What happened to Bigen? and I can't see any in the archive

this can be the general, as long as thats fine by you

Qott 1: what happened to the old general?
Qott 2: are we ok?

did litcherally all the bisexuals die at once or something

transgenders destroyed it

Trump got rid of it or something

>>40597227
they can destroy me if you are picking up what im putting down

>>40596969 (OP)
>qott1
think somebody tried to do a combo gen with an ai pic again? Idk could’ve sworn I saw it like an hour ago
>qott2
No <3

>>40596969 (OP)
HOLY SHIT TRANNIES LOOK LIKE THAT?

>>40597332
no thats just some girl, i dont think shes trans i just pulled a picture from my deep cavernous folders

>>40597278
>think somebody tried to do a combo gen with an ai pic again?
yeah i know, why would that get it deleted though

she has a really nice body and face but the tattoos are just no

>>40597704
i think tattoos are sexy and i'm tired of pretending they're not

>>40596969 (OP)
I feel like this woman would have no hobbies.

In other news I have been having more anal sex recently and I really enjoy it. The other night my guyfriend was plowing me so good I was moaning and screaming, "fuck me harder baby" and all that. The next morning I realized the couch we fucked on is right by the window, my windows were open, and my entire apartment complex could probably hear me. If they didn't already know I was half flamer they do now.

>>40596969 (OP)
>qott 1 :
Didn't it simply die ? It had been up for some time I think ?
>qott 2 :
No, feeling like shit but whatever I guess, life keeps going

>>40598116
>Didn't it simply die
not in the archive, therefore it was beleted

>>40598207
That's weird then, I have no clue

i act like im an alluring sex kitten that everyone wants to fuck but the truth is that the only men who would willingly be seen out in public with me are fat men addicted to discord with pube beards that have nothing to lose

>>40598410
Who's that in the pic?

>>40598426
thats charli xcx look her up!

>>40598410
>the only men who would willingly be seen out in public with me are fat men addicted to discord with pube beards that have nothing to lose
Yeah so I'm calling cap on that one
t. man that's neither fat or addicted to discord and would actually love to be seen with you in public

>>40598463
I've heard of her but never seen, she's a sex kitten

I finally sacked up and made some dating app profiles, only to be disappointed by a vast field of normies.
Where are all my weirdos at? Duolicious is dead, there are literally six people on it in my city and none have responded to me so far.

>>40599459
Swipe left on most of them. I think I had a 10-20% swipe right rate and even then that was generous.

>>40597718
They are but you just know that chick is rotten
>>40598045
based

>>40599533
>10-20% swipe right rate
Man I don't even think I'm hitting 5%

>>40599591
I thought you were being ridiculous but looking at the photo again, the fact that she's in front of a lambo is a bad sign so probably not a good person.

>qott2
going fucking BPD insane over this hot t.roon ftm ghosting me and me the cope queen cried and begged them to love me while getting back in contact with hun ex gf and starting to fall back in love while still in a happy relationship with boytoy bf

Do yall niggas even like men

>>40600648
they cute

>>40600631
them...

>>40600648
ofc I do, I'm bisexual you gentle retard...

>>40600648
Well yes

>>40599619
That's fine too. Most profiles are bad. My 10-20% was on Bumble where people put in slightly more effort (at least locally) than Tinder.

My parents are visiting again and I just want to draw more of my hentai Manga. Idk why I am working in reverse from the actual sex scenes. I'm going sex to foreplay to setup. Setup will be the hardest backgrounds and skill wise. Sex scenes you don't need mush background and resources are infinite.
>>40597093
North Americans mostly. A lot of people disappear on weekends.
>>40598410
Anymore, when you have posted yourself, you look like my first ex.

>>40596969 (OP)
>qott
Users aren't terminally online enough and the ones that are use different generals more.
I have never been ok. If you cope smile all the time people think you are extremely mad when you look serious.

>>40597397
No clue it seemed kind of tame and inoffensive. Maybe jannies don’t want crossover gens? Or maybe the OP was schizoing elsewhere? Idk
>>40598045
Cute and based, we love to see it
>>40598410
Might be that theyre the only ones bold or socially unaware enough to take contact?
I’ve dipped my toes into the sex kitten act and over the years it has taught me that giving off the vibe of being highly desirable means having to be more up front about wanting to get with the people you want to get with, because a lot of them start thinking you’re too popular for them to have a chance.

I have a sneaking this one lesbian I know hates bi people but I don't have the evidence to prove it.

>>40600648
I like very fem bottoms i feel like a faker here

>>40598410
>fat men addicted to discord with pube beards that have nothing to lose
Hey that's me

Anons would you date someone with adhd? I feel like I’d make a terrible partner simply because I’m such an airhead but I’m hoping I’m wrong

>>40600648
Yeah I have a crush on a guy I know who's in a local band. I think he's into me too but we both have gfs lol

>>40603344
I have adhd and it hasn't stopped me from dating. I manage it reasonably well by writing shit down and having routine habits. My life's kinda like a much more boring version of Memento.
But I dunno if I could date someone ELSE with adhd, that may be too much lol. Gotta find compatible mental illnesses.

>>40603362
I do occasionally get accused of "weaponized incompetence" until people realize I do actually just forget everything when I walk from one room to another.

