Thread 40695273

there has to be a difference between the transbians who want a wife (and kids) and those who'd rather join a polycule

>>40695273 (OP)
There’s more than two choices
I’d never be a polyfag but I sure as hell never want kids

Polycule pictures gross me out. What happened to platonic friend groups where people chill without being unhygenic and clingy.

>>40695273 (OP)
option 1: ew for me personally but idc as long as they are good parents
option 2: ew, ew.

>>40695273 (OP)
>agp vs agamp

>>40695310
ikr so many trannies cant imagine just having friends, to them it has to be ppl who they can have a mass orgy with

>>40695273 (OP)
the wife and kids ones seem more malebrained to me desu. have the masculine need to spread their legacy

>>40695273 (OP)
i don't understand nonmonagamy

>>40695273 (OP)
Everyone wants a wife but not everyone can get her

>>40695337
this was my experience hanging out with poly troons. IF you werent fucking them you were less relevant and it was really fucking hard to maintain a friendship with them as they were so preoccupied with the 'cule and getting new people into the 'cule.

>>40695369
Loneliness, and trooning out making you realise that hey, maybe other social norms are bullshit.

A lot of poly types just seem to have really basic, selfish views on polyamory. Fixated on getting their needs met and not really acknowledging the needs of your partners, or the fact that most people are wired to "pair bond" its why there is such a huge focus on "processing" and why those relationships usually blow up

>>40695273 (OP)
1 is an actual trans woman who happens to be a lesbian, none of the people in 2 are actually trans, they transitioned as a part of a fetish

9/11 tapestry goes hard

>>40695273 (OP)
the one on the left had a whole Mormon family yt channel im sure she’s fine but she just kinda creeps me out

>>40695923
>loneliness
fair
>trooning out making you realize that hey, maybe other social norms are bullshit
i can't relate to this, if anything i committed way harder to social norms because i was desperate to be taken seriously

>>40696056
>i can't relate to this, if anything i committed way harder to social norms because i was desperate to be taken seriously

do you pass though, sticking to social norms is trickier if you dont

>>40695923
Tried to find some of those videos but youtube is too full of lazy reaction videos of nonpoly people cringing and gawking at polycule stories

I'll never understand how I went from going to gaybars and being her drink buddy to taking care of her kids.

>>40696098
i do now, and it has honestly made me less committed to social norms. i think that i originally wanted to be a normie after transition, but that was always a pipedream and ill always be a weird autistic malebrained woman. honestly i just may never have taken social norms that seriously because im a gigaautist, ive always just kinda picked and chose the ones i agree with

>>40695331
>plebbit vs 4chud/xitter

>>40695273 (OP)
I want to be the one on the left so bad. I need to put babies in a degenerate cisfem so she'll do what I never can. I need my gock to fulfill its purpose and join me with a fem chaser forever

polycules and cuddle piles have always seemed so disgusting to me, maybe because i was attempted sexually assaulted by one of those gremlin poly transbian freaks, but yea

>>40696447
In reality you'll get a femrepper who'll put a fat strap up your ass

>>40695289
yeah the idea that those are the only two options is crazy

What about us transbians who want a wife but not kids 0_o

>>40696685
Left

>>40696665
Yeah wtf

>>40695999
It doesn’t, it’s meta-ironic transbian twitter cringe. Same people probably would freak out in incredulity if you had a poster of a leveled Gaza

>>40695273 (OP)
yeah the latter are hot

>>40695337
I don't care about sex, but cuddling together in a big bed or couch with multiple people sounds like bliss. That's why I'm interested in being poly, or at least open minded with my friends in a more physically platonic way.

>>40695273 (OP)
Honestly I'd want both a polycule and kids. Two people isn't enough to raise a kid or multiple

>>40696665
I want that

>>40695273 (OP)
left=straight male
right=autistic gay males

>>40695369
For myself, it's about leaving an open door to love and possibility. Ever seen a romance where someone has to choose who to date and you just think "wait...given their friendships and personal dynamics...is it possible here to just date both and everyone is happy?" It is a bit like that. Poly for me involves a lot of commitment and I can handle at maximum maybe 2 partners as serious relationships and will stop there. While love is infinite, time and energy is not.

Of course, while the philosophy of more experienced polyamorists is nice, there is a lot of people into non-conventional romances who are new to it, at a difficult time in their lives, and who will struggle to learn how to do poly properly. Between the 30-50 year old woman who quietly has 2 boyfriends vs the 20 year old poly transbian who got overexcited with new relationship energy and has 7-8 partners in a polycule that constantly has drama and blowups...one of these is far more exciting and draws in a supply of babytrans looking for support and becomes more well known and the stereotype of the community. The latter example is also what you run into more often in the spaces you frequent (until you make older cis friends).

Plus, I would rather have tried a relationship knowing that relationships rarely last forever, than to be stuck wondering about what could have been. A poly partner of mine is basically signing up to a life of "we'll wing it together and see what possibilities there are." I could never date a monogamous person since it'd tear them apart.

>>40695273 (OP)
Y'all realize that 90% of the transbians with a wife and kids (like Shaye, the woman pictured) got married as a man, had kids, and then emotionally blackmailed their wives into accepting their transition?

Lesbians generally don't want to get together with a male and have their babies, regardless of whether they identify as a woman. And bi women or straight women (both straight really) will always pick a man over a troon.

