Why do trans women take such bad care of their hair?

>>40574155 (OP)
My hair look like this cuz I poor and can't afford leave in conditioner

using products with too much glycerin/other humectants can make hair frizzy fyi

>>40574155 (OP)
Men are usually never taught to care for their hair because everyone just expects them to keep it short

>>40574155 (OP)
Hair quality is mainly determined by genetics.

>>40574155 (OP)
Fear of leave-in conditioner and not using enough heat protectant

>>40574182
this
cis girls have had decades of experience and family and friends telling them exactly what to do

>>40574182
>>40574293
Legitimately wrong
Most boomers have no idea how to take care of their hair. My mum has fried hair she ofc straightens every day with an iron and that's legitimately how she expected me to take care of my curls.
Most curly girls learn this by themselves. Because society hates curly hair.

I don't think that's true.

I will say that it takes time to learn to care for your hair, especially if it's curly or kinky textured. It took me years to get it right. It'd be unsurprising to me if that was yet another thing some trans people have to play catch-up with.

>>40574320
Curly hair is horrendous and people with it shouldn't reproduce. Every day I wake up and wish I had naturally straight hair. Frying it is genuinely a small price to pay for looking slightly more like a person

>>40574400
nta but I hope you get some therapy

>>40574168
Mine look like this WITH a conditioner

>>40574411
saying curly hair looks good is astronomical cope levels for having shitty genes

>>40574155 (OP)
peak female
idk about what you're talking, fags

>>40574155 (OP)
This is the result of dry brushing naturally curly hair

>>40574155 (OP)
lazy, broke, and getting in the shower and getting naked makes me wanna cry ;-;

>>40574155 (OP)
God, she's so beautiful.

>>40574400
Ok fryhon

Almost every white tranny ive seen irl has pretty well maintained hair - and im a massive transphobe who thinks all trans women are larping men.

>>40574400
Babes I feel you :(
I blow dry and iron when I can. Personally I like the waves I get when straightened hair is going back to being curly. But my ACTUAL curly hair reminds me of my brother.

You don’t have to FRY your hair to keep it nice and smooth tho

I use:
>Color wow supernatural spray dream coat
>IGK mistress hydrating hair balm
>Pureology color fanatic leave-in
>Aveda damage remedy
>Garnier fructis frizz tamer
>bristle brush and barrel brush
>blow dryer with a focus nozzle

>>40574155 (OP)
Because they are men.

>>40574444
>having shitty genes
more like shitty taste

>>40574155 (OP)
because i have no fucking idea how to take a good care of my hair, no one told me

>>40574155 (OP)
imagine being blessed with beautiful hair and not taking care of it I hate white trannies

>>40574400
Curly hair is pretty though and I wish I had it. Retards who fry and torture it need to seek psychiatric help.

God I tried everything with my hair and nothing seems to work, maybe just need to try heat next cuz leave in conditioner isn't doing shit, or maybe a combination of both idfk

>>40574448
Shes trans

>>40574155 (OP)
same reason they suck at makeup and accessorizing outfits. cis women learn to do this when theyre 10 and they get taught by their mom, tranners have to do it publicly in their 20s and they get taught by youtube videos.

>>40574803
Go fuck yourself no you don't, especially not 3b-3c which is what I have. Value what you have

>>40575225
Most people who say they "want" curly hair mean 2c-3a hair which is far prettier and easier to take care of

>>40574782
sorry

>>40574448
>>40574548
what happened to her ?

>>40575319
a job
something what will never happen to you

>>40575328
:( sorry

>>40574155 (OP)
I actually try to take rlly good care of my hair desu, I shampoo and condition daily. Just went to the saloon today infact. I get compliments about it and I think it's the only reason I can pass as a shoulderhon
>>40574293
It's really not that hard to learn how to properly treat your hair, talk to a hair stylist

>>40575380
I tried, her advice was just
>idk maybe try that curly girl method thing my daughter talked about
I have ridiculously thick, dry, slightly wavy hair
I'll keep trying new things but the hard thing is finding advice from someone who has the same hair type as you

>>40574803
>>40574576
get japanese permanent hair straightening. you only have to redo it every 6-9 months, and also it looks natural a few days/months after its done. also, since you have curly hair, you have the advantage of having curly outgrown volume on top of your head to compliment the straight hair, making your hair look thicker. just hope you have a facial structure that compliments straight hair

>>40575267
This. I have beautiful 2c-3a hair with minimal maintenance and strangers compliment me on it. Just shampoo and conditioner and then brush style when it’s wet and it looks good.
tighter curl patterns are nigger shit.
>>40575225
lol you got stuck with hair that looks like rolled up dogturds. I’m going to take this moment to feel superior to you and laugh at you.

>>40577021
Did a Japanese straighting like 3 years ago just because I wanted less maintenance but honestly I didn’t like how much less volume I got vs just spending time blowing out my hair straight.

>>40574155 (OP)
ive been depressed my whole life and never learned how to maintain self care routines

There should be a "How to be a women for dummys" book

>>40577527
YOU ARE SO... Oh my god there's maybe 200,000 vids on youtube and magazines, and all sorts of shit. LAZY

You're not doing makeup or hair for fun? lazy

>>40577485
>Did a Japanese straighting like 3 years ago just because I wanted less maintenance but honestly I didn’t like how much less volume I got vs just spending time blowing out my hair straight.
you probably have thin hair/less follicles then, or it didnt work well on your face. i could never blowdry my hair even remotely straight unless i went to a professional. either my hair is so dense and numerous i cant blowdry it, or you dont have hair as curly as mine.

I dont
I try hard my hair routine and skin care every morning and night
This is my daily stuff

I shower daily, shampoo three times a Week and conditioner daily.
At night always.
I use moroccan oil along with leave on conditioner and tree oil

I also use a bonnet to sleep.

Skin care is insane for me as i use
Toner
And serum
Along with vaseline moisturizer face masks and sunscreen.

I used to use tretenoin as well.

>>40577543
i used to be really interested in hair styling but my skull is so masculine that i just end up looking like a founding father so i don't do it because i don't like feeling like a rapehon

>>40577616
it's way more rapehon to have a nest on your head, dear

>>40578358
im just an idiot and i feel like i need cis approval and whenever i get cis approval i feel like they're just having pity on me and don't mean it. i do take some care of my hair it's not a birds nest but i do just wear it down with a middle part and do nothing else with it even though i want to

>>40577561
We should make a shelfie thread would be fun to see what everyone uses.

>>40577558
I’ve been blowing out my hair straight since I was 15 so I’ve just learned how to do it, helps that my mum was a beautician. I have dense, fine hair tho.