Thread 40672357

General for all nonbinary, intersex, questioning and friends.
QOTT: What are you most talented in?
QOTT2: Have you ever been in a competition?

>>40672357 (OP)
why is being NB grouped in with being intersex. im intersex and a transsexual woman, not some magical in-between

>>40672357 (OP)
bump

>>40672426
intersex = physical sex grey area
nonbinary = gender gray area

Bump

QOTT3: Why does Adama always reee about imagined "antisemitism" when she's not even Jewish

i wonder where nonbiney poster went. havent seen them in a bit i hope theyre doing well
>>40672357 (OP)
>qott1
ive been told i have talents for drawing, writing, language learning, & playing music. but i think my greatest strength is my pure heart full of untarnished love of the world-spirit. it cries to me in pain and its tears pool into poisonous tar along my sternum
>qott2
i am not quite sure what you mean but i suppose so? when i was younger i did some rowing regattas & various high school math & linguistics olympiads which are probably the most formalised ones ive been in. i suppose university courses or job applications can be a form of competition. theres lots of competition in life but as of late ive slowed down quite a lot in that regard
>>40676490
antisemitism hysteria is one of the great diseases of the world, far eclipsing antisemitism itself in this current age. those afflicted by it lash themselves onto the mythicised ideal of the infallible jew to make themselves its eternal slaves, their souls circumcised in adoration before the wailing wall

>>40672426
Think maybe it is because we’re both small groups that can’t keep separate gens active. Maybe we have some shared issues too, but I dont know enough about nonbinary issues to know if that’s true
>t. another binary intersex anon
>>40672357 (OP)
morning nonbinary anons, hi again.
>qott
Uh. Um. Uh.
>qott2
Used to participate in a lot as a child, nowadays not so much. One time I won pizzas and a trip to go see a concert with my class. Another time I won an autographed letter and sketch with some goodies for them from an animation company

Q1: art maybe
Q2: probably not to be honest

I suffer from crushing on normie girls who don’t want to date amabs who look like faggots

why are amab enbies so much cooler than afab enbies

>>40678539
This is an urban myth

My gender?
Is gender!
My gender it's gender! c'mon now!
- verse from the ever valid Jessie Gender's song 'Gender'

>>40674648
I'm gendergray tbqh. It's valid!

>>40678691
nah its true i have met both

>>40672357 (OP)
>What are you most talented in?
being a loser

>Have you ever been in a competition?
i think i lost a spelling bee in 2nd grade or something

>>40678991
where are you guys meeting enbies at all

slightly related but do you guys actually tell people youre nonbinary? especially irls/close friends? for me nobody really cares and i hate correcting people so i just let everyone assume. it would happen either way anyway

>>40676661
Hi bugchan, I'm the OP :-) I have been doing just fine.
>greatest strength is my pure heart full of untarnished love of the world-spirit
Love it.

>>40678991
Reeeeeeeeeeeeee
>>40679160
Local craft markets, yoga classes, art exhibitions, queer club nights mostly

>>40679160
>do you guys actually tell people youre nonbinary? especially irls/close friends?
I do, but only contextually. If someone is referring to me on the fly I don't really care what they see/refer to me as.

uwAaa I WNT VIVIENNE WESTWOOD JEWELERY SO BADD

>>40679572
Spider is that you, did you get NonBinnied(TM)

>>40679588
No, I am not "Spider"

>>40679608
Prove it by posting some cute jewellery you like

>>40679613
i think this is pretty awesome

>>40679160
>slightly related but do you guys actually tell people youre nonbinary?
i used to not but i hate getting called a woman or man. Im considering going nb full time and just telling everyone to not misgender me and to be "that person"

>>40679627
Quite sick quite heavy duty

>>40679936
Unfortunately it costs 2000$

Would you class gender non-conforming people as part of the non-binary spectrum?

>>40679990
It's not anyone's place to tell people whether they are nonbinary or not. You can have cis GNC, as well as being trans and GNC. Neither are de facto nonbinary, unless that is how they feel about themselves and identify.

>>40679990
Am this >>40676751 anon, and I would consider myself gnc but not nonbinary. >>40680020
Anon nailed it: you can’t really class others as nonbinary because being nonbinary requires individuals to perceive and accept themselves as such, whether they visibly present as it or not. GNC is about the performance of gender whereas being nonbinary or binary is more about the internal experience of it. I may be gnc but I feel like a man, live like a woman, have biological features that dont fit neatly into either category, and get treated as a mixture of both depending on the context, whether I ask for it or not.

>>40680020
>>40680107
>being nonbinary or binary is more about the internal experience of [gender]
I don't quite understand this point. Care to clarify?
Swear I'm not looking to argue to be clear. You don't have to entertain my curiosity if you feel it's any how unconstructive.

>>40680185
Cannot speak for anon but you can be gender non conforming in that you act or present like a weird gay person but your internal experience is largely similar to a cis person (no dysphoria, no … whatever else makes someone McLose the binary), so there’s not a need to “come out” or change pronouns. At least that’s how I’d differentiate the two
>t

>>40680408
>you act or present like a weird gay person but your internal experience is largely similar to a cis person
Are you cis?

>>40680446
HRT femboy that twinkdied lel

>>40680487
Hurts just a little bit
>>40680446
Yeah just a (clout) chaser

speaking of jewelry i just got these. I've never worn hoop earrings but i think they look cool

>>40680185
No worries, I dont mind! Feel like talking about these things can be a healthy exchange, just bear in mind that my perspective is coloured by being perceived as nonbinary without feeling like it.
For most people the traits they aspire towards is deeply linked to their sense of self: who you want to be, and how you want to be perceived, is an inherent part of how you already see yourself in relation to the rest of the world. Identifying as something is an act of reflecting on where you belong, and whether or not this belonging is something you’ve willingly and happily agreed to : are you a man because others want you to be a man, or are you a man because thats what you want to be?
Outside perception, intentionality, and self perception all play separate parts in this equation, but when it comes to nonbinary versus binary identities it commonly refers to something people feel rather than something people do. It all exists in layers.
The trouble being that binary gender identities and normative binary gender performances are so commonly joined together that most people fail to identify these as separate layers unless directly confronted with something that challenges it

>>40678417
why do you prefer normie girls over alt girls?

I got hit on a lot by straight women before I trooned and just looked like a faggot, but I guess they weren't strictly "normie".

>>40681532
I like goth chicks but my last two girlfriends were both jeans and tank top plant mom cleangirls, I simply cannot explain it