>>40603369
I forgot to snuff out my scented candle when I went out with roomates. Thank god nothing burnt but now I’m banned from using candles in the house (I think this is very reasonable) I just know a SO would dump me over that lol. Hate my chungus brain

>>40603390
Yeah candles are not something I'd ever use lol. But you wouldn't actually get dumped over this. Everyone's got problems.

>>40603420
Thanks for the support anon

>>40600648
Fem and flamer men yes

>>40603344
You know how many have adhd and autism on here...
>>40603369
>weaponized incompetence
I thought that was just an internet thing.

>>40600648
men are seen as undesirable It seems

>>40603546
I've thought a lot about this and I think it's basically a warping of the fact that culturally women have to take care of their looks as a life imperative and men can opt in or out. Even someone perfectly 50:50 bisexual will still end up finding more women than men attractive because women just take better care of themselves on average than men do.

Dear bottoms I matched with a guy whos a dry texter but he still responds I just want to know what yall wanna hear desu. I talked to him about hobbies and interests its hard to get more than a sentence.

>>40603248
>Might be that theyre the only ones bold or socially unaware enough to take contact?
maybe but i have the fact that im a trans woman in my bio so i also think that a lot of the hot well adjusted guys would rather pick a cis woman regardless of how attractive i am bc its “easier” and he wants kids someday
>I’ve dipped my toes into the sex kitten act and over the years it has taught me that giving off the vibe of being highly desirable means having to be more up front about wanting to get with the people you want to get with, because a lot of them start thinking you’re too popular for them to have a chance.
ehhhh idk i always feel like im very much giving drunken failgirl (think dee reynolds but more submissive) at the function bc i consume considerable amounts of alcohol whenever im out in order to gain the confidence that i need to be sociable
i (drunkenly) asked a guy to dance with me the other night and he told me he was in a relationship and i just made it so awkward between the two of us shit felt like a humiliation ritual idg how ppl met before dating apps
im also a bit clocky and twinkhon-esque irl too so guys seldom approach me unless they “couldnt tell”
>>40603299
plz dont talk to me anymore before i sue you for sexual harassment for breathing the same air as i do.
>>40598510
>t. man that's neither fat or addicted to discord and would actually love to be seen with you in public
u didnt deny the pubic facial hair part….. curious!

>>40603152
>Anymore, when you have posted yourself, you look like my first ex.
did she have a penis too???

>>40603639
Try voice calling him maybe he just awkward with texting

>>40603566
I was more thinking of
>women not wanting men because political differences
>men not wanting men because ostracization of getting assfuck

>>40603845
No. They were cis then and ftm now. I'm referring to back then, don't get confused.
>>40603960
The second one. Personally in my life my interest in women is lower than men just because of emotional availability.

>>40603878
Probably theres definetly a mutual attraction and we onyl talked a frw days I dont wanna push to hard but Ill present the idea

>>40603830
>hot well adjusted guys would rather pick a cis woman regardless
Yeahhh losing some on that is probably unavoidable, sadly. Most people kind of center their entire life around having kids, so you kind of have to look hard to find ones who don’t.
Sometimes it’s also kind of surprising who doesn’t though, and theres a lot of them who dont really talk about it much due to social conformity and all, so it can be harder to clock them than you’d think. I’ve found that somewhat insecure normie looking guys who care about fitness due to a past of moderate childhood obesity are weirdly over represented here in Europe, however.
>Dee Reynolds but more submissive
Kinda based of you ngl, but I get how it can suck and turn awkward as hell. One time I (also drunkenly) stepped so hard on a guy I liked’s foot we ended up having to take his shoes off to check whether he should go to the doctor with it or not. Still makes me cringe
think the best way to stop it from escalating is faking enough confidence to shake it off and moving along as quickly as possibly after briefly addressing it directly, but thats easier said than done

>>40596969 (OP)
lady in pic rel is transition goals

every bisexual:
>please any girl please just take me I am so desperate
>ermmmmm only when the sun and moon align with the Earth’s perfect male, I will be attracted
Men doing this is understandable, but I just roll my eyes whenever a tranny or oerformative cissy says this

>>40604996
>oerformative cissy
What does this mean?

>>40605355
You know the fake bisexual girls who will just end up with a man in the end
I wish they were honest about being androphilic-leaning because they will say misandrist things and terrorize true lesbians just because. Total fakebi death

>>40603830
>u didnt deny the pubic facial hair part….. curious!
literally didn't see it kek
but I have very little body hair, so my facial hair is bound to look like shit which is why I shave it

>>40606116
>but I have very little body hair, so my facial hair is bound to look like shit which is why I shave
i figured as such lol im just kidding :3
>Most people kind of center their entire life around having kids, so you kind of have to look hard to find ones who don’t.
ugh :/ i plan on fostering/adopting someday when im financially/mentally/emotionally stable but apparently it doesnt count bc they wanna carry on “their legacy” which imo is completely selfish
> I’ve found that somewhat insecure normie looking guys who care about fitness due to a past of moderate childhood obesity are weirdly over represented here in Europe, however
theyre not so common here i fear :pensive: usually they already have girlfriends or arent interested in me for obvious reasons
id like to go out with a bi dude bc of shared common ground (altho were still wildly different obviously) but a lot of the bi guys near me are of the schlubby discord addicted “i like cis women and femboys” variety
maybe it seems shallow but i want a partner im attracted to on all counts yknow
>Kinda based of you ngl, but I get how it can suck and turn awkward as hell.
unfortunately not a lot of guys are attracted to that from what ive seen… le sigh
maybe if i were born with a pussy it would be different
> the best way to stop it from escalating is faking enough confidence to shake it off and moving along as quickly as possibly after briefly addressing it directly, but thats easier said than done
thats where the liquid courage comes in (in my experience at least)

