Thread 40730608

How do you make sure your chaser boyfriend isn't gay?

>>40730608 (OP)
Run him through some electroshock just to be sure. Can’t be too careful with these pierced ear shaved legs faggots

>>40730608 (OP)
He's gay. Straight men will accept a bj and move on, but never date you or marry you.

transwomen are males
males that have sex with males are homosexual
its impossible for transwomen to get a straight cis boyfriend

The simplest and most direct way is by leading questions, only risk is that he's already aware of this technique from lurking places like this. Basically the idea is that you playfully ask things like "if you had to name one male celebrity that you think is hot, who would it be?", push him a little if he doesn't want to provide an answer. "But what if I'm being held hostage and they are pointing a gun at me, saying they'll shoot me if you don't answer truthfully!"

Now pay attention. No matter how far you push, a straight guy SIMPLY DOES NOT EVER express any attraction toward another man. No matter the stipulations; a truly straight guy will insist that it's too bad but "he can't provide a truthful answer because that would simply be lying".

If he caves to the questions, you know what to do.

>>40730645
trans women are legally, medically, and socially female, and biologically intersex leaning female

>>40730652
transwomen are male women
gender identity isn't biological sex
its impossible for a transwomen to become female with present medical technology
males that have sex with males are homosexuals

>>40730652
Phenotype doesn’t matter, every aspect of the human experience besides genomic DNA sequencing information is irrelevant in all domains of life. I didn’t make the rules but if I made them I would make them like this

>>40730678
female women*

>>40730708
transwomen are male women
female women are ciswomen
transwomen are not ciswomen
its impossible for a transwoman to get a straight cis boyfriend

>>40730651
If a gay man learned to never express attraction to other men out loud - would that make him socially straight?

>>40730608 (OP)
why do you have this obsession with being "not gay"? does this include being bi? as long as he doesn't cheat on you it's basically irrelevant

>>40730731
In the eyes of cis women, bisexuality in males is the same thing as being gay.

>>40730729
Even the most straight-acting men with gay or bi tendencies cave when they think they are in a situation of emotional intimacy. That's where the meme of girlfriends being forced into a therapist role for their boyfriends comes from; you actually WANT to enforce that angle to make him feel safe enough to talk about anything.

>>40730731
because its agp. they need to be validated by a straight man getting aroused to them because it caters to their fantasy

>>40730753
or maybe they are just as committed to the larp as you are

>>40730776
Doesn't happen. Men are conditioned through carefully orchestratef social interactions and entertainment media that admitting bisexual or homosexual tendencies does not actually make you gay. Work your abilities and make him feel completely safe, and he will break. If you can't do that, thrn maybe the problem lies in your own yet incomplete female socialization; practice, and try again.

>>40730801
um what
men are terrified of admitting they are bi or gay

>>40730808
In public, and around straight men or high value women. A gay or bi man will feel safe with a trans women because they do not consider you a regular woman; they will crack. Work your magic.

>>40730826
they know what game you are playing though
you really suffer from main character syndrome

>>40730831
>they know what game you are playing though
SOME do, and I brought that up in my original post. Therefore you have to make a judgment call, is your boyfriend the kind of person that would lurk place like this? If yes, you will have to employ this strategy in combination with other techniques and things get a lot more complicated.
>you really suffer from main character syndrome
Not at all, these are just the kind of steps you have to go through as a straight trans woman if you don't want to end up with a closeted gay man.

>>40730866
these magical clueless bi and gay chasers who are going to give up the ghost that easily don't exist - or - are sabotaging the relationship because you were insane and they didn't want you anyways for anything more than sexo anal

>>40730870
Heh, sure.
I've personally broken up with closeted gay guys in the double digits by using this method. It works, trust me.

>>40730895
maybe you are just a bpdemon and they dodged a bullet

>>40730897
Unlikely, but even if so, BPD is a condition found almost exclusively in women; you should be careful of any man who claims to be straight yet considers BPD a deal breaker.

>>40730925
trans women are women

>>40730929
Exactly; so if a "straight" man isn't open to dating BPD there might be something he's not being honest about.

>>40730964
or he doesn't want an emotional volcano of a gf

>>40730969
That's a natural part of dating women, though.

>>40730608 (OP)
the risk of having a chaser bf isn't of them being gay, it's of them being a repper who will transition on you
and I've actually seen it happen multiple times. on how to make sure ur bf isn't one, idk. maybe try to get them to do feminine stuff and test the waters, depending on how they react you can get sort of an idea

>>40730651
Straight men can admit another man is hot without personally finding them attractive

>>40731285
Nope, that's the thing. No actual, IRL straight man would never do that. Entertainment media and social pressure does make it seem like that is not the case, but that is very much a designed narrative.

