As a 6'3 well-endowed, high-income, muscular, masculine heterosexual chad of a cisgendered man myself, how do I get a ravishing trans woman to rape my throat?
>>40790415
Here be the conundrum: >reveal your preference is a non bottom dysphoric girl with functional bits and look like a creep >hope the girl you're talking to is the way you like it, and risk breaking her heart when she notices you're feeling unsatisfied
Either way you're gonna suffer, nobody will attempt to understand you
>>40790490
It is mainly used to block men from expressing any specific preference or attraction, so yes, but in a general way, it can apply to women too, but as said they have an higher leeway
>>40790509
Just be honest, it doesn't apply to women, and isn't used that way. It means a man expressing his sexuality in a way a woman finds offensive and isn't really used any other way.
>>40790431
They don't understand you because they don't care to, and that makes it a lot easier to sort through them to find the right woman. Do you think they feel bad calling you a creep or chaser? Of course not and neither should you, just move on and be grateful for them not wasting your time because I promise you she's out there you need to wade through the weird and autistic ones. And treat her right for fucks sake when you do find her.
>>40790768
It's demoralising and embarrassing, that's why it's so effective, it's enough to make you believe you're in the wrong for having a stated preference, without even knowing how serious you are as a person or as a partner.
Especially if they call you a fetishist, that one is pretty much an atomic bomb on you, yet even so, does that really mean you won't be able to commit and love that person?
>>40790785
Just disregard it and move on, don't even bother arguing with them or getting on the defensive. Being called a fetishist hurts if you genuinely like trans women but it's usually projection from those individuals who are in fact fetishizing you and therefore are not interested in building a relationship or exploring sexually with you. Brush it off and keep moving.
>>40790896
The question is what are you gonna do about that dawg?
I'm out but good luck finding your woman. Stop being a pussy and be unapologetically you.
>>40790431
you guys are screwed because you're associated with pump and dumpers
but as long as you're open and honest and frank about what you want and don't lie, then i think its fine
>>40791023
I also perfectly understand that it's awkward and creepy to jump at any point to a conversation about "does your dick still work", so that also is a big problem waiting to hit us in the head.
Thus far being open and honest has been a detriment, but at the same time, I don't want to weasel my way in to be that weird chasoid that suddenly is like "why is your dick soft" after we've started dating
