Thread 40732914

Every tranny and bottom I meet online is just into porn and has no actual concept of human sex outside of that. They say all these exaggerated things about what they'll be into during sex and then just not care about doing anything except jacking off and literally pay no attention to their partner.

I am a amab nb top btw, so maybe they'd do it for chad but not me and I am just being and incel.

>>40732914 (OP)
Why you insist on dating trannies, wtf

>>40732914 (OP)
I’m not a gooner and that’s why I’ll never fall for the theymab top madness like the other doods.

>>40732923
I don't only date trannies. I've dated ciswomen who futurefaked me in the same way, but at least when women avoid sex they aren't jacking off constantly. And cism bottoms do the same thing too. I just don't understand what makes them prefer porn over sex.

>>40732948
Fall for it...? I am a normal and respectable person. I just like having sex occasionally.

>>40732914 (OP)
its an autism thing, the being in ones own world and seeing others as an extension of themselves. so find one who doesnt have autism

>>40732998
I had a friend who fell for the theymab meme and he got a basically cis in every way boyfriend that would beat him publically, misgender him constantly, and eventually ended up getting him pregnant and walking to find his next victim. I am not a weak liddle poon like him so I will never fall for a cis man using they/them ‘nouns for free pussy to abuse and seed.

>>40732998
>don't understand what makes them prefer porn over sex.

Safer in the sense that it can't get awkward, they know what to expect/what they are getting, easier to fulfill fantasies in their head than irl

>>40733098
I knew this one theymab once that was a sex obsessed gooner and a walking red flag so this checks out. Also indistinguishable from an average cis guy

>>40732914 (OP)
>they would do it for chad
>amab nb top
You are chad and it is your responsibility to make them cum their brains out by taking initiative and using them like you’re bedding Cleopatra and it’s the last fuck you’ll have before death. Porn brain is common but you will fix them if you care

>>40732998
I only do it to people I find ugly so maybe thats your issue

>>40733169
>>40733098
Theymabs are worse than cis men cause they think they can get away with the abuse

>>40733169
The funny part is he would cry little moid crocodile tears over every little thing, and if you told him to man up he’d call you a racist. One time I he/himmed him to his face and he had a 30 minute long melty in the bathroom about not being heckin valid, came right out and popped his boytoy in the face, huge eye bruise and then he had another 30 minute long melty trying to claim it was an accident and he wasn’t heckin abusive.

>>40733012
That's fair. But how do I screen for autism without it seeming unfair? I feel like as someone with several mental issues it could be hypocritical for me only pursue people without neurodivergent traits.

>>40733098
I am sorry that happened to you. I am on an mtf hrt regime, I just don't want to be an mtf, so I don't think I would qualify for being "basically cis". I wouldn't do any of those things, but I have been told I can be abusive by my past partners.

>>40733147
That makes sense. It's annoying, but it makes sense.

>>40733188
I am certainly not a chad.

>>40733209
Posting ENA is zoomer
Chad

>>40733209
i mean you're trans, you've talked to plenty of trans people i assume, you can pick up on autism at this point.
why did past partners think of you as abusive?

>>40733194
I am not attractive. That is true. Fair enough.

>>40733219
How does being a zoomer make me chad?

>>40733228
But is it just all autistic people? I thought you meant like, specific types of autistic people. To be clear almost every trans person I meet is autistic, self-absorbed, and nearly completely self interested.

And I have been called abusive because I have some mental issues and tend to have issues with boundaries.

>ena
>unironically using gooner
>le sex bad
you need to be 18 years old to post here

>>40732914 (OP)
>is just into porn and has no actual concept of human sex outside of that. They say all these exaggerated things about what they'll be into during sex and then just not care about doing anything except jacking off and literally pay no attention to their partner
this isn't just a tranny issue because i've met many demographics of gooners and they literally all act like this, half of them were virgins too and still said shit about wanting triple penetration raceplay pisskink stuff on a daily basis
overconsumption of porn seems to literally rot your brain in a way that we've never seen before and can't really pinpoint because it mostly seems to nuke your internal concept of what connecting to another human being is like which is both hidden from outside view and impossible to diagnose without omniscience

>>40732914 (OP)
I'm a bit of gooner but I'd stop so easily if it was for a partner. I'm just not into crazy shit though I wouldn't catfish like that I got like 2 fairly vanilla kinks. I do agree that sort of thing is annoying i have a friend who's sorta like that like saying they're into crazy shit but not doing anything at all really. I would probably do a bad job at treating my partner well but that's moreso because I'm an agp with meta attraction and I'm also just generally fucking retarded at everything, not cuz of any gooning. Idk i wish i could find someone but I'm currently not in any position to even look for a partner and won't be for ages

>>40732914 (OP)

> has no actual concept of human sex

Only people who don't know what sex is can be transgender. They are ones who unironically think mpreg is real thing and not just a porn category.

