Anonymous
8/20/2025, 8:42:13 AM
No.40769221
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was i groomed?
>be me, 10 years old
>bio mom died in childbirth, live with dad and stepmom
>realise that i am trans/want to be a girl
>dad brushes me off, says i’m just being stupid
>stepmom clearly worried, says she understands
>fast forward 1 year
>dad dies in car accident
>no immediate family willing to adopt me, stepmom becomes my legal guardian
>after everything is settled, she asks me if i still want to be a girl
>i do, still feeling very dysphoric and stressed by puberty
>she organises puberty blockers for me
>while on gnrh’s she teaches me how to be a woman at hone
>fashion, socialising with girls, etc
>fast forward 2 years
>start hrt at 13, somehow she is able to access private healthcare for me
>everything onwards is great, i move schools and socially transition, dealt with some bullying but was fine thanks to her support
>my mom organised and paid for srs when i was 20
>met a man in university who later became my husband
>fast forward to 25
>at a family gathering with my husband
>chatting to one of his aunts, she asks about my trans story and stuff
>tell her how great my mom is and how much she has done to help me out
>after telling her my story she looks shocked
>says that my mom groomed me and took advantage of my position as a lonely child with no parents
i’m so confused, was i groomed? the way i see it, my mom saved my life and i’m thankful to her every day for it. if not for her i likely would have led a pretty sad and lonely life.
>bio mom died in childbirth, live with dad and stepmom
>realise that i am trans/want to be a girl
>dad brushes me off, says i’m just being stupid
>stepmom clearly worried, says she understands
>fast forward 1 year
>dad dies in car accident
>no immediate family willing to adopt me, stepmom becomes my legal guardian
>after everything is settled, she asks me if i still want to be a girl
>i do, still feeling very dysphoric and stressed by puberty
>she organises puberty blockers for me
>while on gnrh’s she teaches me how to be a woman at hone
>fashion, socialising with girls, etc
>fast forward 2 years
>start hrt at 13, somehow she is able to access private healthcare for me
>everything onwards is great, i move schools and socially transition, dealt with some bullying but was fine thanks to her support
>my mom organised and paid for srs when i was 20
>met a man in university who later became my husband
>fast forward to 25
>at a family gathering with my husband
>chatting to one of his aunts, she asks about my trans story and stuff
>tell her how great my mom is and how much she has done to help me out
>after telling her my story she looks shocked
>says that my mom groomed me and took advantage of my position as a lonely child with no parents
i’m so confused, was i groomed? the way i see it, my mom saved my life and i’m thankful to her every day for it. if not for her i likely would have led a pretty sad and lonely life.