Thread 40795391

Is it really gay if I allowed my gf to fuck me? I am not attracted to men and calling myself gay feels wrong and dishonest. I don't completely trust myself to judge because what if my ego is trying to protect me and a man letting something go in his butt is actually very gay.

If I think of how I look at other people and categorize their sexual orientation, it's always based on who they are sexually involved with and who they desire to be with, not what they do with that person. Is that just subconscious cope?

Please help

yes, trans women are larping gay men and you are gay for being with them

>>40795415
thats my view on it as well, but ur probly just gonna have everybody calling you gay for having anything near your ass, no matter what.

t. i like guys and things up my butt

>>40795733
Does that mean most people consider it gay or are they just trolling? I thought the lgbt board would have a sticky for this.

>>40795391 (OP)
do what makes you happy

>>40795391 (OP)
if you like pre-op trans women you're bisexual

>>40795876
I will of course.

>>40795391 (OP)
i am going to fuck my bf with a peg soon and i don't think he is gay

>>40795885
amab + amab = gay
pre-op, post-op, top, bottom
none of it makes a lick of difference!

>>40795905
i didn't ask
gay men do not like tits, feminine thighs, smooth female skin etc.
it's bisexual
t.ranny

>>40795893
thats good. theres no need to care about what people think

fellas is having sex with a woman gay

>>40795885
>>40795592
I'm in tears laughing, I was thinking how the fuck does this anon know I think trans women are hot when I've never told anyone and would never act on it? And then it clicked, I need to add some context here.

>gf lives in another town
>she's not trans
>she's actually very feminine, likes to cook great at baking, old fashioned country girl and takes care of me diligently
>stay with her every weekend as soon as i finish work friday
>find her vibrator
>ask if i can use it on her while i fuck her
>says only if she can use it on me
>tell her she's joking, no way
>she presses on
>it will feel good babe i promise
>says she wants to give me something special and hear how i moan
>let her fuck me with it
>says it brings her immense pleasure to please me in every way
>be alright with it but don't know if it makes me gay

>>40795914
I don't but for the sake of knowing myself, it's one of my principles that I don't want to be a fraud or dishonest about myself.

>>40796048
>>she's not trans
then you meant "peg me", not "fuck me".
and no this is definitely not gay

>>40796064
i dont think treating sexuality as a clear cut thing will do you any favors. its complicated.
for what its worth i would not say its gay

>>40796068
She fucked me, penetrated me with her vibrator, a peg is the dowel you put into picrel unless it's been stolen for lgbt slang.

>>40796128
a cis girl fucking her boyfriend with something phallic is called "pegging"
type it into pornhub if you don't believe me
you're welcome

>>40796128
peg means when a girl fucks a boy
we have to use a dildo since we don't have penises

>>40796143
I'm not really into porn I think it causes brain damage at least I recall reading that, she called it fucking and so did I. Is it offensive to trans women to say that or something?

>>40796180
no, it's just called pegging by everyone.
if you say "my gf fucked me" people are going to assume she has a dick / she's trans
if you say "my gf pegged me" people are going to assume she does not have a dick and she's cis
simple as.

>>40796192
idk if this is really true most people aren't going to assume a girl has a penis but they will assume OP is gay

>>40795391 (OP)
Yes, obviously letting another male enter your anus is a homosexual act even if he is crossdressing at the time.

Now if it's a ciswoman pegging you with a dildo, I would still err on the side of of faggotry although I admit the math is more complicated. I think at the end of the day it would probably reduce down bisexuality moreso than a chaser bottom.

>>40796192
Ok thank you I don't think I'll talk about this again anyway but good to know.

>>40795913
gay men into feminine men like that...

>>40795415
>it's always based on who they are sexually involved with and who they desire to be with, not what they do with that person
Says fuckin' who. When actual heteros find out someone likes to get pegged they definitely think that person is a faggot even if they are getting pegged by a ciswoman.

