Thread 40781184

I've been dating this one chaser boy for a while like 4 years now. I love him very deeply and only want the best for him. That being said last week i hung out with a trans girl for a few days and i think I'm falling for her as well...

We had a threesome which was cool but poly is 1000% off the table but i just can't get her out of my head. When we cuddled, held hands and kissed it just felt so special. I don't know if thats just because it was something new after so many years of the same thing but like i didn't even think i liked girls before this. I feel obligated to stay with him because well we live together, he's loved me longer, he did nothing wrong, and i still love him too but i still can't decide.

The girl has more hobbies in common with me but is also a good bit more mentally ill than the boy and myself so I'm not sure. She is also significantly hotter than him. I've been thinking for so many days and i just can't decide. I love them both.

>>40781184 (OP)

don't throw away stability for a one night stand retard

>>40781184 (OP)
Throw away 4 years for the new shiny thing ofc

>>40781196
if they're this retarded its probably for the best to spare their chaser boy their stupidity and just break up and become a transbian with a fellow broken tranny retard

>>40781184 (OP)
dump
his
ass

>>40781184 (OP)
your long term relationship will serve you better than a bout of passion

>>40781184 (OP)
Get the tranny, your bf is not true love also he is ugly compared to the other option

youre a retard and he deserves someone better than you

>>40782015
No he does not since he is a chaser

the important thing is that you choose, and fast
if you don't, you'll wind up with neither of them
source: lived experience

>>40781184 (OP)
And chasers, this is why you must learn to depict and avoid AGPs.

>>40782015
I know

>>40782064
I'm trying to but it's just so hard and i don't want to make a mistake. This was my first relationship and i want it to last especially since its been going on so long but there's just something about her

You’re not mature enough or ready for a relationship at all if you’re asking “who do I choose”. Nobody entering into a relationship would ask this

Kus

>>40781196
>>40781244
duality.

>>40782104
Exactly this. So many chasers complain that trannies are all open / poly. But the reality is that hussies are in such high demand that most get swept up by a Chad early, especially if they pass. They would never date the sort of chasers these metas get with. So all thats left for the mid chaser is meta attracted AGPs like OP who eventually become transbians again.

>>40782043
guys can't win, if he's not attracted to trans girls he's transphobic, if he's attracted to trans girls he's a gross chaser. fuck all of you people

>>40783708
Yes.

>>40783708
>I’m the real victim
Chasers every time

>>40783708
This

>>40783737
not even a chaser. i'm nonbinary asexual-leaning. i just hate hypocrites

>>40783737
>My boyfriend is a disgusting fetishist, the worst punishment I can think is dating me ofc

>>40783737
Gross meta attracted hon transbian with AGP typed this, also Pichu ugly.

>>40781184 (OP)
you're retarded and should keep sleeping with people with your supposed bf.
none of these people are going to be in your life within 3 months so it doesnt matter.

>>40781184 (OP)
Break up, dating men is the training, real relationships is only possible with between woman. This girl might be the one and if you decide to stay with him it will only make you miserable

>>40783814
You can only ever date men by the definition if you go the transbian route anyways it's all the same, it's a choice between dating boring straight men or dating crossdressing sissy men

im in the polar opposite situation geg, been with my gf for two years and we live together. unfortunately (due to mental illness, i dont blame her at all) she kinda treats me like shit and is very dependent on me, which i cant really handle anymore

meanwhile im heavily crushing on a boy, he's really nice to me and treats me better and he's hot and and and...

i cant really leave my gf because she'd probably kill herself, or be broken beyond repair, but i have sacrificed literally all of myself for her, have gotten very little in return and i cant take it anymore.

idk whether its a grass is greener thing but im just kinda scared of relationships as a whole now, i dont want to fall out of love with someone and hurt them like im currently doing to my gf
oh also poly is off the table because, while i am evidently evil, im not a degen

>>40783765
What
>>40783781
No I’m just tired of listening to grown ass men whine about the most innocuous shit while trannies have real fucking problems. Get over yourselves

>>40784073
>What
Take a look in the answers above. This whole thread is grotesque

>>40781184 (OP)
Well if your bf really is ugly then I dunno, I would want me gf to find me hot, the thought my gf would secretly think I am way less hot than other people she fantasizes about is insanely humiliating and I'd rather not be in that position so on one hand you'd do him a favor to break it off but on the other hand if he doesn't know he ain't hurt, is your sexual attraction for the guycompletely kill or just slightly less compared to the new girl?

>>40783675
well the solution is easy, just be a chad, being a chaser without gym maxxing and money maxxing is a guaranteed recipe for your tranny gf to bring up open relationships on a conversation at some point eventually

>>40781244
almost fpbp

>>40781184 (OP)
I hope you kill yourself

>>40784296
He's kinda fat and muscular but i do kinda like that idk. I'm still attracted to him I'm just more attracted to the girl. Idk, on my scale I'd say he's a 5/10 and shes an 8/10 to me. It's also a different type of attraction.

More unrelated info that also matters is that he isn't as close to my poltics but she is like an exact copy of me politically

>>40781196 Thats really femalebrained behavior
>>40782988 Rip your ability to bond
>>40783708 Stuff like this is reinforcing my belief that tansgirls are just practice gf material

>>40781184 (OP)
Never date bi trannies
Never date slut trannies
>>40783675
Utterly delusional. Almost no men want trannies long-term whether they pass or not.

>>40787148
Just follow the two rules here: >>40787655. Also never date baby trans.

I've been with the same guy for 11 years. the rush of a new relationship only lasts from 3-6 months. of course you're capable of experiencing this feeling after being in a relationship for 3 years, the feeling doesn't mean you should drop your current relationship, only do that if that relationship isn't working. this is exactly why threesomes, open relationships, etc are a dumb idea. you perturbed a good thing for a cheap thrill.

>>40783983
dump her you only get one life

>>40783675
>most get swept up by a Chad early
What planet are you from? Trannies are lower value to men than obese single mothers.

>>40788199
that's bs, we're a scarce resource

>>40788223
So are amputee veteran obese schizophrenic single mothers. Rare =/= desired.

>>40785734
>he isn't as close to my poltics but she is like an exact copy of me politically
LMAO
holy shit are you really gonna destroy your loving relationship because you two LARP under different political aesthetics on the internet?