It's like a rule- find a troon with a wife and/or kids, and 90% of the time they got together before she trooned out.

The only happy transbians are the one in a thousand who find a bi/lesbian wife (e.g. Grace Hyland) or the ones happy to sleep around in degenerate transbian polycules.

>>40695273 (OP)
Lmao not really.
I married a bi girl I knew from my youth after we reconnected (bi4bi)
>we meet when I'm 19 and she is 17
>the next time I see her I get outted by a mutual goth girl we knew that was struggling with bi feelings, I came out to the goth to help her
>its ok though future wife is running her schools GSA
>I slutted it up in my teens and early 20s which she saw (she also helped put me out at a fire party)
>she slutted it up in her early 20s which I saw
>I split with my fiance and she split with her BF she lived with
>we ended up falling out of contact when she moved in with a new bf, I had offered her a place to live for a bit she turned me down not realizing I was serious
>meet back up at ACEN in our early 20s, I thought she was some rando chick and she thought I was some rando to sell drugs to
>both of us busy doing all that stuff I mentioned above
>go our separate ways so I can pursue a "real" relationship
> end up getting together with her in an actual relationship when I realize this is stupid
>get married
>immediate egg crack, offer to anull
>we work it out (we both dated trans people before)
>years later happily married moms

If she didnt want to work it out I guarantee you I would be in a transbian pile right now or planning my next molly party and a threesome with two dudes

Im sure there are a lot of transbians who would trade places with me if they could and I easily could have been one of them

>>40695273 (OP)
The two boys on the right are very cute.

>>40697559
>emotionally blackmailed their wives into accepting their transition
That's awful, I'll never understand how anyone could lie so much they have to do this, the only disadvantage of being open about it is that she's kind of a huge bitch when she's angry and starts telling me in front of her kids that I am "not part of the family" but they don't seem to care as they are used to her tantrums and side with me but still hurts

What about transbians who want to be free to fool around a little while still being committed to someone? Why is it either a stinky diaper cule or le tradwife larp with you people? Childish, limited minds

>>40695273 (OP)
>have wonderful beautiful loving wife
>im probably too disabled/burden for us to adopt eventually; my health will only decline and she already has to help me with lots of simple things i cant even wash my legs in the shower bc i cant bent down and i often cant wash my hair without her help bc my wrists are fked

>but i really hope we cannadopt someday; if we ever are doing well enough that it wouldnt be too hard on her; plus she'll always be the only i become unless i become a successgul streamer/yt or something

>>40695273 (OP)
There has to be a difference between two completely different people... Much to consider

>>40697559
im the happiest transles in the world; i am monogamous and married to my heavenly soulmate decade-younger wife

we spent almost 2 hours tonight just staring into eachothers eyes across my pillow in our dark canopy bed with our foreheads together; there is no physically possible way for us to truly express the full depth of what we feel; we need to be much closer than our bodies allow; it is physically painful that i cant hear her thoughts or feel my heart absorb into her chest to be connected to the valves of hers

i really cant overstate it

im so incredibly lucky i met her

i live my life purpose everyday in loving her

>>40695273 (OP)
I want to be in a polycule and raise kids.

>>40695273 (OP)
Nobody will ever love me.

>>40695337
Its the male in them, sadly. Women don't behave this way

>>40698228
>decade-younger wife
You boasting about getting a fresher woman kinda ruins your whole point lol
Like talking about true love but leaving her as soon as she "hits the wall"

>>40697559
>then emotionally blackmailed their wives into accepting their transition
I'd argue that you'll find often cases where it's repper4repper and the femrepper encourages then to troon out. Most women are weirded out by mtf reppers as you can see in most of the cases that something is wrong with them in the way they act/behave

>>40695974
Tranny in the left pic probably married and had kids as a man. Whereas i know, being a xittertard, that at least one of the trannies in the right pic trooned at like 13 and hasnt ever lived as a man. Who really has the fetish?

>>40699931
>be 13 where puberty makes you horny 24/7
>get futa fantasies about yourself
>transition thinking you'll be a futa
>live as a futa with other futas
You can make everything sound like a fetish

>>40696457
i started getting really disgusted when my ex cheated and moved into polycule while i was in the mental hospital

>>40699719
there will never be a day that she isnt the most beautiful girl in the world to me

i just feel very lucky to be with someone so much more youthful than i am; especially with me being crippled/disabled/deformed/helpless

nothing at all she could ever do could ever push me away

and i know she feels exactly the same

i never seeked someone younger; my previous love of my life was only like 2 years younger than me and she was literally balding and always wore pretty wigs; but i loved her so much it almost killed me; i couldnt escape her even when it was clear she couldnt love me

but my angelic wife saved me from that; and somehow she is just as attracted to me even though my spine looks like a deformed goblin monster and im covered in stretch marks from medication (i never gained more than 10-12lb in my life over my stable weight of ~135)

i understand why youd think what you said; but im simply too pure to ever have a feeling like that

i literally pray through my wife's eyes to our goddess regularly (in addition to my Epitome that represents my goddess to me); she is that beautiful to me; and i feel that close to her; she could end all life in the universe and i would still love her the same

she is my heaven and i will die in her arms

>>40701533
Is she a cisgender woman?

If so, did y'all meet before or after she transitioned?