>>40681824 (OP)
i learned how to love myself and become a fully romantically and spiritually self actualized person
though i certainly am the opposite physically (disabled; literally laying in bed rn hurting just from making my wife tea and setting up some music stuff on my desk this morning) and i have almost no capitalism/society life achievements unlocked (hs dropout; worked 8mo in my life; completely dependant on my wife even for many simple daily life activities)
but love is all that ever mattered to me so in that area i feel more successful than any soulless billionaire or world leader