>>40607275
>carry on “their legacy”
yeah, even if they don’t like children or have inheritable illnesses and things like that. always makes me cringe so hard. Like. How much of a “legacy” is it that you work a normal job and pump out the expected amount of children? Feels kind of delusional to think that’s special enough to warrant that level of priority
>maybe it seems shallow but i want a partner im attracted to on all counts yknow
Idk, maybe it is to some extent, but I think physical attraction and sexual chemistry is kind of a necessity in order for relationships to last long term. Going out with someone who puts less effort into hygiene and dressing well and all of that feels like an uneven exchange if you put in a lot of effort yourself, and a lot of the time it also means your effort wont be appreciated or understood as much imo . You have to be within the same range for it to work and make each other feel sexy, I feel

>>40608002
>yeah, even if they don’t like children or have inheritable illnesses and things like that
exactly like mental illness and addiction runs in my family so i could never willingly pass that down to another child if i wanted to start a family so bad id just foster and even adopt (as long as theres a partner in the picture)
>You have to be within the same range for it to work and make each other feel sexy, I feel
u get it 100% like i have spent thousands of dollars risked being disowned by my family and friends and experiencing discrimination etc etc just in order to feel comfortable in my own skin and im supposed to settle for less just bc of the fact that i was born male and i cant/dont want to reproduce the way im “supposed to”/want to? sorry but i refuse!

>>40603482
>I thought that was just an internet thing.
I dunno if they actually said "weaponized incompetence", just how I communicated it here.

Anons, I’m doing this just cause I wanna feel better about myself in a blatantly hedonistic way, is having a 6 pack a big plus?

I’m getting there any ngl it feels pretty nice

>>40608304
It's pretty fantastic having a six-pack.

>>40608311
I’m going full on tease now: you’d be into that if the dude you hooked up with had a 6 pack? (Yes I am bragging and it feels good)

>>40608304
Yes, and anyone who disagrees is lying. Other people who also are physically active especially know how difficult it is to get a 6 pack. Being in shape in general makes you more attractive not just physically, but also personality wise because it shows that you have discipline and work ethic.

>>40608430
Thx anon

>>40608304
yes but be sure to still have some bf% hanging on girls like the “dad bod” (myself included)

>>40608484
With all due respect anon: fuck that. I’m doing this for me. Maybe it’s toxic but it feels amazing to see my love handles melt away. I don’t want that on me

>>40608426
Yes. I like to feel up chests, arms, abs on men.

Today I learned that the food court anime this season was made by an ftm who was a bl mangaka. Do whatever with that info.
>>40608304
I'm jealous of it.
>>40608430
I wish I never had to eat food period, why does protein anything make you go to the bathroom so often. I have to take 30min breaks to shit a brick frequently.

>>40608604
:)

>>40609143
You can get there too anon I believe in you! It’s taken a good 4 years of consistent diet and exercise but it’s worth it!

What does butthole smell like? I have only ever fucked girls.

>>40610270
Girls have buttholes too, anon. I'm sorry you had to find out like this.
To answer your question, doesn't really smell like anything if it's clean.

>>40599459
I've looked around a little and Boo appears to be promising on this front.
At the very least, it's nowhere near as expensive as the larger options if you fold and give them shekels (which I have so far avoided).

>>40610270
if the person is worth fucking itll smell like nothing

>>40604206
also ask him on a date asap. I'm kinda like that (dry texter, not a bottom or fem) and it took forever to figure out the best thing for me is to just hang out often and in short bursts when I don't have time for a full date. just using text to plan walks in the park or getting a single beer after work (and making it explicit these hangouts won't last long not because I'm not interested but because I have work tomorrow).

ffuuuuck toothache
it's close to 3am
need to go to the dentist tomorrow
can't sleep

Bump

>pulled a lat at the gym last night
>bf sucks my dick to make me feel better

>>40609441
My current issue is that I over eat one day and it ruins my potential weight loss and it ends up as. 5-1lb per week instead of 4lb

>>40604996
Glad it’s ok when I do it

>>40596969 (OP)
>qott2
When I started learning to drive I was amazed people don't kill each other constantly, it feels like walking a suicidal tightrope every day to get to work.
Now I am dealing with bureaucrats and I realize the cars are amateur hour. That people aren't flaying bureaucrats daily is nothing short of a miracle.

>>40614495
People lack the awareness that everyone isn't as suicidal as they seem but are just taking calculated risks within the means they can keep going. Driving seems like what motorcycling is to a lot of younger people now, I blame media and the dmv for making it as if everyone on the road is black out drunk, they are more like lightly buzzed.

Retarded discord text channel dealt the final blow to this general
Retards

>>40614495
People in cars are all more or less equal. They can all kill each other but want to stay alive.
Bureaucrats are casually committing violence against actual humans with the stroke of a pen.

>>40596969 (OP)
>Bi
>Implying this girl isn't just a broken Stacy

>>40598410
>Greasy with bad fashion sense
This is just the default feminist college girl looks now.>>40600648
It's not in vogue to be str8 anymore.

