>>40640729
ya thats fine. i really don't go out of my way to "look nonbinary" either i'm just a tranny outwardly and thats okay β‘βΏβ‘
why do u want to be nonbinary anon
>>40640980
i feel a lot of pressure to be a "real woman" with the way i dress or the things i like or etc because im trans but that feels performative and not really like the authentic expression of myself
>>40641157
not visually i just dont like being told im not a real woman because i like to read manga and study history and i really dont care how much of a woman people think i am as long as they can accept me for who i am.
>>40640049 (OP)
yeah i wish nonbinary was real so i could be it. even when people can't tell what you are they'll just pick one and be uncomfortable with or disgusted by you according to whatever gender rules they've tentatively decided you're violating
>>40644429
Mood I would have come out as NB but like the whole thing is taken so much less seriously that I just came out as MtF now I'm a passoid and it's mostly okay other than some unresolved issues about how I know I'm NB but am to afraid to act on it because it just makes you an outcast
>>40640049 (OP)
anyone can be non-binary, there are no rules
I read a research article about how nb body image experiences are very unique and extremely diverse compared to other groups
yeh, cos there are no rules, just do what you want and call it nb tbqh
being trans is basically being nonbinary anyway, nobody trans is fully a man or a woman, and im okay with that, thats better than being a man, but nobody will take you seriously if you be honest about that and you have to pretend you want to be fully a woman to make it make sense in their pea brains