Thread 40654946

how over is it if you're a 30+ tranny who likes men

>>40654946 (OP)
if you find a single 30+ man maybe he can do magic

decent unless you look like a linebacker

>>40654946 (OP)
genuinely over. all the good men are married, we get the scraps that were too mentally ill to find anyone. unless you want to be the cuckwife of some divorced single father

>>40654946 (OP)
is this a hypothetical?

>>40654953
i see plenty of single men, but not sure how many of them want to date an older tranny

>>40654956
passoid but not unclockable either if that makes sense

>>40654967
welp i've always wanted to be a mother

>>40654973
no, i'm talking about me

>>40654946 (OP)
Been pretty barren for me for the most part but I have recently started dating someone so it's going better now.

>>40654967
>cuckwife
my friend married a trans woman who raised his 2 daughters not like she was going to have any of her own & she got to experience years of motherhood since they were both little kids

>>40654946 (OP)
ive never known any straight 30+ trans women who have had success dating

>>40655196
i've never known a 30+ trans woman

Well you could date an ftm maybe . They might be into you

>>40655239
that would be cool but i have no idea where to find them

>>40655205
get out zoomer

I gave up 10 years ago...

My opinion: you can definitely date successfully, but it will be much more difficult. Plus, you won't like your body.

>>40655037
>not sure how many of them want to date an older tranny
gotta put urself out there to find out!

>>40654946 (OP)
I'm seeing a trans girl tmrw whose newly 30 and I'm 34.
Feels good man.

>>40654946 (OP)
Wife material

>>40655239
>Well you could date an ftm maybe
She said she likes men not women

>>40654946 (OP)
Great if you date younger and lower status men, terrible if you only date up and older. These are both assuming you pass too.

It’s not great, I detransitioned and I’m upset about all my options

every time I put myself out there I get absolutely flooded with guys trying to date me and some don't give up for years it's wild honestly

t. 36 5'5 passoid

the amount of tall handsome guys with mommy issues is crazy and they can't really get their "fix" from cis girls cuz they tend to look for a father figure or have 3 kids at my age lol

>>40654967
What's wrong with becoming a stepmother? Y'all are weird why wouldn't I want to get to be a mother in the only way I can? I'd totally marry a single father or single mother

>>40654946 (OP)
no idea but i have a 29 year old trans friend who is in a long term relationship with a cis man

>>40654946 (OP)
I'm a man, I like milfs/christmas cake or whatever other category you'd slot into.
I'm not alone in this opinion, women who don't play games and make good company are the shit.
>>40655037
>but not sure how many of them want to date an older tranny
You'd be surprised how open men are to giving things a shot, you may not be their first choice, but they might not be yours, it only matters if you make it. The tricky part is finding someone that actually wants to build a life, and that's not a tranny issue though I imagine it doesn't help, that's just dating in general.
>passoid but not unclockable either if that makes sense
if you're moderately attractive, you're good. Find a decent guy that doesn't care about having bio kids and you're set. You may have better luck with men that have had long term relationships before, pattern of behavior is important. But even the inexperienced ones can be fine, it's just the odds get worse.

>>40655341
>you won't like your body
Not exclusive to trannies in their 30s, a good man will make you feel good about it
>>40657474
>What's wrong with becoming a stepmother?
goated individual

Hello OP. I am 30 and looking for a future wife

I would if they were sane but it has been my experience that trans women are always crazy and not in the good "crazy hot woman" way but just crazy in a "I hope this person doesn't harm me" kind of way

>>40657597
That's literally the best kind of crazy though. I can't even relate to somebody if they aren't a little batshit.

>>40657570
Where?

>>40657614
California

>>40654946 (OP)
it's not that bad, at least if you're into flings, I'm not into long-term dating myself, I like my personal space and peace, so after I'm done fucking, the guy is out, I don't want to listen to him snore, lol
online retards talk a fuckton a lot about women ageing like fine milk or trannies being to masc or whatever, but I'm a fucking 36yo manmoder, and I finding a dude to be my fwb is not a problem, we go on "dates" and whatnot

>>40657631
Other side of the Pacific. Nevermind.

>>40657639
Literally who the fuck wants to do that in their 30's.

>>40657612
I think you're confusing "NPC" and "not crazy", of course no one wants to date an NPC but I also don't want to date someone who accuses me of sexual abuse or something just because I didn't choose the restaurant and that's passive-aggressive misgendering because it's the man's role to pick the restaurant so she blocks me and I start finding out that she's been saying things about me

>>40657658
That sounds awful specific. Did this happen to you for real?

>>40654946 (OP)
If you passes as a <30 food: No

If you're a hon: Yes

As simple as

>>40657664
It's a mashup of real life experiences and things I've read online. False accusations that bank on the "believe all women" meme are a major pet peeve of mine. That has happened to me multiple times. Women are monsters and they know they can get away with anything. So if there's even the slightest hint of danger I'm out.

>>40657649
It's unironically super common in my particular age group. People don't want kids, they don't want to be tied down too much, people enjoy their freedoms. Some never had families before, others tried and really hated it.

>>40657702
Oh, there's also an army of early 20s guys who for some reason chase older women, be they cis or trans, I have no fucking idea what's going on there. Kinda weird, because there isn't much to talk about there, but it kinda works as well.

>>40657693
Uh oh redpill misogynist detected

>>40657693
I won't lie, I've definitely had some minor freak outs over practically nothing but at least when I do I keep it behind closed doors where no one but me and my reflection will ever see it.
I can't fathom how people do that to others so openly and publically.

>>40654946 (OP)
It's surprisingly ok. Many men up until this age has been occupied with creating their career and hasn't really been active in dating too much. It's also a time where first wave of many divorces happen. I'd say up until 40 your chances are fine. And that's because I don't know how it looks like later, maybe it's not too bad and maybe it is, I don't know.

>>40657721
I think women should have the right to vote and all that shit, I'm not "anti feminist", but any time I hear a woman badmouthing a man I assume she's got an agenda.

Look at how many women get literally beaten every day by their male partner and they'll say "oh but he loves me, he loves me!" And yet when a woman claims with no evidence that a guy is "abusive" we don't question it? Does that seem sane to you? Abuse accusations are always true because women can never tell a lie, but when a woman does lie, it's not her fault so we should ignore it?

>>40657752
Red pill meltie. We ain't reading all that

>>40657758
And I'm not believing you when you claim you were "abused", see how easy that was?

>>40657767
Okay

>>40654946 (OP)
It isn't really an issue. I am in my 30s and have a bf. And it's really easy to get guys interested in me for some reason.

>>40657693
Women are evil