>>40616156
what the fuck are you talking about
this is a general, the pic isnt expected to be related unless its explicitly noted

also touch grass

>>40616156
Black pilled manosphere shit is soooo 2018 gorg

>>40608157
>i could never willingly pass that down to another child
Real, I can’t imagine going through life having a bad time and then deciding “hmm, yeah, actually I think I want to curse another innocent creature to go through that :)”. I’m aware there’s a biological drive and societal pressure to procreate and all, but, you know, c’mon… it’s not like it’s illegal to think of the consequences of it.
>im supposed to settle for less
>sorry but i refuse!
I feel like a lot of the people yelling the loudest about wanting others to “lower their standards” are the exact same people who’d never lower their own/the exact same people who think theyre better for putting in 0 effort themselves. But I’m probably biased for growing up among judgemental Protestant small town people who wanted to burn me at a stake for being bi and giving a fuck

>>40598410
Post pic

>>40616503
ok!
https://unsee ( DOT ) cc/album#pr2zAhJfir9l

>>40617084
Wow can I borrow a cig (I’m hot)

>>40617084
cute

>>40598045
Once it clicks, bottoming is magical. Kinda rules out a woman as a long-term partner, at least for me; after a while I'd need that feeling again. Glad you're enjoying yourself, anon.

>>40600648
Attraction to both sexes doesn't have to manifest in the same way; one might be attracted to women instantly for whatever aesthetic reason but indifferent to men until they get to know them and find them more or less attractive based on that. Still, it's a bit depressing how many people are bi for cock but not more than that... if that's how you're built, I'm in no shape to judge, but you're missing out. A man might be hot for any number of reasons, and some take a little time to reveal themselves, especially since so many men put minimal thought into how they might be perceived by others.

>>40603344
aren't we statistically more mentally ill even than the gays? My bf has learned to live with my adhd and 'tism and I've come to navigate his bipolar, and we're probably on the more put-together end of our demographic. There's definitely someone for you!

>>40604848
>Most people kind of center their entire life around having kids, so you kind of have to look hard to find ones who don’t
I love my friends but they're mostly straight and conservative; so far that hasn't been a problem but we're in our early 30s now and it's only a matter of time before wives and kids take over their lives. Any way I can prepare for that? I know a few fellow queers I can talk to openly, but they're not easy to find.

>>40608304
I tell myself and the world I work out to stay healthy, but lately I'm not above admiring myself in the mirror. It's work I have the time for and enjoy doing so a nice physique is just a welcome bonus I guess.
Do you do anything besides lift?

>>40610270
heaven

>>40608304
>tfw i'm bulking because it's too hot to run so my abs are less visible
Not too miffed though I'm gonna get my 3x5 2 plate bench this year. Just did 3x5 205 lbs for the first time and it was easy.

>>40617309
>Any way I can prepare for that?
Mentally I think the number one thing to drill into your own head is that when they choose wives and kids over hanging out with you, over and over, that does not equate to no longer wanting to be your friend.
But another thing to remember is that them wanting to be your friend doesn’t mean having to ignore not being prioritised.
You don’t have to prioritise seeing them, or clear up your calendar to accommodate theirs, if it feels like you’re the only one working for it. It may not be out of ill will but it will still feel bad all the same, and you kind of do need to see them in order to maintain what you have, you know?
Even if it’s just for fifteen minutes having a beer over discord every other Tuesday, it’s important that it happens, and that it is a reoccurring thing with mutual interest and investment.
If it doesn’t happen you can always try and reach out and arrange something new, but after enough time it’s like meeting up with a stranger. Which is doable, but… Yeah.

Most of my friends are late-twenties to early thirties and for the ones with kids I’ve already parked them in a low priority mental spot called “maybe in five years”. It is what it is

can someone post an invite to the games discord server
all the previous links are dead ;_;

>>40612278
Date has been setup and we sent each other nudes and he is horny horny apprently hes just a dry texter once we added each other on snap it was like the flood gates opened lol hes already talking about gripping my dick during the movie if I dont pay attention Im gonna wreck his tight asshole

>>40618360
Nice. I actually think this is a big problem with online dating, sometimes people are dry in one form of communication but not in another.

We’re all gonna make it anons. We’re all gonna find love and lead happy and healthy lives

Be me, think im bisexual but only date girls
Decide I want to try being gay fr, download grindr
Have some shit experiences, but really want a bf
Match with a cutie on a different app, afab enby
>not really that gay, or a bf
We date, they come out as trans and start testosterone.
We go to gay bars all the time
Feel like im a gay boy
>except
Lately it just feels like im straight with extra steps. I love my boyfriend, but im craving cock. I want to suck a dick. I want to be topped. Tboy clitdick is fun but not really scratching the gay itch for me.
Wtf do?

>>40618865

I was told to take this here
so im a (cis)guy and I have a friend and we were kinda like soft friend with benefits I guess is a way to put it, like we would cuddle and hold hands and she even asked to kiss and gave me head at one point, anyways I have an actual girlfriend now so I tell her I cant do that kinda stuff anymore with her anymore and she tells me its ok shes gay anyway, am I crazy wouldn't having at least some interest in guys make her bi?

Sometimes I get upset with music threads in this board because it seems like the same few albums are all anyone talks about. I have been on a music kick since I hate Spotify and I'd rather spend money and pirate to build up a set list. But I look around and people rec the same shit.

