>>40647098
>somehitng about moving to canada sometime, i dont think she realises i would follow her there if she let me
realistically she doesn't want to marry you, she already put you in the casual relationship box and you probably won't escape it, she's making life plans which explicitly don't involve you, the way forward would be bringing up you moving to Canada with her but this could also end with her ending the relationship immediately instead of when she moves.
how long have you two been together?