>>40732914 (OP)
i’ve never been a gooner, anon. never jerker off more than like, every other day and on hrt it’s been even less

>>40733349
If you don’t post yourself I assume you’re hot. This is a psychological adaption which has allowed me to be on this board for this long

>>40733349
>And I have been called abusive because I have some mental issues and tend to have issues with boundaries.
tell us more, im curious

>>40733389
I am an adult. This entire post was about how sex good, but porn addiction bad.

>>40733820
That is literally what everyone says. "Sex is so much cooler than that, I want to let you do x, y, z, and all the other things you want to me." and then they realize that it takes effort even to pillow princess and laze about with their hand in their pants. I am not blaming you anon.

>>40733886
Sex as in intercourse, not category.

>>40734184
Fair. I wouldn't post my face in a thread without a mask on anyway in case it ever gets linked to a name.

>>40734211
To summarize I have some issues expressing emotions consistently that make it seem to others like I am shallow or unstable. I have dissociative issues that require me to focus otherwise I might accidentally say cruel things to others. It's not BPD

>>40732914 (OP)
You're saying people you've had sex with tell you what they like (probably petplay and cnc) and they end up only jerking off? What's your part in that? Don't you get them in the mood? You have to make them feel safe. You come across as entitled and insecure from your posts, maybe that turned them off

>>40735296
>What's your part in that? Do you get them in the mood?
I am patient and tell them to only do things that they are comfortable with me. If they are virgins I tell them what they should do to make the experience less difficult for them. I reassure and validate them while expressing my desire. They tend to react positively over text and video calls for example and even at the start of relationships but they slowly seem to lose interest in irl sex entirely as a concept, even with others.

>entitled and insecure.
Why? This has happened over multiple years-long interactions with others. I don't randomly meetup for sex, nor do I say this after just weeks of this interaction. They know that I want to have sex and it's not like they aren't attracted to me physically. What could possibly turn a person off so much that they refuse to even discuss it when I constantly try to validate and please them in turn?

>>40734695
where are you from anon? you sound interesting

>>40737503
The US of A. In a state that begins with one of the first 8 letters of the alphabet and is located south of Virginia and east of Louisiana.

>amab nb
So you're a man

>>40738005
do you have discord? itd be cool to talk to you more and itd be easier to talk about this issue when its more conversational

>>40732914 (OP)
>literally pay no attention to their partner.
>maybe they'd do it for chad
Oh wow, maybe trannies are real women. Why is it so hard for girls to want to participate in sex? Bottoms are fucking stupid.
>>40732998
I’m a cis lesbian and have had the same experience with heteroflexible and bi women. Idk I rather someone who knows how to get themselves off than a complete pillow princess. Most cis women don’t even know how to make themselves cum outside of a vibrator let alone make someone else feel good.
>>40733098
Jesus Christ. Maybe if you two were actually male brained you wouldn’t want to be with a man.

>>40733195
I would strait up kill someone like that if I couldn’t cut them out of my life.

>>40732914 (OP)
i dont goon or even watch porn but i am a doomer type and cry most days 2-3 times.

who asked

>>40733748
Kudos to you. Not OP, but this is a good reply and find what you say to be true.

>>40738033
Not really. I don't think I qualify as that enough. I look too faggy and I am on hrt. I just don't really want to be mtf or be perceived as feminine. I enjoy wearing masculine clothes and being an androgynous male.

>>40738072
callous_corpus

>>40738139
Completely agree.

>>40738155
Crying is more appreciable than gooning.

>>40738689
>amab nb on hrt
So youre an ugly tranny

>>40732914 (OP)
Because they are malebrained porn addicted creeps. I'm AGP too but kinda fembrained and romantic, more emotional depth, more cutesy and cuddly. Makes things way hotter anyway instead of a dead McTranners order

>>40738689
added

>>40739123
Indeed good fellow. Terrifyingly ugly.

>>40739581
So I should only date fembrained individuals? That seems fair, I feel like that would avoid the porn brain issue, but not the lack of sexual intimacy holistically.

>>40739695
Thank you