>>40621737
The younger zoomers calling bisexual lesbianism now. It have talked to multiple people and half are brain worms the other are that label for lesbian aesthetics(it doesn't work in the opposit).

>>40599459
I just know I'm in for massive amounts of disappointment if I ever try to put myself out there. I am way too ugly and weird (male here)

>>40596969 (OP)
The B is no more. Bi women are getting transferred to the straights. Bi men are getting transferred to the gays
>Rule of COCK

>>40619643
ask your bf how they feel about bringing in a third

>>40619643
>>40623606
My two cents - you always want what you can't have, at least a little bit. It's the same for everyone gay straight or bi. If you love them and they're worth it, prioritize commitment over "grass is greener" impulses.
>>40622302
Homos still seething

>>40617673
Your kid-having friends are dying to see you, it just gets so fucking busy and complicated

>>40596969 (OP)
i hate girls like this with an irrational passion
you can tell all she has to do is spread her legs every so often and gets everything she wants from some rich guy (who owns the car)
enraging fr

I haven't posted on here in a while. I'm not doing well at the moment guys and I know you don't really care one way or another but I'm scared. I've got (what I hope is) bad Transgender OCD. I'm 26 now, still a virgin (I don't have it in me to really find a partner when I feel this damaged) and I've lost about 5 years to this theme. I don't want to be trans but I'm so worried my brain is going to force it upon me. As a kid I was perfectly happy being a boy and I have never been more miserable ever since having these thoughts enter my mind.

I think my primary sticking point is that I'm a filthy bondage fetishist and I have jerked off to plenty of bondage erotica with submissive men and submissive women. I'm terrified that every time I read femdom stuff and get off to it I am actually enjoying it because I want to be a dominant woman.

Idk even know what I'm trying to say. Do you guys get aroused by sexual scenarios that you don't actually see yourself in?

I'm so fucked guys...I have been in a mental prison for five years. I want to be free and be a man (I hope).

>>40623856
>Do you guys get aroused by sexual scenarios that you don't actually see yourself in?
Yes, all the time. Pretty normal to jerk off to stuff that you don't necessarily want to do IRL.

I'm not a mental health professional, but I know for sure that repressing a desire for something just makes it stronger.

>>40623892
So you think I sound Trans?

I really hope I'm not repressing, that's like my worst fear, that I am this Dysphoric AGP that will trans out, essentially annihilate his former self and ruin his life.

>>40623909
>So you think I sound Trans?
No, quite the opposite. I think you are psyching yourself into that because you are trying so hard to repress your sexual preferences or whatever. I seriously doubt you are trans, but obsessing over it (which, assuming you have actual OCD, obviously isn't easy to control) just turns it into a vicious circle where you punish yourself for your thoughts, which makes you feel worse, which makes you punish yourself more etc.

>>40623955
Thanks anon.

It really does drive me around the bend. You're absolutely right, it is a vicious cycle. I think I get depressed and stressed about these obsessions and then I jerk off but I always feel worse afterwards. I feel disgusted with myself after the fact in a "wtf did I just fap to" kind of way. Alot of these stories are really extreme and involve gross shit like forced enemas and I feel worried I've permeantly fucked up my sex drive. I'd just like to feel good about myself, my identity and have a normal relationship...

>>40624021
Sounds like you should speak to an actual professional then, if you don't already. Ultimately good advice (if I do say so myself) on the internet is hardly enough to fix your problems.

>>40624047
I am seeking out new psychiatric help and new meds. Apparently I am due to try new some new drugs...

>>40597093
I've been working a lot lately and just generally been busy

mama mia

>>40623685
Yeah, I know anon, I don’t really hold any resentment towards them or anything, it just is what it is. Life and the limitations of time and space and all of that.
That said some of them do change to the point of incompatibility and I think that is an important thing to remember. Whether the incompatibility lasts is a different question, but making peace with the fact that it exists for the time being can be vital to preventing conflict or one-sided anger.

>>40603254
>lesbian
there's your proof

>>40625359
MADONE!

>>40625430
Yeah. Lesbian who's volcanically seething that bi women exist because she thinks every chick needs to dyke out if it's an option is a surprisingly common archetype.

>>40623856
>I'm a filthy bondage fetishist
Nothing filthy about it.
>I'm terrified that every time I read femdom stuff and get off to it I am actually enjoying it because I want to be a dominant woman.
Do you feel uncomfortable if a male is dominant? Is it too rough or can you not relate because you are internalizing a wolf in sheep's clothing/predatory mentality around masc dominants?
>Do you guys get aroused by sexual scenarios that you don't actually see yourself in?
Some futa stuff and some fem masochism stuff, it is extremely specific for what hits though. The vibes have to be right.

>>40626191
I can enjoy fiction of a masculine dominant dominating a woman or a man. I feel as though the dominants gender doesn't matter that much as I'm more into reading descriptions of bondage and helplessness. I mentioned before I've read stories with forced enemas, I'm 100% not into that or scat or anything, I kind of just gloss over those bits and jerk off to a cute guy (or girl) in bondage.

I guess my fear stems from the fact that I would like to dominate someone but if I have found femdom stuff arousing it must mean I am self inserting as a woman. Tbh, I feel I don't really self insert at all. I sometimes try and force my own features into a mental fantasy but it's hard. Then the fact I find it hard makes me think I have Dysphoria or something.

I almost wish I was an entirely asexual being at this point as I think my sexuality and fetishes just add no end of fuel to fire of my mental compulsions. I just wish I could go back to not thinking about any of this shit ..

