really awkward but I really liked pretending we were like two cute boys kissing in a bl manga or some shit. Something about the forbidden love aspect and the idea of being loved regardless of my gender idk. I hate that I like it but boys kissing is hot. The closest I’ve gotten to it is having a guy call me a bottom which is close enough desu

>>40573545 (OP)
that's normal

>>40573750
hot

>>40574647
yeah, BL is one of the hottest most pure things ever created and sometimes I just wanna fantasize about being the uke while my bf rails me..

This one thing means your going to detroon and this will unravel your entire identity.

Or it doesn't matter at all and you should never used this site again.

I think it could be hot to date a trans girl and every once in a while get her to boymode in the bedroom and tease her about being a boymoder while fondling her and spanking her and biting her

>>40573667
Would a straight woman break up with her boyfriend if he asked to be called good girl in bed?

Are you hearing yourself rn.

>>40573545 (OP)
my grandma calls me good boy and I like it more than the feminine alternative
to me good girl is something guys say during sex
good boy is a sincere means of communicating a good job done

>>40573732
>sadly
if I was your bf I would make sure you stopped feeling bad about this turning you on by showing me how much you liking it also turns me on and makes me crave you

>>40573750
Are any of you retards not degenerates.

I was seeing a guy a while ago and I admitted that I had a kink for being misgendered and being called a good boy. One time we were messing around and he pushed my face into his crotch and made me kiss his dick and balls whilst calling me a good boy. It was unironically the horniest I ever got and I came hands free soon after. For the next couple of weeks he made it a habit to come up and grab my ass or squeeze my boobs and ask if I was going to be a good boy for him. I realised it made me really uncomfortable though so I told him not to do it again but he’d tease me about it occasionally. We broke up eventually but it was interesting to actually explore that kink irl for a bit

dont u guys realise it might not be a kink but your real self coming out ?

>>40575967
why are you so sexy????

>>40575839
I'm not going to detroon, it isn't an identity thing, its just a fetish that I'm debating whether or not to risk telling my bf about.
>>40575847
I am a boymoder like 75% of the time (tomboycoper)
>>40575851
Yeah, I understand the hypocrisy in it thats why im hesitant and probably not going to bring it up.. see >>40573711

>>40575868
I'm loyal to my bf im sorry
>>40575967
h-hot....

>>40576025
>75% boymoder
Cool then I would fuck you whenever you girlmode and also sometimes while you boymod

>>40573545 (OP)

I told my BF about this he said he thought it was "cool" but he doesn't do it he doesn't understand kink and he sucks at dirty talk. He is a very straight straight man who likes vanilla sex

>>40575851
>>40575851

Idk about break up but its intensely not arousing to me and I couldn't do that. Straight men acting feminine or submissive is gross to me.

>>40576011
>>40576011

Its more complicated than you think. Most of us have severe physical dysphoria despite internally being male gendered or non binary. We don't fit in with gay men or cis women as a result. Many of us already tried to be gay men for years before coming out. Not as common for zoomers thankfully. Trying to pretend to be a cis gay male when u have dysphoria is awful

>>40576344
My bf and I are pretty vanilla too usually with the exception of some mild roleplay and bdsm, and he's always the one who initiates it so it may come as a shock to him that I have a kink for being called 'good boy'...
>>40576397
I'm gen z so thankfully my gay phase didn't last long before i trooned, but I get horrible physical dysphoria and social dysphoria and the misgendering thing is purely a sexual humiliation kink. But yeah, I could never detransition because I would kill myself.

>>40573667
you are BOTH BOYS anon. you and your boyfriend are having GAY SEX

>>40577053
gay sex isnt real, that only exists in yaoi

>>40573545 (OP)
If it helps you feel better, you're not alone in this lol I'm nb and find being called "good boy" and "good girl" hot

>>40573585
NEED my bf to call me faggot while railing me soooo badly omg

>>40577368
desperately need

>>40573545 (OP)
now i wanna replay dmmd