Thread 40773826

I feel like, lately, this could be a good idea. We're not less because we wanted to better our lives, but we all recognized it wasn't meant for us.
Let's not hate on ppl for whom transition is the right way.

QOTT: Why did you decide to detransition?

>>40773826 (OP)
I don’t want to look like george costanza any more

>>40773826 (OP)
chud boyfriend forced me to

>>40773859
yo
post your story

>>40773826 (OP)
DEATH BEFORE DETRANSISTION

QOTT: i didn't detransition and i'm not going to, i'm just hear to shit up your dumb thread

>>40773859
lol yeah I get the not wanting to look weird.
>>40773869
that doesn't sound like you rly want it.

>>40773826 (OP)
I didn’t necessarily detransition but I finished one transition and just started going back. Its like a game. Now I’m on T and gonna get top surgery. I’m a biggg doood strong dood.

"detransed" because i terfed out and thought lesbian community had something more for me than the rest of society. and because i was obese 2 years on t, living in my mom's basement.

I detransitioned because the only girls I could get as a troon were other troons

>>40774151
The incel fell for the male lesbian meme lel

>>40773826 (OP)
I realized I value being normal more than being comfortable with my body

>>40774073
So was it fruitful?

>>40773826 (OP)
Considering detransing cause I'm probably not a valid mtf. I'm not even tru AGP like I thought I was for many years I'm just a MEF sissy coomer afterall. It hurts to reject my youthful dreams of womanhood and I'm unsure if I'll actually detrans or not. My dysphoria is not consistent and sometimes I feel neutrally/positivley about my maleness which makes me hate myself. Every decision I make is the wrong one AAAH! (Pleasr someone convince my that I'm a trutrans and that I don't have to let my dreams die)

>>40774336
you can troon if you want, just consider the consequences. it's not an easy life.

>>40774336
You clearly don't want to detrans, so don't.
You don't have to do anything you don't want to do.

>>40774462
>>40774475
I just feel like I'm probably a trender there's no way I actually have this rare ass medical disorder (gender dysphoria) that warants transistioning. It feels like every nerdy/ALT guy is transitioning these days. I found out by stalking social media that 2 of my old middle school classmates (class of 30 kids) are now mtf. WTF there clearly isn't enough genuine gender dysphoria going around for all of us to have it. I even internally see myself as male I just have a persistant desire to be a woman and crash out about how sad it makes me to be a man like a few times a week and spend all my waking hours thinking ab gendef shit. I'm unironically a 2015 tucute steryotype (I should have listened to blaire white)

>>40774570
>I even internally see myself as male
Well that doesn't really mean anything. Most trannies do.

>>40774570
> I just have a persistant desire to be a woman and crash out about how sad it makes me to be a man like a few times a week and spend all my waking hours thinking ab gendef shit
been there, done that. just make sure it's not ocd and then you sound like an avg tranny. I think the most important question to ask is 'who do you want to age into?' and then take decisions accordingly. If it's rly a woman, go for it.

>>40774238
nothing in my life has been fruitful.

>>40774169
nah I got a lot of girls before I trooned out, so thats not why I transitioned.

>>40774862
then why did you decide to transition?

>>40774660
Well how abut you get yourself in shape for a start. Gymmaxxing is good for the soul.

>>40774917
yeah I rly think working out and doing sporty stuff can do a lot for you. taking meticulous care of yourself is not tied to being feminine. you can pluck your eyebrows, have a skin- & haircare routine, shave body hair, etc. without transitioning. it's more about finding a state of being that feels good and where you like who you are.
many trans ppl only accomplish this by transitioning, but for others, it can just be these steps and then the whole way you see yourself changes in a significant enough way that even if you have non-clinical symptoms of gender dysphoria, you can still live a fulfilled life.
nobody's life is perfect.

take your HRT again, retards

>>40775165
is this really all you have to offer? take HRT, grow tits and be a heckin' valid hon? what kind of advice is that if we know we don't want that. i have learned that I'm appreciated as an effeminate gay man more than I am appreciated as a tranny. My dating prospects are better with gay men and what I'm fundamentally looking for is love and a caring relationship. Trooning wouldn't do this for me. I don't want to be a stealthoid afraid of being clocked at every corner and closing myself off to people even if that was a possibility.
I want to be open, I want to participate in society and live a normative life to the best of my abilities. Even if it makes me a little bit unhappy, the constant mental anguish about having to hide being AMAB couldn't possibly be worse imo.

>>40775296
I have no advice for you I'm just telling you to suck it up and cope because it's not going to get any better

>>40775302
nah thanks i'd rather man it up than tranny it up.

>>40773826 (OP)
I tried hrt for a few months, started growing boobs, got scared, then stopped
it's been 3 years since then...

>>40775331
good luck with that, tranny

I hope that one mtftmtftm is doing well and made the right call this time
Miss them

If transitioning has taught me anything it's that there's fundamentally nothing I can do as a woman that I couldn't do as a man. Did I put women on a pedestal for being able to express what I wanted to express myself in a more societally accepted way? Hell yeah.
But pretending to be one is frankly fairly homophobic because there are gay men out there who are effeminate and don't transition. In a sense, they suck it up and man it up harder than anyone else. They live as they are. Facing the societal repercussions head on - and that's more inspiring to me than seeing NEETrannies posting threads about their cuts.

kek I bet you see all effeminate men as women then. The choice between femfag and tranny is fairly obvious. Former is clearly superior, more secure in their identity and giving less of a fuck what others think. I aspire to be like them.

>>40774073
How were you fat on T? Its harder to lose fat on E?

>>40773826 (OP)
who is this in the pic and why are you using a faceapp masc filtered pic of them lmao

>>40775540
detrannies are retarsed like that

>>40773826 (OP)
qott it just felt I was trying to become someone else rather than just being myself. think I hate moid socialization, and will never like it, and dislike being a moid, but most people like men. I feel like a predator as a guy, but most people dont see men as predators. Everyone loves men. Especially men who are attractive and nice people. If I was a tranny, nobody would give me leeway like they do now. And finally, I want a gf and a family some day, so it made sense to detroon

>>40775372
yeah. i learned that too, but also gender roles are also very real, and I found myself just going back to how I presented before hrt. I feel as though if transition actually worked, and you coule literally become the opposite sex, I would have continued, but it's not, and we live in a hard world and such. It's best for me to just try and be the best version of myself I can be.

>>40773826 (OP)
HRT made me too fucking fat. I'm naturally a passoid bc i'm short and androgynous, I was on hrt for a year and gained thirty pounds. I WILL go back on one day when lose the weight. It just might take a while bc I love food.