>>40626553
>I'm more into reading descriptions of bondage and helplessness
It is like good foreplay honestly.
>I feel I don't really self insert at all. I sometimes try and force my own features into a mental fantasy but it's hard. Then the fact I find it hard makes me think I have Dysphoria or something.
Probably some form of hangup in there
>I almost wish I was an entirely asexual being at this point as I think my sexuality and fetishes just add no end of fuel to fire of my mental compulsions. I just wish I could go back to not thinking about any of this shit ..
I've been changing my routine to fix myself from that, it kinda works. Also try meditation when horny feeling are fueled by depression.

At 27 am I too old to enter my man whore era? Got out of a long term thing and am not gonna be up for anything serious for a long time. Do wanna get married and have kids eventually but not close to that point in my life. I had fun in college but my crazy post college years were cut off by Covid and then was taken from 2022 till last month. Thoughts?

>>40626881
Not too old at all.
I'm a bit older than you, in 2023 I slept with a dozen women and half a dozen men. Now I'm engaged lol

>>40626952
Based. Much love anon

>>40626958
Thanks! Enjoy!

I'm a 34 year old virgin who's never dated. I have 0 hope for the future and think about suicide constantly

>>40627237
BIG HUG ANON. We believe in you to create your own happiness

>>40612656
Just got a root canal, getting a crown tomorrow morning.

Someone on hinge called me cute for the first time in my adult life

>>40630195
thats nice, good for u

>>40630195
damn u must be chopped if thats ur first time being called cute

>>40630195
Nice, apps are brutal take the W
>>40631264
Wtf is this chopped shit man did this meme come out like today

>>40596969 (OP)
shes beautiful

>>40631290
its the new 'cooked'

zoomers are brain damaged

>MOVIE NIGHT
MOVIE NIGHT
>MOVIE NIGHT
MOVIE NIGHT

A reminder that tomorrow at 21 GMT we will vote for the next two movies for Movie Night! If you want you can also give your recommendation by replying to this post

>what the hell is "movie night"
its a special night where bigen comes together to watch on Discord two movies chosen by the community

>when will movie night take place?
its FRIDAY at 22 gmt

>where do we watch the movies?
on the Bigen Movie and Game Night Discord server:
https://discord.gg/CkB2mtte

>i don't usually post on bigen/never took part in movie night, can i join?
Of course, movie night is open to anyone, just remember to mute yourself during the movies, be civil and have fun!

fyi: this is the list of every movie we watched so far:
https://pastebin.com/Bc8pqK9h

>>40631264
The only times I have been complemented on my looks outside of family and family friends was at an anime con in cosplay and the times I cross dress posted in here. I never was called cute or handsome before 22...

>>40626591
Thanks for the advice.

Wdyt I could be hung up on? I wish I really had good self image. I think if someone thought I was attractive (and I believed them) I would probably be happy that I was wanted or found attractive.

I guess I am just a pile of mental illnesses :(

>>40632794
Random stranger with woo-woo advice but seconding meditation and also self acceptance. Maybe you've been fighting and suppressing your sexual and feminine sides. Sit quietly with them non-judgmentally instead and see what happens. Maybe they just need a hug and to be reintegrated.

>>40633121

I don't want to be feminine. I'm ok with being like, not uber manly but I think that I am a male at my core and I want to be ok with that again. It feels like it's been ripped away from me.

>>40632794
>I wish I really had good self image.
Relatable. Do you see it as something that prevents connection? Or you could be someone that relates self image on gender and see the opposite as being more accepting.
>>40633199
I kinda blame stuff like the "gender war" and lack of connections making it feel like masculinity is unwanted at any capacity from an outlook. Still meditation helps cool your head and not worry as much on some details. The re valuation from meditation can help you with figuring out where you are with yourself. At least it does for me.

>>40632794
>I think if someone thought I was attractive (and I believed them) I would probably be happy that I was wanted or found attractive.
Also you don't understand how often I hear this. I think physical/social
bdd is becoming increasingly the norm. I got my own problems with it, and the guy I like, and my best friend from my home town, and my discord friends.

>>40633199
The point is to stop suppressing natural parts of your spirit and to see if there’s anything that you’ve been hiding from yourself. If it’s your masculine side that you’re fighting, meditate with it. Try both.

>>40633513
Do you think I sound like a repressing trans person?

>>40633373
Idk I think I look kinda average. I'd like to chat to you more if you have a discord or something, you seem nice :3

>>40633373
Also I absolutely agree that the gender war has totally fucked me. I feel subliminally messaged all the time that men are evil, worthless, ugly, violent and less deserving of affection than women. I've always gotten on better with men and only recently have I made female friends.

The other thing that freaks me out is the sheer number of people in communities im in who seem to transition MtF and it almost comes across that they are trying to escape masculinity or something. I'll admit I'm not super masculine, and I'll also admit I probably put too much stock in gender stuff when I should just not care about it, but I feel worried that a core part of me is just going to somehow change against my will. Like all these people transitioning are a sign I'm next...

>>40633639
>Do you think I sound like a repressing trans person?
I can't tell one way or another. Everyone has masculine and feminine sides and being bi is complicated.

