>>40661877
You’d have to be a pretty good looking man to get me aroused and then it would arguably be because you could pass as a woman. And those sorts of men are all stupid as fuck in my experience
>>40661949
I didnt i was just thinking of an example of why youd be this way romantically. would you be happy in a sexless romantic relationship with another man?
>>40661904
you have internalized homophobia - you fear your attraction to men being the dominant force in your life - because women will socially exile you if they find out you are that way
>>40662018
I don’t have female friends but I have fucked many women and I can promise women today absolutely would not ostracize a man for fucking a man.
>>40662005
what kind of man would you want for that sort of thing? probably fucked if you want another dominant/normie male but a low-t low-libido guy with a submissive personality could be in the cards if you looked
>>40662052
your promises are worth nothing
there's obviously a deeper seated reason you feel the need to tell us you are same sex attracted but then deny wanting to truly fully act on it - you fear others would do something to you if you did...
>>40662087
IQ is pretty much the only trait I find romantically attractive. I have a lot of overlapping interests with homos like ballet and musicals and fitness but most of that is secondary if someone doesn’t read or like mathematics
>>40662103
You must never have interacted with a woman irl. Men are far less comfortable with homosexuals than women are
>>40662162
Women seem far less comfortable with me being gay than men do. Women are fake-nice to your face but behind your back they despise gay men and will talk endless shit about you - whereas men are mostly apathetic.
>>40662162
So are you okay with holding hands with a man in public? Are you comfortable kissing him or cuddling nude with him? Where do you draw the line?
>>40662169
Women are just that way, they’re the same with straight men and other women. Women will even bitch about their best friend to a guy they just fucked
>>40662209
I don’t mind kissing or holding hands if it’s someone I am genuinely extremely close with, not going to do it with a random person of either sex. Cuddling is not really my thing unless it’s foreplay
>>40661745 (OP)
Same. Women are sexy and I want to sleep with them, and I don't hate women or anything I just can't find common ground with them to ever really feel something; but I end up crushing on my guy friends all the time, without a single thought to how they look
same bro i want to get an asexual bf that lets me fuck women but open relationships are shit so i also don't want that and it would be mean to asexual bf
>>40665807
don't do this.
i'm asexual and the one thing i despise more than anything is when ppl say they're interested in me and really want to be with me, BUT sex is a deal breaker for them so they need the relationship to be open
like ???
it just feels like being spit on in the face, if you ask that of someone you have no respect for them whatsoever