>>40731572
>they can't tell I'm a man
>but I can tell they are gay

>>40730895
>in the double digits
lol

>>40730608 (OP)
dont date a chaser

>>40730758
TRVKE

>>40730608 (OP)
By being a biological woman.

>>40730608 (OP)
if you really don't pass he's at least bi
if you meet him where gays hang out he's at least a bit bi
if he says he believes you are a woman he is lying

>>40730731
Mind ya business.

Its important to us. Gay men are horrible and straight men are lovely, that's what I read

The ultimate and easiest test is tell them you're getting SRS.

How they react will tell you everything you need to know

>>40731028
I was a hyper masculine bodybuilding security guard. I transitioned.

No one is safe

>>40736707
again, won't they just know what you expect them to say?

>>40737799
Nah. SRS tips them over the edge. Gay men hate vagina. Don't do anything sexual until you get it.

If he's pushing to touch you there, he is gay. If he's actually haply to wait until you have a vagina, he's straight

Srs is the biggest and ultimate feal breaker for gay chasers

>>40737799
Nah. SRS tips them over the edge. Gay men hate vagina. Don't do anything sexual until you get it.

If he's pushing to touch you there, he is gay. If he's actually happy to wait until you have a vagina, he's straight

Srs is the biggest and ultimate deal breaker for gay chasers

>>40738825
>Gay men hate vagina
I think there's a lot of performative hate because the standard is some flippy wrist flamer going "ewww vagina how gross" but I think in reality most gay men just see it as boring and un-special if not especially repugnant.
A lot of gay men historically have married women and have managed to overcome whatever feelings they had about vaginas and start a family to fit into a society where men really can only be socially included if they marry a woman and have a family.

>>40738845
True but we're discussing gay chasers that are DL.

A gay chaser isn't going to say "oh I love dick, it's the only part of you I like, but if you get SRS I'll love you just the same". They won't say that.

I've met bottom chasers before, trust me it's the ultimate litmus test. They don't stick about. A gay man using a cis woman as a beard is a different scenario, since the gay man doesn't feel like he has lost something, but a month into a relationship, if a gay chasers finds out his perfect plan to suck tranny dick will never happen, he will bounce

>>40730608 (OP)
if he's a chaser he's gay. there are straight men that will give a trans woman a chance and even stay with her though

>>40738943
It's pretty obvious if you are dressed in woman clothes that you want them to play along with the full female fantasy.

>>40731572
On the contrary,entertainment media and social pressure has in fact made it seem to *you* like straight men cannot acknowledge that someone like Henry Cavil looks generally great and ticks all the boxes of contemporary standards with regards to male looks.

Nonetheless I hope you get better.

>>40739429
If you are fine with dating gay and bi men that's up to you, but don't go around pretending it's weird NOT to.

>>40739429
he never will get better

>>40730652
You're a man and will always be a man you will get drafted as cannon fodder

>>40731572
damn nona you got issues huh?
like do you like in a third world shithole country where you get lynched if you shave your beard or spend more than 30 seconds looking at another man?

>>40731572
Straight men can admit when men are attractive, although they won't do it directly.
Just ask them if they'd be jealous if their girl hung out with some particular guy.
They'll say "no" if it's Richard Stallman. They'll say "yes" if it's if it's Chris Hemsworth.

>>40740527
>although they won't do it directly
I wonder why

>>40740691
It's a real mystery lol

>>40730678
You’re just redefining words to fit a prejudice. Science recognizes gender identity as real. Medicine makes transition possible and effective. And attraction isn’t math equations. Keep coping with your wrong narrative and your outdated definitions.

>>40740718
>woman is a feeling that scientists can observe with a microscope

>>40740718
you are literally the one redefining words to fit YOUR vanity and prejudices lol

>>40740718
>Medicine makes transition possible and effective
So mtf trannies can get pregnant now?

>>40739042
Might be playing along for you but I can wear plain black male clothes, no makeup and put my hair in a bun, and get gendered female, and I live in England

>>40740791
Yes, womb transplants have been successfully performed over 100 times globally

>>40740725
if you can't observe somehting with magical microscope it not real or something

>>40730652
so why would it even be a concern that your bf may be gay? why would a gay man want to date a female