I am curious if other people here:

a) thought they were straight at first but realised they were bi later
b) thought they were gay at first but realised they were bi later
c) always knew they were bi

I've spoken to many bi guys who are in group a but I don't know if many here are in group b like me. I convinced myself I only liked girls in a 'yass girl' kind of way until I was like 21 and was like oh shit I am actually attracted to girls too.

>>40634044
I was also in the b category but the span was maybe only a year. It’s comp homo for guys. Assumed gay until proven bi.

>>40631264
I didn't start trying to date people or actively talk to strangers before last week

>>40634044
I'm A. Thought I was straight first
But it's kinda silly because I was trying to kiss both girls and boys by the time I was like 6. So any outside observer would know C. I was obviously bi from the start.

>>40634044
I am surprised that the b type even exists to be honest.

I think I bi-cycled so far into homo-land that I don't remember how to be attracted to women

Came out to my siblings today
They didn't give a single shit as expected
My retarded ass holding shame for so long over nothing

>>40635037
I wouldn’t be surprised if it’s less common now. Bis had even less visibility back then than now.

>>40633639
My discord too is Layrinn.
>>40633754
>sheer number of people in communities im in who seem to transition MtF
You get used to it, that and repers. Consider >>40633822 is also true. There is a lot of not entirely evident features making things complicated.

>>40634044
Option D
Thought I was straight, had a long moment of being scared I was gay, realized I was bi after all.

>>40634044
My understanding of my own sexuality went like
>small child, think everyone can be attracted to anyone, have boyfriends and girlfriends that I kiss but dont know the word bi because I think this is normal
>slightly larger child, realise this is not normal. Instantly opt for repression, but think I might be gay because thats what I’m seeing the most about in media. Think I’ll magically change sex during puberty and things will be normal again
>repress until 15
>eventually figure out that me liking everyone isn’t “just a phase” that will result in homosexuality
>be bi like I always was but finally understand

>>40634044
none of the above, I was always attracted to non gender conforming people and almost never straight or gay presenting ones aside from some vague crushes

>>40634044
Very much a B, unfortunately. Things would be so much easier if I'd just "stayed" gay.

>MOVIE NIGHT
MOVIE NIGHT
>MOVIE NIGHT
MOVIE NIGHT

A reminder that at 21 GMT we will choose the next 2 movies for movie night!
You can give your recommendation now by replying to this post

>what the hell is "movie night"
its a special night where bigen comes together to watch on Discord two movies chosen by the community

>when will movie night take place?
its FRIDAY at 22 gmt

>where do we watch the movies?
on the Bigen Movie and Game Night Discord server:
https://discord.gg/CkB2mtte

>i don't usually post on bigen/never took part in movie night, can i join?
Of course, movie night is open to anyone, just remember to mute yourself during the movies, be civil and have fun!

fyi: this is the list of every movie we watched so far:
https://pastebin.com/Bc8pqK9h

>>40634069
For me it was years. I think I accepted myself as gay at 13 and I remember being 21 and watching a Ariana Grande video of all things (lol) and realising I actually wanted to fuck her rather than just thinking 'slay' or whatever, then thinking back and loads of other experiences with girls finally making sense. I think you're right about 'comp homo' though, because no matter how many times you told someone something they'd just think you're gay until they actually see you with a girl.

>>40638375
Same, when I was the 'gay guy' in a group of girl friends at college and I worried about telling them I was bi and then I mentioned and they didn't seem to care at all. Months later I was dating a girl and then suddenly we started drifting apart and never hung out any more. I know you shouldn't care about people who won't accept you over something like that, but it did still suck. I think it's funny because unlike with men, I am pickier with women and let me tell you I would not have been struggling to hold back from most of the girls in that group lol

>>40604996
I was more attracted to men before trooning out but my main issue was a lot of men were quite mediocre. And then the guys I would like were straight.
Also just working blue collar has given me a distrust of men, for as much as im into freakshit (like Warhound awoke something in me type freak) they just seem to want to purely abuse their partners.
I think men struggle with a level of tenderness that I also want.

>>40600648
yes, i have a bf after all

>MOVIE NIGHT
MOVIE NIGHT
>MOVIE NIGHT
MOVIE NIGHT

The poll is now open, no further recommendations will be accepted.
The voting will stop tomorrow at around 4 PM GMT, so be sure to vote before then!

Here is the link to the server:
https://discord.gg/CkB2mtte

>>40636277
Be ready for them to give you shit over having twice the options and STILL not getting laid

>>40596969 (OP)
That girl looks vapid and boring.

>>40634044
Definitely A
>at 13, ratty friends introduce me to a new boy who skates
>wow he looks like very tomboyish girl, if he were a girl I'd def have a crush
>wow his names Emily haha that's weird
I hung out with Emily like 3 times before realizing she really was a girl and my crush on her was ok
>other friend is a pushover, mildly bully him from time to time because he not only lets me get away with it but seems to love it
>he tells me he's been questioning his sexuality and he feels like he might be gay
>goodforyouman.jpg
>in addition to the mild bullying, start headpatting him sometimes, ruffling his hair
>he not only allows this but requests it occasionally all the way through high school
I didn't find him cute so much as demeanor tbdesu
I made it through both of these experiences still calling myself 100% straight

do i belong here if im AGAMP

i have masturbated to straight pornography in the past
i currently masturbate to either gay femme guys or trans women
i feel like im lowkey transphobic tho bc i dont feel like i masturbate to trans women in a straight way. it's this weird agamp/lesbian (but im not a girl yet) type way, idk.

dont ask who do i fuck irl im a fucking incel

Got a date with a gender fluid guy should I open up with Im open to all genders fluids or the only genders fluids Im trying to taste are yours? Open to suggestions.