>>40796244
straight guys know SO much about what gay men like nowadays don't they

>>40796218
Interesting so letting her fuck or to use the more appropriate word peg me is considered bisexuality? Just for the sake of knowing what to say if people ever inquired about my sexuality.

>>40796048
>called it being a pegging story
Yes you are not straight, this is entry level faggotry.

>>40796270
>you are not straight
So bi?

>>40796267
>Just for the sake of knowing what to say if people ever inquired about my sexuality
If you want to be autistic you can call yourself a gynephilic bisexual (aka someone who is bi but only attracted to femininity) or just a bisexual, or straight. Just lie, no one cares. But this most certainly is not the behavior of a straight male.

>>40796310
Thanks, not that anyone asked me but if they do now I know and it's important that I know where I fit into the scheme of things too.

>>40796329
>it's important that I know where I fit into the scheme of things too
This is largely why I engage in these mental games, I will only ever introduce myself as straight if asked.

>gynephilic bisexual (aka someone who is bi but only attracted to femininity)
Personally this is what I (mentally) label myself as a transwoman/femboy enjoyer who only fucks ciswoman in the physical realm.

>>40796246
I only have one example of my friendship circle finding out one of the guys gets fucked by his wife and nobody said it was gay but we did laugh at the absurdity. Now I am the absurdity.

>>40796375
I would date the hell out of a trans woman but they're not really a thing where I live (aus). Guess that seals me being bi?

>>40796747
>Guess that seals me being bi?
some trans girls are very neurotic and want straight guys to be into their dicks
very weird to me but yeah, i wouldn't apply my words generally to all of us
>>40796218
cringe
>>40796246
"actual heteros"
you mean fragile men?
>>40796310
>But this most certainly is not the behavior of a straight male.
ah there he is, the fragile male!

>>40796747
>Guess that seals me being bi?
Any sane person would tell you yes. People deep in layers of cope here might tell you that it's straight to touch a woman's penis. But a sane person would never use the phrase "woman's penis" to begin with.

>>40796780
>you mean fragile men?
I mean actual heterosexuals. As in straight men that are not homosexual in any capacity.

>ah there he is, the fragile male!
Straight males do not enjoy the sensation of an object entering their anus.

>>40796747
they are here in oz my girl is a tranny and she never fucked me but she threatens to when i do something to piss her off or when she teases me. it's hot as fuck never had a girl like that before. move to melbourne

>>40796852
>Straight males do not enjoy the sensation of an object entering their anus.
does anyone?

>>40796852
you are deluded mate every bloke has a prostate whether you want it to or not it will stimulate you. no worries if you don't want it i don't either but don't act like you don't have a g spot that's sad and closeted

>>40796884
If one "does not want it" then they do not enjoy the sensation. It will not turn them on. It will feel like a violation rather than sexual pleasure.

Sad that this must be explained to you, but not all that shocking.

>>40796780
>>40796833
I suspected as much, I don't lust after penis but if my gf had one and she wanted me to touch it I'd happily oblige, I assume a fully straight guy would be disgusted by trans women in general.

>>40796867
I am in Melbourne, only ever met cis women. My gf lives in Ballarat.

>>40796868
I enjoyed it but I'm a gynephilic bisexual.

>>40796929
Nta but I didn't want it at first, still felt good at points.

>>40796048
shitty larp

but no doing sexual stuff with a woman isn't gay, i mean it's not necessarily gay to put shit up your ass unless you fantasize about it being a dick or a man fucking you

>>40797237
Not that it makes a difference, I thought my life would be painfully regular for people like you. Why is it hard to believe?

>>40796852
>Straight males do not enjoy the sensation of an object entering their anus.
that's cool bro go find yourself a church girl or whatever, leave the hot bi girls to me that's fine lmao
send me a postcard from your boring sexless marriage in 10 years

Imagine letting your gf top you lmao fucking pathethic man

>>40795391 (OP)
Very based anon. You go king!