>>40642843
There's like two agamp people here already iirc.
>i currently masturbate to either gay femme guys or trans women
That isn't very different from every other poster that comes here asking if they are bi for being into the same thing.
Rest of that don't mater.

>>40642843
>>40643424
what is agamp?

>>40640299
cute!

It has been a month since the dealership ordered parts and 28 were business days. I want my motorcycle back. I'm going to full time commute with it from now on if it ever returns that is.
>>40643468
Autogynandromorphophilia
Think agp but for trans, CD, and femme enby sometimes including femme ftm.

>>40644375
Like they’re turned on by being trans instead of being turned on by being a woman?

>>40603254
I’m a lesbian and can confirm that I don’t like bi women or trannys because they put me through so much shit. I feel bad for bi men though. They never do anything wrong and get the short end of the stick from both sides.

>>40634044
secret third option of identifying as a gay ftm for years and then normiemaxxing and having a bunch of internalized homophobia

>>40596969 (OP)
What sequence of events needs to unfold in order for me to have sex with and also potentially date a woman like pic related? I have no personality, no hobbies, and I'm not part of any social circles

>>40646359
Go do stuff and make friends, idiot

>>40646371
It's impossible, then.
The friends I already have live very far away, and I've never accidentally met someone I was interested in enough to befriend as an adult. So no new friends who live nearby. And the stuff I do is just walking and thinking thoughts and shit. Es ist zu spät für mich

>>40646391
Engage in some hobbies, retard

>>40646452
Like what, you big meanie? I already do photography but I suck at it + it's an npc hobby.

>>40646502
>it's an npc hobby
Only if you're an npc

Bigen was never actually for bisexuals, it was for AGPs, which makes it no different from every other thread on the board

>>40644844
basically yeah
and in my case also by other transfem ppl

both GAMP and AGAMP

>>40646502
do photography challenges
"take 100 pictures with other ppl in it"
"take 100 portraits asking people for permission"
"take 100 pictures of other photographers"
and so on
maybe make an instagram for each project, or a website so it looks a bit more artistic idk

by the 20th picture you take it'll be way less intimidating
if you're smart about it you could maybe also engineer it so that the possibilities of encountering someone with whom you'll have affinity are higher. the "100 photographers" one is an example, but there's probably other ways

>>40646192
Damn, thats kind of interesting. What was normiemaxxing like versus gaymaxxing?

>>40646604
But doctor... I am the npc
>>40646860
That's kind of a good idea, thanks, anon

>>40647494
>
thanks
if you do it update us on the progress

>MOVIE NIGHT
MOVIE NIGHT
>MOVIE NIGHT
MOVIE NIGHT

big money hustlas wins the first round, vote NOW in the 30 minutes FLASH ROUND to decide the second movie of the night!

>https://discord.gg/CkB2mtte

>MOVIE NIGHT
MOVIE NIGHT
>MOVIE NIGHT
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And after a FLASH ROUND we have the two winners!

>Big Money Hustlas
>Hard boiled

So see ya later at 22 GMT!

>>40649075
>hard boiled
I swear I watched that with you guys a long time ago.

>>40649495
waitaminute, yes we did watch it before !!!

given that the person who submitted the other option that made it to the flash round, and that it's been literally years since we watched hard boiled, I'm keeping it for tonight

given that the person who made the other suggestion that made it to the flash round won't be there tonight and we watched hard boiled literally years ago, I'm keeping it for tonight's screening

>MOVIE NIGHT
MOVIE NIGHT
>MOVIE NIGHT
MOVIE NIGHT

A reminder that in 1h30 Movie Night is gonna start! Here is tonight's selection:

>Big Money Hustlas
>Hard boiled

>what the hell is "movie night"
Its a special night where bigen comes together to watch on Discord two movies chosen by the community

>where do we watch the movies?
On the official Bigen Movie and Game Night Discord server:
https://discord.gg/CkB2mtte

>i don't usually post on bigen/never took part in movie night, can i join?
Of course, movie night is open to anyone, just remember to mute yourself during the movies, be civil and have fun!

fyi this is the list of every movie we watched so far:
https://pastebin.com/Bc8pqK9h

We must secure the existence of our faggotry and a future for bisexuals, because the beauty of the bi man and woman must not perish from the Earth.

>MOVIE NIGHT
MOVIE NIGHT
>MOVIE NIGHT
MOVIE NIGHT

Good evening !
Its finally time to start another Movie Night! Tonight selection is:

>Winner screened 1st (most votes/user request)
>Winner screened 2nd

Here is the link of the stream, don't be shy and come join us! the film will start at 22:10 GMT

>https://discord.gg/CkB2mtte

>what the hell is "movie night"
its a special night where bigen comes together to watch on Discord two movies chosen by the community

>i don't usually post on bigen/never took part in movie night, can i join?
Of course, movie night is open to anyone, just remember to mute yourself during the movies, be civil and have fun!

fyi: this is the list of every movie we watched so far:
https://pastebin.com/Bc8pqK9h

>how it feels to be a 100% straight guy at the club with my wife for her twink friend's birthday

>>40651690
i know that feel

>>40651690
>>40653518
I honestly thought I was the only married breeder here